Confessions of a Female Virgin (Page 2)

[Guavalott]

This whole list is so spot on. I'm a virgin at 24 and I hate the first one so much. Being a virgin doesn't mean people can patronise us, there's so many reasons why someone would be a virgin and it's not always down to being a prude or waiting until marriage.

[Schrodingerscat]

22 and virgin here. And I don't plan to lose it anytime soon

[luvstoned4him]

I am a virgin and I approve this MYTAKE! <3

I especially resonate with 2,3,5 & 6

[Anonymous]

I love this! This is exactly what my friends say about me! Although I go beyond virgin. I've never kissed any one. My friend who is a guy asked me why. I told him because I haven't found anyone I've wanted to kiss yet.
👍🏻 to you! I'm only 15 and my friends already tease me for being a virgin!

[Alice2398]

Your only 15 you should just ignore your friends and if it gets to you, Just say "there's nothing wrong with having standards"

[Opinion Owner]

I'll do that. 😄

[AnuragArya]

You are saying so because deep inside you are frustrated of your virginity and are willing to lose it. But you are waiting for your perfect guy which is never gonna happen as there is nothing PERFECT in this world.
This of your frustration keeps the topic of sex clicking in your mind which makes you think like what you have described here. And, this will go on untill you stop reading the theories and just do the practical.

[Malik00]

Take all that and reverse it to talk about guys and you pretty much said my thoughts on most of what it means to be a male virgin.

Honestly only reason i would prefer a female virgin is so we could go through our first together.

But yeah i honestly have the mind of a male slut, but i want my first time to be with someone i have respect for regardless of whether we stay together or not.

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

Honestly, I am a virgin and I'm thrity years old.
I see that girl in my campus and she's a virgin.
I see Jesus Christ and he's a virgin.
So I'm staying a virgin for ever.
So my heavenly father is looking for a virgin spouse so he approves of her.
Are the only days I will commit to marriage.

[WeirdCinderella]

I don't really understand virgin women who are ashamed. I'm virgin myself and that's far to be a shame. Without being proud of it, I don't feel like doing it yet so people just have to take their time and go at their own rythm.

[Logorithim]

Appreciate your perspective here. People can be virgins for any number of reasons.

[Anonymous]

I am just gonna say somethings, virginity is not such a big thing as people make it. Other than that when someone writes that they are waiting for the right guy who treats them nicely and isn't just interested in sex, that's bullshit. All guys are interested in sex if they are dating you until and unless they have friendzone you or are in a relationship. If someone treats you nicely, he wants something. Girls are the worst judge as much as I know when it comes to judging personalities. They take things are face value so easily it sucks. I remember you making a post that said that just because guy you were dating got a car, you're more attracted to him or something like that. That's because girls want that. Girls don't want Nice guys or naive guys. They want assholes who can actually make shit happen.

[danielman22]

Unfortunately its true

[xkildy]

I think the first part of your comment is sad to hear , For a guy its nothing to lose our V card cause it will not hurt we don't fell any pain when a part of us is being popped ripped open we don't bleed our first time and we can't get pregnant. But I agree with you on mostly the rest cause its very sadly true that most young girls WILL not choose the nice guy or the one that looks at them with love in there eyes and will most likely take care of them. They want the guy with buff peeks a real mean ass that can protect her. (bad guy) Now not all bad guys are the same there are a small percent that will actually care for her. But all in all almost no girl wants a nice caring guy at first. They have to learn the hard way every time

[jacquesvol]

There's nothing wrong with you.

[SydneyTW]

All very true. I mean, I'm not the kind of person to make dirty jokes or curse much, but that doesn't make me innocent either. I'm not sure if I'm waiting for marriage or just the right guy.

[Knighted2170]

This is a good take. It's not easy to just put yourself out there like that. Hopefully it will help someone from doing something they may regret later on.

[Anonymous]

when i read the whole text, i felt like being virgin there sounded like something worse.
just in what shi*tty place of the world are you living in?
serious guys go after virgins and make a good family. every man wants a woman that has self respect.

[fonduegirl]

I'd like to say this once (again) :


- virgin or not, everyone deserves to be respected unless proved otherwise.

you cannot judge somebody based on their v status!!!

[PrettyRegular]

It doesn't effect to your personality, have you had sex or not. I have never done it and it doesn't bother me a bit.

[Eva323]

You’re right that this doesn’t apply to everyone because I’m pretty sure I’m as boring as anyone ever was.

[DaDon72]

My only fear with not being a virgin is that when I meet the one I am going to have regrets about not waiting to give it all to that person..

[Frankenstein99]

So you went from being a virgin to in your words "Late on the train". Well there is no middle ground with you is there. ( just a joke, i refer you to points 1 and 6).

[SouthernGirl23]

there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. your body , your choice.

[SouthernGirl23]

And you're very pretty so you have every right to be picky😉. focus on school. boys last