#1 is the key. Unfortunately, females are interested in the "certain look" a guy has, as oppose to stuff like the courage it takes to be one's self, doing kind things for others & expecting nothing in return, etc. For the most part, if you don't have this "certain look", you might as well save your breath, money, time, & txt.
It's an interesting list and there's a lot that I (begrudgingly) agree with and my additions/comments are outlined below. Your list is essentially a way of addressing her emotional needs. It should be emphasized in bold that much of your list applies IF the girl finds you attractive, and that it's more of a list to keep her around once you're in a relationship or the possibility of one is very real.
LOL even I'm a girl, I don't think girls require this much. Even most in this list is true but most also can be solved just by the fact that he truly love us girls so something mismatch or unsuitable becomes acceptable too
It sounds like you're asking guys to bear with all the crap girls want to show or do, not really try to show how women should understand men. Tips for success, huh? This could mean it's you who's still single with all this information.
Let me ask this when you said you like it when us guys call or text you more often. How many times a week is good for more often and this includes texting and calling. I like the list
Number 3, Start saying what you mean, that is one of the leading causes of complications in a relationship. 23. Depends on what you want. The rest of the list makes sense.
Generally... this is epic! Point 23 sorta makes it sound like we're just objects to gals though : | ... and sorta like we're the only ones who should be making an effort. Surely this was unintentional...? o.O
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#1 is the key. Unfortunately, females are interested in the "certain look" a guy has, as oppose to stuff like the courage it takes to be one's self, doing kind things for others & expecting nothing in return, etc. For the most part, if you don't have this "certain look", you might as well save your breath, money, time, & txt.
a guy with abs also
It's an interesting list and there's a lot that I (begrudgingly) agree with and my additions/comments are outlined below. Your list is essentially a way of addressing her emotional needs. It should be emphasized in bold that much of your list applies IF the girl finds you attractive, and that it's more of a list to keep her around once you're in a relationship or the possibility of one is very real.
10) Only if you like the guy will this work
12) But only the exact amount she needs you. If you overdo it you're screwed. If you underdo it you're screwed
21) The bold part is true, unless she's an emotional whore.
22) Everyone does. But you want us to provide it for you.
23) You sound pretty entitled there.
25) As long as you don't do it too often and behave more girlish than she does
26) As long as you don't say it everyday and only if she likes you
I have some gripes with this article outlined below.
1) You like it when a guy you like texts/calls often. You're annoyed when a guy you dislike does this.
2) You're worry-warts.
3) Then refrain from speaking until you can say what you actually mean.
4) Being upfront about it never got me anywhere.
5) Only if she likes you will this work and only if you don't say it every hour.
6) Only if she likes you and only if you're not more emotional than she is will this work.
LOL even I'm a girl, I don't think girls require this much. Even most in this list is true but most also can be solved just by the fact that he truly love us girls so something mismatch or unsuitable becomes acceptable too
It sounds like you're asking guys to bear with all the crap girls want to show or do, not really try to show how women should understand men. Tips for success, huh? This could mean it's you who's still single with all this information.
...1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.
1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight, but did you know men really don’t mind that, it’s like camping
and perhaps result in something of a domino effect.
The format here is kind of confusing and doesn't allow enough space to clarify all the things on this list. A guy just have to get it.
Let me ask this when you said you like it when us guys call or text you more often. How many times a week is good for more often and this includes texting and calling. I like the list
Number 3, Start saying what you mean, that is one of the leading causes of complications in a relationship. 23. Depends on what you want. The rest of the list makes sense.
This is just a list of things girls fundamentally want, but it doesn't necessary mean every girls needs or want everything on this list.
I have to totally agree with you all guys should know this to understand girls better .:D Awesome article.
Number 7--nice thought, but more and more guys are going to turn into that as they see girls adoring those types of guys.
This is a classic list of things women say they want but which lead to dating failure if a guy actually does them.
21 is so totally wrong, for anyone. Purge that idea from your head.
this is good advice for guys on how to keep a girlfriend
27. We only like good looking men, although we will settle for other men providing they have money.
Money can only last so long which ain’t long enough
These are platitudes. What does 'be romantic' MEAN? Those are the real questions to answer!
Generally... this is epic! Point 23 sorta makes it sound like we're just objects to gals though : | ... and sorta like we're the only ones who should be making an effort. Surely this was unintentional...? o.O
Your lives must be one letdown after another with these desires and expectations, haha. I feel for you.