Awesome, keep up the good work, marine science is a very competitive industry, very important ecosystems, it's another world down there, I stick to terrestrial woodland communities, in particular Australian east coast species. And I love dolphins to, very intelligent social animals.
I keep seeing that. I'm suprised so many people have commented. And it's been featured? Lol
I don't even know how I would start writing a book. For one I hate doing it and two, this one was different. I was just talking about my experience. I don't know.
I make friends in real life only. I'm just online for questions and answers so I never have to deal with this issue because whether the other person is young, old, male, female, or remotely looks like the profile pic is irrelevant to me.
You have a very interesting story I have to say, sounds like it could be from a book or a film about bullying. Reminds me of my middle school time a little too. I'm honestly surprised that your plan worked so well and no one found out
Someone faking an entire military career. Used someone else's photos. Even faked a deployment. "I may not make it back. I jsut want to see how beautiful you look in case" cringey shit like that.
No. I was saying that I would pretend to be 18 that way OLDER men would send me their penis pics because many times men ask how old you are before they send. I was getting more dick pics when I was 18.
I got into fight once with my female bestie coz she was not replying me on time so she said to me thay "you don't know how much crap we gals have to deal with in our dm" then i made a fake account and hell yeah u gals get to see a lot of dicks that was insane. 😂
It's always the quiet ones that end up causing all the commotion, and like you said it's not for trying --- It's you that make the imagined world as much an interesting place as the real world.
This was a great story to hear. I was usually the odd kid out but I didn't have to go this far to get out of it, but I respect that you did what you had to do.
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That's a great story! Really an interesting read. Though I'm pretty sure most catfishing is just for kicks rather than to solve a problem like you were doing.
I follow this take and get notifications whenever someone comments or gives a response. I didn’t look at what he was commenting about and assumed he was talking about one of my Mytakes. I thought he was talking to me.
@Aakash_Hangargi You CAN'T know that. Just because she intended all her exchanges to be platonic doesn't mean some guys didn't take interest all the same. And just bevause she called it quits doesn't mean their weren't some people that wanted a closer personal friendship. You shouldn't deceive people And we have no way of knowing how many people she hurt.
Maybe it's what we choose to beleive, but I don't think somebody who goth rough this pain of writing what and how they felt may be you are right maybe you are not but it's the writers story I choose to trust though writer agrees that it's wrong but it's in the past
@Aakash_Hangargi I've actually thought of creating an catfish account on a dating website just to see the difference in attention a guy with male model looks etc. get. I mean. it would only be to have a few conversations so by your and her logic. It's harmless. I wouldn't keep the ruse going. But i would be willing to bet the woman involved wouldn't feel that way. I get contacted by catfish daily. I've gotyen very good at spotting them. Because most catfish are lazy. But it doesn't make them any lesd anmoying.
I understand that but the difference was she was young and she used it as defense mechanism not on purpose, and also sometimes we get carried away it's possible to happen but she corrected it and at that age what she could have known and mostly would have been afraid knowing that she was already liying so different scenarios
@Aakash_Hangargi there are 12 year olds tried for murder. You're just excusing her from any wrongdoing. If i had went through wirh it i could claim it was defensive because it wasn't meant to hurt anyone. It was just a social experiment
I know but you are thinking to extreme of it as told even she realised it was wrong but it's a child's mind it was wrong and false under cyber crime as well, I don't know if it fell under that category back then things could beeb different but a person bullied definetly knows what and how it feels and to be alone I am going with feeling on this one knowing what could ne her mind at that age and thought process its solely my opinion and I stand by it we can agree to disagree
You have been deceived by worse - the government and Trump are some that is brought to mind about this Corona Virus. I would liken her deception to a small white lie.
Come on, you are deceived every day that you are on the internet with ads and with Facebook people who are there just to direct you to their cam girl sites. You are deceived every time someone tells you prostitution and porn is harmless. How many were deceived into believing cigarette smoking was harmless? There are over 400,000 that die from this deception every year. You have no idea about deceptions. Go preach on a different pulpit and ask your wife where she was the other night.
I never made Jessica with intent to harm anyone. It was impulsive. I was backed into a corner and it was between breaking down and crying in front of everyone or defending myself. I wasn’t a fighter but also not the type to ball up and take a beating. Saying I had a best friend was the first thing i said in that split second. And when it worked it felt like my only protection.
The girl in my story wasn’t the only girl that picked on me at school. She had friends but she was the ring leader. I didn’t go deep into it but they would gang up on me at times.
Jessica was like this magical wand that made everything better. So I held onto it. There were boys who did try to get with her but I always turned them down. I never led anyone on.
I didn’t share my story for empathy and I never said it was ok. It’s just my perspective and “why” I became a catfish.
@AllieOops no she was catfishing people i was publicly shaming her for it. There is no troll in that i was simply calling her out for what she did. You should be ashamed of yourself for defending her. But actors and actresesses aren't known for being the brightest bunch.
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Very Interesting, thankyou for the insight. Hope you have good friends now, and did you follow through with your study of Marine science.
I'm a marine biologist major and I graduate next year :D
Thank you!
OOooooooo. Smart.
I am do happy that you acheived what you wanted you are The Women👏👏👏
Awesome, keep up the good work, marine science is a very competitive industry, very important ecosystems, it's another world down there, I stick to terrestrial woodland communities, in particular Australian east coast species.
And I love dolphins to, very intelligent social animals.
You definitely got me hooked with your story like most are saying you should think about a book if you can't write it get someone to help you
I keep seeing that. I'm suprised so many people have commented. And it's been featured? Lol
I don't even know how I would start writing a book. For one I hate doing it and two, this one was different. I was just talking about my experience. I don't know.
Thanks!
If you got the right person to help you then you could talk as they wrote it all down if you do I want a signed copy lol
I make friends in real life only. I'm just online for questions and answers so I never have to deal with this issue because whether the other person is young, old, male, female, or remotely looks like the profile pic is irrelevant to me.
You have a very interesting story I have to say, sounds like it could be from a book or a film about bullying. Reminds me of my middle school time a little too.
I'm honestly surprised that your plan worked so well and no one found out
Cat fishing and catching cat fish is like a hobby for me.
And what is the biggest catfish you ever caught?
Someone faking an entire military career. Used someone else's photos. Even faked a deployment. "I may not make it back. I jsut want to see how beautiful you look in case" cringey shit like that.
I use to catfish all the time, mostly so guys would think I'm older and more would send me naked pictures.
Lol 😂 u enjoy seeing younger gyz naked 😂😂
No. I was saying that I would pretend to be 18 that way OLDER men would send me their penis pics because many times men ask how old you are before they send. I was getting more dick pics when I was 18.
Ohk i got it. Lol 😂
I got into fight once with my female bestie coz she was not replying me on time so she said to me thay "you don't know how much crap we gals have to deal with in our dm" then i made a fake account and hell yeah u gals get to see a lot of dicks that was insane. 😂
Love it ❤ its so easy to get d pics and sext everynight no problem.
Guess u have changed now. Am i wrong? 😂😂
What
I mean ur habit of asking for dick pics lol 😂 *no offence*
Heck nah. Why would I pass that up when they are free and so many offer. Love it
Lol, u r jus like mah girlfriend 😂
Dope
Uh i was wondering that can we chat 😅
It's always the quiet ones that end up causing all the commotion, and like you said it's not for trying --- It's you that make the imagined world as much an interesting place as the real world.
Ohhhhh, so that's a MyTake.
I had no idea.
Very good writing. I enjoyed it. Good personal story!
Someone should grade this and give an "A+" :)
Thanks for posting this. This makes a lot of sense.
This was a great story to hear. I was usually the odd kid out but I didn't have to go this far to get out of it, but I respect that you did what you had to do.
That's a great story! Really an interesting read. Though I'm pretty sure most catfishing is just for kicks rather than to solve a problem like you were doing.
You should catfish as a dolphin on tinder. Thirsty dudes would still try and smash
What a beautiful story! Made me misty eyed! You are a Lovely person for sharing this and may you be blessed in everyday imaginable! 🙏❤🤗
That was so much relatable, I like ur story even I have an imaginary ghost.😅
Our real selves aren't loved. People like the fake you.
read your mytake. i want to pm you; can you follow me back?
Alright then
My account isn't private. Anyone can pm me. I think. Tag me in your take and I should be able to see it. @Dongtai, what the heck are you mad about?
I follow this take and get notifications whenever someone comments or gives a response. I didn’t look at what he was commenting about and assumed he was talking about one of my Mytakes. I thought he was talking to me.
@Dongtai You follow this post?
And yet I can't get follow back? I see how it is, Dongtai Dx
The funny thing is that you actually believe your deception was harmless.
It was harmless, she didn't do anything with ID when no one supports you then you have to be your own hero
@Aakash_Hangargi You CAN'T know that. Just because she intended all her exchanges to be platonic doesn't mean some guys didn't take interest all the same. And just bevause she called it quits doesn't mean their weren't some people that wanted a closer personal friendship. You shouldn't deceive people And we have no way of knowing how many people she hurt.
Maybe it's what we choose to beleive, but I don't think somebody who goth rough this pain of writing what and how they felt may be you are right maybe you are not but it's the writers story I choose to trust though writer agrees that it's wrong but it's in the past
@Aakash_Hangargi I've actually thought of creating an catfish account on a dating website just to see the difference in attention a guy with male model looks etc. get.
I mean. it would only be to have a few conversations so by your and her logic. It's harmless. I wouldn't keep the ruse going. But i would be willing to bet the woman involved wouldn't feel that way.
I get contacted by catfish daily. I've gotyen very good at spotting them. Because most catfish are lazy. But it doesn't make them any lesd anmoying.
I understand that but the difference was she was young and she used it as defense mechanism not on purpose, and also sometimes we get carried away it's possible to happen but she corrected it and at that age what she could have known and mostly would have been afraid knowing that she was already liying so different scenarios
@Aakash_Hangargi there are 12 year olds tried for murder. You're just excusing her from any wrongdoing.
If i had went through wirh it i could claim it was defensive because it wasn't meant to hurt anyone. It was just a social experiment
I know but you are thinking to extreme of it as told even she realised it was wrong but it's a child's mind it was wrong and false under cyber crime as well, I don't know if it fell under that category back then things could beeb different but a person bullied definetly knows what and how it feels and to be alone I am going with feeling on this one knowing what could ne her mind at that age and thought process its solely my opinion and I stand by it we can agree to disagree
@Aakash_Hangargi and you're fre to say that and i'm free to keep reminding you you're just making excuses for a predator.
I won't agree on that, but you are free to think so it's fine
Who did she actually harm? It actually taught some people some lessons on bullying.
@AllieOops she harmed everyone she decieved.
You have been deceived by worse - the government and Trump are some that is brought to mind about this Corona Virus. I would liken her deception to a small white lie.
@AllieOops of course you do you're a woman.
Come on, you are deceived every day that you are on the internet with ads and with Facebook people who are there just to direct you to their cam girl sites. You are deceived every time someone tells you prostitution and porn is harmless. How many were deceived into believing cigarette smoking was harmless? There are over 400,000 that die from this deception every year. You have no idea about deceptions. Go preach on a different pulpit and ask your wife where she was the other night.
@AllieOops are you acting right now? Because you're not very good at it. Maybe you should consider another line of work.
I never made Jessica with intent to harm anyone. It was impulsive. I was backed into a corner and it was between breaking down and crying in front of everyone or defending myself. I wasn’t a fighter but also not the type to ball up and take a beating. Saying I had a best friend was the first thing i said in that split second. And when it worked it felt like my only protection.
The girl in my story wasn’t the only girl that picked on me at school. She had friends but she was the ring leader. I didn’t go deep into it but they would gang up on me at times.
Jessica was like this magical wand that made everything better. So I held onto it. There were boys who did try to get with her but I always turned them down. I never led anyone on.
I didn’t share my story for empathy and I never said it was ok. It’s just my perspective and “why” I became a catfish.
It doesn't matter what your intent was. It's not ok to play with other peoples emotions.
You’ve said that already. We get what your stance on this subject is. Everyone is entitled to an opinion and I respect yours. Thank you for reading 🙏
That's what i'm here for. To help :)
Well I'm a better actor than you are a troll.
Ah ha ha ha! I like that. "To help". More like to tear down. But nice thought anyway.
I love how you trolls can only post anonymously because you are cowards.
@AllieOops He's just bored. It didn't really have an affect on me. I just wasn't going to argue with him.
@AllieOops no she was catfishing people i was publicly shaming her for it. There is no troll in that i was simply calling her out for what she did. You should be ashamed of yourself for defending her. But actors and actresesses aren't known for being the brightest bunch.
Nor are anon trolls. Go back to doing your school on line lessons and troll the political forums.
@AllieOops why i'm single handedly raising your IQ. Just by responding to you. You should be thanking me.
Cat fishing is wrong always be your own person everywhere you go there's a bully
listen i really hated sluts in highschool where evrey men does evreything to them thats why they laugh and your not in the group