Sometimes that past can actually pose a danger to the guy; e. g., if she has Borderline Personality Disorder or other mental illnesses as a result of abuse or perhaps other causes.
1. What if she is getting those "demons" fixed? 2. I was arrested at 20 for vandalism over 20 years ago. I NEVER got arrested again, nothing criminal, nothing. Traffic citations, yes, but criminal nothing. People can reform, they can change. They can learn not to repeat the same mistakes from their past!
@Sweetsurprize: Your circumstances weren't due to mental illness and were quite fixable. That's in no way comparable to severe mental illness like the aforementioned BPD, which cannot be fixed.
@RealMarek: I didn't find out about until I was 47, and even then only because someone else who knew her was in the mental health field and we could figure out that she had it as part of her co-morbidity. I'm very lucky to have gotten out of that relationship in one piece.
@Avicenna It’s interesting you mention being lucky to get out of it in one piece, because I got sick and she treated me terribly during that time, and I realized I would be physically abused if I ever had a serious illness and was unable to escape. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me.
The world doesn't owe you understanding. I get that some women can have horrible pasts, but everyone has a past. It's not a majority woman only issue, everyone male or female can have a traumatic past.
>The world doesn't owe you understanding< That is true. At the end of the day, everyone can do (and feel) whatever the fuck they want in their life, but then what if YOU were the one on the receiving end of that judgement and rejection? Would YOU like being passed over because of those things? Especially things maybe that were out of your control?
what a pointless platitude. there's pasts i don't accept in a partner. and there's pasts i don't mind. sop the saying "every woman has a past" is just saying nothing.
No. A man's job is not to fix broken women. Broken women shouldn't date. Nor should broken men. No one still enslaved by past drama should be bringing that shit into anyone else's life and demanding the other person fix them.
The Kraken is correct also women are not the only victims males are the biggest victims nowadays a female only needs to pick up the phone and make up a story and completely destroy a man's life
You say she needs to know the truth what do you need to know you need to see her bruises what she said is the truth And this is her take not your take why are you trying to put her down for something that is so real by doing that you put every other woman down too
@ohsheeT Ah yes, every woman is a victim of the patriarchy. Every man should be a Capt Save-A-Hoe, women can do no wrong. Have we not learned anything over the past 20+ years. Women have created an environment where they manipulate men like puppets, all the whole racking up sexual partners like crazy. I have no sympathy.
We must have read two different stores the one I read she was making a point on how women are abused. And how it could be traumatic and can have a long-lasting effect on who they are as a person. And should be a reminder that nobody should have to go through that no matter what the circumstances are
I read nothing about hoes puppets , age or manipulation is pure fact
Not saddling yourself with a partner who has major trauma issues is a good way to get a BIG head start in the game of life. If you can avoid major baggage, my advice is to do so!
.. So you think life is perfect and you can orchestrate it any which way you can. Wow just wow. .. Can you control if and when your family member dies? And you get traumatized from that? ! Can you control if and when someone breaks into your house? ! And you get traumatized from that? ! You can't always control life. It is NOT perfect! If you want perfect, maybe date a saint or one of God's apposels or get a fake doll.
@Sweetsurprize I'm going to guess you meant to put this screed somewhere else, because you're clearly arguing with someone else as I never made any of the points you reference.
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Sometimes that past can actually pose a danger to the guy; e. g., if she has Borderline Personality Disorder or other mental illnesses as a result of abuse or perhaps other causes.
1. What if she is getting those "demons" fixed?
2. I was arrested at 20 for vandalism over 20 years ago. I NEVER got arrested again, nothing criminal, nothing. Traffic citations, yes, but criminal nothing. People can reform, they can change. They can learn not to repeat the same mistakes from their past!
@Sweetsurprize: Your circumstances weren't due to mental illness and were quite fixable. That's in no way comparable to severe mental illness like the aforementioned BPD, which cannot be fixed.
After my experience with an ex with BPD, never again.
@RealMarek: Same here
@Avicenna People didn’t talk about it when I was young, so I had no idea what I was dealing with.
@RealMarek: I didn't find out about until I was 47, and even then only because someone else who knew her was in the mental health field and we could figure out that she had it as part of her co-morbidity. I'm very lucky to have gotten out of that relationship in one piece.
@Avicenna It’s interesting you mention being lucky to get out of it in one piece, because I got sick and she treated me terribly during that time, and I realized I would be physically abused if I ever had a serious illness and was unable to escape. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me.
@RealMarek: Wow...
The world doesn't owe you understanding. I get that some women can have horrible pasts, but everyone has a past. It's not a majority woman only issue, everyone male or female can have a traumatic past.
>The world doesn't owe you understanding< That is true. At the end of the day, everyone can do (and feel) whatever the fuck they want in their life, but then what if YOU were the one on the receiving end of that judgement and rejection? Would YOU like being passed over because of those things? Especially things maybe that were out of your control?
@Sweetsurprize obviously youve got some reason to say what youve been saying
Why dont you come yo my place and tell me all about it
Quality men, if they are smart, are going to avoid them. They have the option of choosing an undamaged girl and that is the smart thing to do.
what a pointless platitude. there's pasts i don't accept in a partner. and there's pasts i don't mind. sop the saying "every woman has a past" is just saying nothing.
No. A man's job is not to fix broken women. Broken women shouldn't date. Nor should broken men. No one still enslaved by past drama should be bringing that shit into anyone else's life and demanding the other person fix them.
No way a man should ever get with a woman "with a past". I'm not her daddy or her therapist. It's a giant red flag.
another broad with a victim complex!
blah blah blah everyone has a "past" and you women should be thankful that you are all more likely to get support compared to us
Sometimes that past is not "spicy", just bad shyt that's happened.
Everyone has a past. Women. Men. You don't make someone else pay for a past person's mistakes.
Yeah, and a lot of them deserve the shit they’ve been through. Hopefully it makes them better people
You are still a minor, what would you know about being a woman?
The Kraken is correct also women are not the only victims males are the biggest victims nowadays a female only needs to pick up the phone and make up a story and completely destroy a man's life
@bootyloveR88 The lesson is, don't date damaged women as nothing good will come from it.
The best sex I've ever had is with Damaged Women so handle with care and get a treat I say. And I don't speak for all males
@bootyloveR88 Sex yes, marriage no.
Urgh I totally forgot this is a teens post I've got to be more careful on this app really
@bootyloveR88 She's 19 and needs to hear the truth.
@. KrakenAttackin
You say she needs to know the truth what do you need to know you need to see her bruises what she said is the truth
And this is her take not your take why are you trying to put her down for something that is so real by doing that you put every other woman down too
@ohsheeT Ah yes, every woman is a victim of the patriarchy. Every man should be a Capt Save-A-Hoe, women can do no wrong. Have we not learned anything over the past 20+ years. Women have created an environment where they manipulate men like puppets, all the whole racking up sexual partners like crazy. I have no sympathy.
We must have read two different stores the one I read she was making a point on how women are abused. And how it could be traumatic and can have a long-lasting effect on who they are as a person. And should be a reminder that nobody should have to go through that no matter what the circumstances are
I read nothing about hoes puppets , age or manipulation is pure fact
@ohsheeT That's because you are taking women at their word, which is a huge mistake.
Not saddling yourself with a partner who has major trauma issues is a good way to get a BIG head start in the game of life. If you can avoid major baggage, my advice is to do so!
.. So you think life is perfect and you can orchestrate it any which way you can. Wow just wow. .. Can you control if and when your family member dies? And you get traumatized from that? ! Can you control if and when someone breaks into your house? ! And you get traumatized from that? ! You can't always control life. It is NOT perfect! If you want perfect, maybe date a saint or one of God's apposels or get a fake doll.
@Sweetsurprize I'm going to guess you meant to put this screed somewhere else, because you're clearly arguing with someone else as I never made any of the points you reference.
thats fine and dandy but stay out of dating until your done blaming every man for your past problems
Yup. Every woman has a past and whoever she winds up with will be blamed for it.
Yes, this is true. I absolutely have a past.
Met a few. Felt bad for them.
And life went on.
Very good encouragement olease don't forget forgiveness of one self , between each other or at least an attempt and with God
ill give her the love.
Right in her slutty mouth.
i dont wanna hear your problems.
do i look like dr phil?
it’s still no excuse for a girl having a huge body count or doing only fans
i am she:)
Which one you faced