I can't speak for all people, so I will simply offer this little anecdote of what happened to me.
I was 31 when I had my first kiss and dated for the first time. Two years later, I have a wonderful girlfriend who is saving herself for marriage just as I am. She is absolutely thrilled that i am inexperienced, because that means that our marriage will be a clean slate with no baggage or expectations.
My point is that there are women out there who will be glad to date and marry a virgin. Oftentimes they are religious and/or conservative.
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Women like when guys behave as if they know what they're doing. Insecurity, passivity, asking for permission, not taking the lead are all a bit of a turn off for girls and sadly guys with no experience are more likely to have those traits/behave that way. That's no reason to get pissed off or discouraged 'cause once you understand how attraction works you don't need experience to behave in a more attractive way. Beware of a negative or bitter attitude though - it's a sure way to undermine your chances with girls.
Doesn't mean you have a mental illness. The girl who said that is ignorant and rude.
but it can be a red flag. Its like, hmmm I wonder why he's 24 and a girl has never liked him?
Makes us wonder if there's something weird going on with you, no offense.
And giving up and never trying is probably your problem. Its not gonna solve anything.
And by the way we don't want a guy that bangs anything that moves, but we're also iffy about the 24 year old with zero experience. There's a happy medium
Metal illness... that person is a douche lol as a female though i do prefer a guy who can understand women at least and actually listens and doesn't try to "win" all the time, he does everything in his power to try to understand, paitents is key really but i don't mind if a guy is a virgin i can just teach him what to do lol but there is where the ability to listen and understand comes in too not just with life in general because if he's not open to anything during sex ether it's just like meh... lol.
I personally don't have standards on if I would date a guy that had a gf before or not or if he is a virgin or not. To me I would think that he is focused and determined on other things than finding a relationship and you have more time to find who you are and what you want and you are dependent on yourself. Those are excellent qualities. The only thing I will be scared of is will you walk away when problems come in the relationship since you never had to deal with gf/bf relationship problems before.
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Nooooo not at all! In fact I think it's extra cute if a guy doesn't have much experience. Doesn't everyone like being the first? It wouldn't matter to a girl that actually cares for you. Only bitchier girls care about that stuff
Theoretically most don't mind.
In practice if he was really good looking he likely would have experience.
In practice most don't like guys who don't know what they're doing and aren't confident in bed.No. Forget society and stupid misconcieved notions. You are how you arr and you are perfect for someone out there. I like a guys personality, despite him being experienced or not.
I honestly like it. I want to feel special rather than another name on his list, you know? Once you find the right girl, she won't judge you.
Sure, some girls are like that, but not all of us are. I'm 19, still a virgin and want to find a virgin. Its not weird at all, we just don't see the point in wasting time with people who just want to have a good time. If you are like me, you are just waiting to find the right person
With me it's rather opposite... I dont like women WITH experience. Nice guys finish last? Saving the best for last? I don't think so! I'm like "girl, keep on walking"
Questions like this gets me...
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I don't care I think its cute! If I like you I will date you virgin or notJust don't tell them you've never been in a relationship before. Dating's like marketing. Emphasize the good things and sweep the rest under the rug.
I feel like that is when you don't get the job because of lack of experience. How can you get experience if no one will take you because you don't have experience?
I feel the same way I stopped trying not because I didn't care but I know I'm some pretty boy girls throw themselves at. Why bother trying when I'm 100% sure the girl will say no? And it doesn't matter who I approach. I'm approaching 29 this Saturday and never kissed, hugged, or held hands with a girl. Girls only care about looks, income, penis size and the car the man drives. Women and girls are shallow hypocrites.
Sexual experience doesn't matter, but I do prefer a guy with some relationship experience. I don't want to teach.
that's not true at all! :) it's not important! there are a lot of girls who appreciate boys who are inexperienced! thousand times better than a manwhore
No! That's not true at all. That's crazy sweetie. Lots of women kinda get off on being "the first" or teaching new tricks. You're ready when you're ready ;)
I am 23 and virgin. I have no mental illness and could efficiently kiss or fuck a girl if given a chance.
Whoever said that mental illness thing has absolutely no clue as to what they are talking about.
Yes it is all true. If you're not experienced by the time you come out of your mother's womb, you're not worth anyone's time.
Honestly, it's not just men. It's both men and women. Anyone who hasn't had any experience by 24/25 have to either be really messed up or ugly. It's not normal to still be a virgin by your mid 20s. I know a girl who is28 and she is still one! She's a pathetic loser and she is ugly too.
my username explains it all why i hate the cards i was dealt with
It don't mind having a virgin boyfriend. Its your choice. Bad hygiene is what I dislike.
I personally don't but other girls might be into it
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