Do women just not like most men?

[Anonymous]

If a girl is mentally stable, physically healthy, and kind, that’s enough for me to be interested. I don’t need her to be pretty— just be a decent person. And I know I’m not the only guy who feels this way.

But when it comes to women, it feels completely different.

From what I’ve seen — and from what women themselves post online — they’re only attracted to a small percentage of men. The ones with good genetics: height, face and frame. Traits that are fixed at birth and can’t be changed.

So I’m asking seriously, no sugarcoating:

Do women just not like most men?

Is that the hard truth?

Because from what I’ve seen, it sure seems like it and some men like me won't be loved.

[Apple1996]

Nope the opposite. Men are picky af with lots of standards for women but women will date damn near any dude who loves her. I've had to talk friends out of dating random men in jail and even homeless men on the street because they thought it was true love

[Apple1996]

Also no woman wants to date a man who thinks she ain't pretty so if you ain't attracting women maybe it has to do with that. If a random homeless man can call a woman pretty and make her fall in love then you can to. Its all about how you make her feel

[Asker]

When you say "Men" the question is are you talking about the average looking man who is 5'9 and has average face.

I've noticed when men talk about "women" in such discussions we focus on her specifically but women seem to focus on the exceptional.

[Asker]

The homeless dude in question is attractive.

[Apple1996]

Most women dont acutally care about height or a dudes face. That's only a very small percentage of high maintenance women caring about those things

[Asker]

Have you ever liked the average Joe? Like not tall nor handsome.

[Apple1996]

My husband is 5'7 and I think he has a cute face but I don't know what others think about him. Maybe for society standards he's average but not in my eyes

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

well who wants ugly children?


and this question can go both ways. men are def more fixated on how their girlfriend look, maybe not u but a lot of men are. they won't date a girl unless she's at least a 8/10

[Asker]

I mean casual dating not marriage.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and how does marriage start? with dating smartass.

[Nikki1989]

You are like a gray sprinkle on a rainbow cupcake, buddy.

You have it all so wrong.

[Asker]

Didn't even explain why?

[Orinthia]

OP doesn't know women will see he holds resentment.

[Anonymous]

As a woman, I've found the opposite most men don’t like me, Im glad I think I found a honest guy finally tho

[Asker]

Do you think the average looking man can be attractive if he puts in the work or no?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I believe so

[Asker]

Do you think most women when they talk about "Men" they like especially on forums like this he's usually attractive and tall.

[Opinion Owner]

Attractive probably , but not always tall

[Anonymous]

How do u look

[Asker]

Why you ask?