Why won't this girl leave me alone after rejecting me?

[Anonymous]

She rejected me and it hurt can't lie but she keeps flirting with me. I was sleeping in class back in the spring semester and I woke up to her staring at me. She said she would text me next semester and wants to catch up. She's had a bf and dumped him in two days. Now wants to catch up when were on campus. What is up with her?

[Paris13]

The Reason she most likely ' Rejected you' in the First Place was because------She had a bf, but now is Available to 'Flirt in her skirt' again. So she's back once more at your front door, and as you were 'Sleeping in class back in the spring semester, ' you woke up to her--------Staring at me. Surprise...
You need to Be alert Now, for she can't be trusted. She may want to 'Catch up' tomorrow, but 'Reject' you again for some other 'Dumpee,' who she will probably just give the boot to. And of course, she will be Back wearing her best-----In sheep's clothing, no doubt.
It's totally up to you if you want to give her a second shake. But she sounds a bit loose, free to flaunt, and may have a pattern of being this fickle pickle in sheep's clothing.
Could end up to be your worse nitemare for you to live----Through All the semesters.
Good luck. xx

[Asker]

Its weird she had a bf broke up with him and started flirting with me in the fall semester. In the spring we were in the same classes and I made a move after a few months but she shit me down. This summer she had a bf and broke up with him after a week. Then said she want to catch up this semester lol. I'm. not making things awkward she is. I kept to myself and backed way off she started flirting again lol. So I'm confused but I'm still attracted to her but that's it like she has too much power.

[Asker]

She was awkward around me too like she was so shy lol and clumsy.

[Paris13]

I was Right about this fickle pickle, and it's a pattern of playing with your head and heart as well. Probably does it to all the guys. Unless you like a Tease like this, someone who has this 'Power' to turn you On at any given moment and at her convenience whenever she is Available, then so be it... But you sound like the kind of guy who would be better off with just a Simple girl, someone less Playful, more on the ball, instead of this little pup who will always want to play ball and have it her way... She has this Magic wand over you that you find enlightening, that you are 'attracted to' but after awhile that will fade and fizzle, because the 'Confusion of your chase' will end up Frustration, where you Feel your Own power Wanting to Tighten her own Leash. xx

[Asker]

I actually laughed at her once cause she walked into class and asked if I need help on the quiz in another class and I said nope not from you. She said OK and glared at me. People were like your so disrespectful and I said you even know lol.

[Paris13]

lol... God forbid if you would be disrespectful to the Queen bees of the world.. You're a class act, sweetie, and a real winner in my book... Good job...:)) xx

[Asker]

A guy told me to be more respectul she just wants to help and I chuckled at him.

[Paris13]

Yeah, good you laughed in his face---Let his guy be the one with egg all over his face when she frolics around with him.:)) xx

[Asker]

Thanks lol I texted her back that unless she likes me as much as I like her don't even bother and I know you dont so dont reply to this.

[Paris13]

lol... I bet that left her a bit----Scrambled, this twit...:)) xxx

[Asker]

Well good I guess she still can add me to her list of guys and point out how i liked her. She does that a lot actually she would tell her friends about me and I knew cause they would stop talking and stare at me when I walked by. I just acted like it didn't bother me but I was pissed cause its not their business to know that she rejected me.

[Paris13]

Just another number on her list of 'Liked me' She sounds like a piece of work. I pity the poor guy who is next on her 'List.' Just be glad she can scratch you off as: The man who knew way too much about my evil ways.:)) xx

[Asker]

I'm just glad I didn't end up hitting her I was so close a few times lol. I always end liking girls that do this to me or try to at least try to I'm bad at picking people to crush on.

[Paris13]

lol... Right in the ol' Kisser... Probably a turn on for her... lol I know... Every once in awhile life throws us a curve ball, and there's a 'Player' on the other end. But I do believe someone will come along someday and it Won't be Someone like Miss Priss... Have a great weekend.. xx

[washize]

Probably likes you as a person and enjoys your company.
Maybe she changed her mind.

She's the only person who knows really. Why don't you ask her and see what she says? Something along the lines of "hey I thought you weren't interested in dating me, we aren't that close, so why are you so interested in hanging out?"

[Asker]

I don't know what wants she made a point to tell me she will see next semester like OK that's fine me and the other guys that you probably told the same thing. I made a point to avoid talking to her as well so I didn't initiate it.

[washize]

I understand you don't know what she wants, that why I told you to ask her why she keeps bothering you if she isn't interested in dating you. She will/should tell you what her intentions are during that conversation.

If you don't care to know, then block her number and keep ignoring her.

[Asker]

She is so shy around me though when we talk like her whole personality changes so I feel awkward talking to her cause she like whispers and stutters.

[washize]

You should keep avoiding her/ignoring her then.

[Asker]

I'm not going to message her back then lol. I haven't and wanted to know if I should.

[washize]

I don't think you should.

[Asker]

I texted her back and told her if you don't like me the same way don't bother repplyong to this it's best we both move on.

[washize]

yeah, I think thats best.

[Gianni]

im super suspicious of girls like that. you can't really pinpoint what they're about but you know something is off with their behaviour. personally i think she looking for attention. but then im a glass-glass half empty kinda girl and this might not be the case

[Asker]

I know I made my move and she rejected me. I backed off and ignored her. She kept locking eyes with me and I would catch her and we would glare lol. I was annoyed by it and fed up.

[Phantom-menace]

Stay away from her, she has already rejected you, she playing with your feelings, cause she knows she likes you. Use your head buddy, she can't suddenly be interested after rejecting you. She just can;t round using like some puppet, when its convient for her.

The biggest weapon a man has over women, is the ability to walk away from them, then they won't see as desperate fool. I am talking about the ones, that are playing with you.

[Phantom-menace]

sorry she know you like her ^

[Phantom-menace]

The other thing you can do, is play the game a bit with her, test the waters with her. Do not get to involved with her to quickly, Be an investigator, never give anyone the benefit of the dealt, in this society anyway.

[Asker]

Its hard too cause she knows I like her and I don't know if I trust her.

[Phantom-menace]

then don't bother with her. walk away and find someone else. If you don't trust her, then move on.

[Phantom-menace]

Don't get angry and upset with her, because she has won the game with you. She wants a reaction from you. Next time she comes up to you, just say to her, I am not interested anymore, bye bye.

[Phantom-menace]

some women are bitches, don't trust the bitches.

[sadsadboy]

maybe she rejected you because she had a boyfriend but actually wanted to be with you, that's why she wants to flirt and catch up with you, try asking her out again, but this time dont expect anything cuz no expectation no disappointment
or she could be playing you.

[Burgundy]

Some people like using others and playing with their feelings. Sounds like she's one of those people. Sorry :( xx

[Phantom-menace]

I agree with you.

[Asker]

She always flirted with me too and made me like her too. So I guessed that she may be interisted and was wrong doesn't mean I can be just friends lol it doesn't work that way.

[Asker]

I'm annoyed I didn't have to deal with her for 2 months now I deal with this. Its like she knew when to piss me off.

[Anonymous]

Don't let her toy with your heart. She rejected you, so move on. She likely just wants some attention from you since she no longer has a boyfriend.

It's not worth it, man. If she won't leave you alone, just tell her straight up that you're not interested.

[Plato]

Play along, I think you're both unto something. If you choose not to, then speak your mind to her.

[Asker]

My actions did that lol I gave her the cold shoulder and she didn't appreciate it but flirted after so she might have tried to get me back to liking her again lol.

[Plato]

You know what, go for her. I bet you'll have crazy fun.

[Asker]

I don't know she chose another guy over me and wants to talk next semester cause things fell apart. So I was a backup lol.

[Plato]

Yeah, but if you don't choose her, you won't have anything at all. Swallow the pride, maybe she misjudged you.

[Anonymous]

She wants your attention, no matter what. Girls are attention seekers. She probably likes being chased.

[Asker]

I forgot about her and then she texted me for the first time and said we should catch up when we are back on campus. You had my number for 2 months and had a bf in that time yet just decided to text me OK lol. She said she would and actually did but I mean I feel like a second option lol.

[Opinion Owner]

make it very clear to her that you aren't a second option. It doesn't have to be in a rude way. Just don't go running right back to her. After all, it sounds like she likes to chase too.

[Asker]

She does she tried to put me on the spot in class and I told her I dont want help from you. The next day she took my homework from the table and said she corrected it for me and told me which ones I got wrong. I laughed and looked at my friend and glared at him. I was pissed its like let me move one jeez and you took my HW with out asking.