So there’s this girl whom I kind of friend with, we’re both in college. Couple months before the end of the school year she showed some signs of interest. Such as,
1-Hugging me randomly,
2-Catching her staring at me fallowed with smile, when I asked her why she’s smiling she says ” nothing”
3-Initiating conversations,
4-Getting her body close to me,
5-Asked me to hangout once,
6-Resting her foot on my leg
7-asking me personal questions.
8-Slaps my butt
9-Once came up to me and held my hand
She also showed signs that she was not interested such as
1-Pointing out some girls around me saying they like me,
2-Going cold and hot (ignoring me to initiating conversations and smiling),
3-Making fun of the way I dress,
4-Backed off when I tried to hug her,
5-Telling me we’re friends
6-Asking sexual questions, the conversation was:
Her: “do you eat…..”
Me: “ I’m not talking to you about this”
She walked away and came back with a note saying “ I’m sorry, I love you like a
brother”
7-She also never texts first (over the summer I initiated text 6 times, her 1 but always response fast”
8-Never uses emoticon in texting
9-Uses a lot of “Lololo” and “haha” not lot of words tho
It was the end of the school year, I walked her to her car she said “ I expect to see you this summer” I told her yeah sure. Few days later I texted her saying:
Me: “Since u always make fun of the way I dress, wanna go with me shopping?”
Her: “ Lololol sure”
Me: “When do u wanna go”
Her: “Maybe fri or sat?”
Me: “Haha ok just text me than” She never texted me back
Over the summer through texting She did not seem as excited as she is in person.
I texted her saying that I miss hanging out with her; she said she misses me too. I asked her to hangout 2 more time but once she said she wasn’t in town other time she was busy.
Does she likes me or just being a nice friend and does not want to hurt my feelings? Did she loose interest over the summer?
1-Hugging me randomly,
2-Catching her staring at me fallowed with smile, when I asked her why she’s smiling she says ” nothing”
3-Initiating conversations,
4-Getting her body close to me,
5-Asked me to hangout once,
6-Resting her foot on my leg
7-asking me personal questions.
8-Slaps my butt
9-Once came up to me and held my hand
She also showed signs that she was not interested such as
1-Pointing out some girls around me saying they like me,
2-Going cold and hot (ignoring me to initiating conversations and smiling),
3-Making fun of the way I dress,
4-Backed off when I tried to hug her,
5-Telling me we’re friends
6-Asking sexual questions, the conversation was:
Her: “do you eat…..”
Me: “ I’m not talking to you about this”
She walked away and came back with a note saying “ I’m sorry, I love you like a
brother”
7-She also never texts first (over the summer I initiated text 6 times, her 1 but always response fast”
8-Never uses emoticon in texting
9-Uses a lot of “Lololo” and “haha” not lot of words tho
It was the end of the school year, I walked her to her car she said “ I expect to see you this summer” I told her yeah sure. Few days later I texted her saying:
Me: “Since u always make fun of the way I dress, wanna go with me shopping?”
Her: “ Lololol sure”
Me: “When do u wanna go”
Her: “Maybe fri or sat?”
Me: “Haha ok just text me than” She never texted me back
Over the summer through texting She did not seem as excited as she is in person.
I texted her saying that I miss hanging out with her; she said she misses me too. I asked her to hangout 2 more time but once she said she wasn’t in town other time she was busy.
Does she likes me or just being a nice friend and does not want to hurt my feelings? Did she loose interest over the summer?
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