Guys: Shy girl that takes awhile to warm up.. do you find it worth it to stick around and get to know her or is it a waste of time to you?

[Anonymous]

I'm super shy and quiet until I get to know someone and feel comfortable around them. Then, I'll start to get more comfortable and try to tease/joke back.

A lot of more outgoing guys have hit on me but I always feel bad cuz I never know how to keep the convo going or be that laid back and witty. And it seems like some guys just give up on me because of that. Occasionally though, if we do see each other enough and they do get to know me, I become more comfortable with them and start teasing back they always comment about it by telling someone else (in front of me) how "feisty" I'm getting.
I'm not trying to be sassy or feisty, I just tease them back... They always seem to be amused or something though and like to tell everyone about it which I don't get.

Why do they do this? Do you think it's attractive or bad?

[PacificShark]

If a guy can't stick around to give you time to let you come out of your comfort zone then he is not worth it, A real guy who is like really interested in you and likes you would definitely stick around, just wait for some time if you can, But if you're looking to just hook up then I would recommend smiling at everything and acknowledging facts with incomprehensible talk and gestures to encourage the guy to continue to speak. Works every time with both the genders xD. Hope this helped :) And just to let you know, It IS kind of attractive, for me at least. Nobody likes an open book.

[Execu]

"I'm not trying to be sassy or feisty, I just tease them back... They always seem to be amused or something though and like to tell everyone about it which I don't get."
It's not a bad thing.

Yeah I like shy girls, some guys can't tell if you're being shy or just bitchy when they don't know you soooo.

[Forca]

It's a waste of time to me.

I liked this shy girl and she never really bothered speaking to me, I tried making a few conversations with her and she would never try to continue the conversations, so in the end I just thought screw the nut and bailed.

I don't even acknowledge her now, she's not worth my time. Based on this experience, I will steer clear of shy girls in the future.

[bizmarkee]

Guys are f'd in the head. A real guy will see you like him and will get you. Is he shy?

[Asker]

Haha no he's super outgoing and laid back and witty... total opposite of me except I feel a lot more comfortable around him now so I tease back cuz he constantly teases me. It's happened with multiple guys-all of them were pretty outgoing