I rejected a really nice shyer guy the other week, he said e wanted to remain friends and so did I and we talked through text for a few days. He asked to hang out a couple of times and I wanted to but can't as am seeing this other guy and also I am going to college soon. I have started ignoring his texts so as not to encourage him but I literally can't stop thinking about him! He sent me a text yesterday and apologised if he did something to upset me. Is this situation normal and what should I do.

You refuse him but you do not hate him, that's why.

If he's ik your mind all the time, you probably miss or like him. Or both really.. :)

go get him if u can't stop thinking about him

Yes it's Normal unless u love him more.

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Kelvinlinn Follow
Xper 4 Age: 35

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You refuse him but you do not hate him, that's why.

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RandomNiceDouche Follow
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If he's ik your mind all the time, you probably miss or like him. Or both really.. :)

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Gymnastgirl Follow
Xper 3 Age: 27 , mho 45%

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I meant to hit normal

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- Asker
  
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  Should I keep ignoring him?
  
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- Gymnastgirl
  
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  Well yeah I think he's just trying to pull this innocent card on u. And it will be hard believe me but he needs to know that it's over and there is nothing between u
  
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Magsleigh1 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

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go get him if u can't stop thinking about him

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melodicstacey Follow
Xper 5 Age: 56 , mho 44%

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Not normal but it does happen.

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Chris011 Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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Sooo.. you like the other guy?

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- Asker
  
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  I don't know, he seems to always be on my mind. But I am committed to the current guy
  
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- Chris011
  
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  So you like him?
  
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ajay143 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 38

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Yes it's Normal unless u love him more.

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BabyEeyore Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36

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Yes it is very normal

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- Asker
  
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  Am I doing the right thing by ignoring him, he texts me 2 or 3 times a week
  
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- SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
  
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  No you need to tell him where he stands otherwise the texts will continue and he will think someday he's in for a chance with you
  
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- SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
  
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  Wow btw, he must like you A LOT to keep sending you messages even though you rejected him. Either that or he desperately wants some form of bond with you to keep you close.
  
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Qwazihomo Follow
Xper 6 Age: 33

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Tell him douche

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mildlycurious Follow
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You feel guilty

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