Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material? (Page 2)
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1. Yes some girls are so fake and shallow that they will not like someone because of a hair cut or a shirt. What they don't realize is looks fade but inner beauty only grows more beautiful with time.
2. I must admit I just got out of a relationship where the guy was a erk yet something about them draws you in you know they are wrong for you yet you can't turn away until it is too late
3. I try and not look at naked women it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong so I tend to look at the floor or some where else
4. Since I have a boyfriend again I tend to not look at them but if it is my boyriend where don't I look :) heck I stare at him and he stares at me :)
5. I personally don't but with all girls and women it is diffrent so I can not speak for all of us some girls like it and some guys like if girls do so who knows
6. Everone does do most girs like admitting it no am I one of those girls yes I just don't see why guys seem to brag about it like it is some big deal
7. Nope poop is poop we just think its not very girly or classy to admit such things but hey some girls have no problem with anything I kinda wish I was one of them it must be nice not being afraid of what others think :)
8. Sometimes I wish I was one of them there are so popular it seems like and pretty but then again I realize how uncomftable they must be with thereself to do something like that in order to get looked at and "accepted"
Hope this helps good luck fining the truth :) :P :D XD
1. I won't at all, I date guys for who they are. but if they always look sloppy that means they don't take care of themselves, which means they probably can't take care of me either
2. a lot of girls have attachment issues. I was in an emotional abusive relationship for a year, because every time I tried to get away he would make me feel bad about it. I bitched about it because that was the only thing I could do, I wasn't strong enough to take a real action. now I have a romance movie type guy, and I've never been happier.
3. I look at everything, and compare every part of her to me haha but mostly just her general body shape and fitness. and I may be straight, but its hard not to look at boobs...
4. again, his body. abs, butt, arms (I have a thing for arms), face, body/facial hair, and then his **** last.
5. everybody has hair everywhere, it all depends on how thick and dark a particular persons hair grows in a particular area.
6...obviously...
7. cause some girls have a pole too far up their ass to take a crap anyway.
but seriously, its just not something that comes up in dinner conversation.
HAHA! THESE questions are REALLY funny ;D
okay I'm gonna answer.
1. Yes there are some or a lot of shallow girls that will dismiss you just cause you style or look! They want you to be on your best game 24/7 ;3 Even me you gotta dress nice during they day if we're just at home F it!
2. Honestly I don't know why some girls do. Jerks are annoying to me especially if their obnoxious! I'm not that shallow.
3.Uhh...Her face first and I wouldn't look anywhere else cause that's her personal space specially if she was a close friend then who cares girls do it all the time! But a guy did it they'd wonder if you were gay!
4.Haha. If I saw a naked guy I look at his top half if I didn't know him or he was a friend then cover my eyes and say X-rated! But if he was my Boyfriend then I'd look...everywhere! ;D
5.I'm sure everyone has butt hair whether you can see it not..normal human function here!
6. Uh yah! but not to the human society maybe to my dog. He poops all the time! That's embarrassing to a girl! But you shouldn't have to ask cause uhh everyone poops and if you don't SOMETHING THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU! and you should go to the doctor immediately!
7. Oh yah we admit it...in our heads hahaha! If a girls poop is gross then everyone's poop is gross!
1. no, not entirely. if I don't see that guy again, then it doesn't really matter. but if I did see him again with the same problem as last time, then I would write him off. --hey I like it when a guy can present himself well.
2. jerks are what girls see most often. romance novels are purely fiction--who doesn't want something out of the ordinary ? some girls would wanna change this "jerk" into a guy from the romance novel or some just like in for many, many different reasons.
3. [ I'm really interested in bellies only because I wanna shape mine ] so I look a their belly lol then the boobs, the hair, eventually the va-jay. ^^; its hard [ not ] to look at those places under those circumstances...
4. it has never happen, but I'm guess the abs, then the penis lol
5. yes, yes they do. we all have hair everywhere, whether we wanna admit it or not. its just not as much as a guy's booty.
6. alrite--you caught me. I take doo-doos. but I would explode if I didnt, so its now justified :p
7. hunnie, everyone's doo-doo is gross. girls like to present themselves in a lady-like fashion, so the mention of untidy things is not lady-like. --plus who would wanna go around saying "hey, I took a great sh*t today !" lol
1. I'm sure some girls probably are that vain. Personally, you can change your haircut and a shirt no problem so why write them off? If I don't care for something my boyfriend is wearing I'll be like babe put this shirt on you look so good in this one, that way I don't offend him but still get the one I like. Same with haircut, sometimes he will go to supercuts or something and they do a bad job but I don't dump him over it.
2. I have to admit, I have dated those "assholes" but now have a romantic sweetheart for a bf. I think it is because we all like a little bad boy every now and then.
3. Lol... awkward... probably away from her.
4. Completely naked? Probably his crotch first lol... seems to draw my attention the most...
5. Lol I can only speak for myself, but I have never noticed it. Then again some people have lots of hair and some have none.
6. Lol I can admit it when it is like an urgent crisis but I try not to.
7. I'm not one to get grossed out by a guy telling me anything like if they have to poop or if they fart in front of me, but I don't do it in front of guys. I don't really have to do it a lot so I guess it is not a big problem. But I guess I just like to be lady-like and not share lol. If it happens... it happens... but I try my best not to share.
Okay, I think you've got the wrong word: it should be SHALLOW not vain.
And yes, I think it's highly likely that there are a minority of girls out there who would be this shallow.
Your questions:
1 - Yes, with the minority of girls. Appearance is important as well as personality in boyfriend material of course, and although most girls (I hope) would say personality is more important, there's always gonna be some who say appearance is more important.
2 - Not all girls love jerks, and not all girls want guys in romance movies. Not all girls do that either. I personally dump people if they turn out to be a jerk, and I don't necessarily want guys out of romance movies - I want a guy who has something special, different about him... something that seperates him from the others.
3 - I would look away.
4 - Usually stomach/chest/face and his gentleman's area.. obviously xD.
5 - Erm I don't know I guess it depends on the girl and her views on body hair?
6 - Yes I can. Everyone does it so why shouldn't girls?
7 - Because guys always perceive us as perfect, pretty and incapable of doing anything disgusting. Well most guys anyway. I'm not gonna lie, it's probly their influence.
8 - I've never seen those adverts so I wouldn't know.
Your question is exceedingly stereotypical, just to point out.
1. I once was really turned of to dating a guy because he had a really weird first name and I would of been embarrassed dating him. But the truth ended up being I liked him so much and was so afraid of being rejected that I was really just making up excuses not to like him. When your young looks matter a lot in a relationship. Right now all I want is eye candy.. I'm not vain, but I don't want a serious relationship, so I don't care if his Mr. Perfect. I want someone really fun to hang with who's hot.
2. I have dated nice guys and jerks. I date jerks longer. Girls are interested in someone who keeps them guessing, nice guys lay it all out on the table.
3. I look at every inch of the girl and compare myself to her.
4. Umm.. I guess I start at the chest then go to the package.
5. Oh yeah, I hate shaving that sh*t.
6. Yeah I sh*t..
8. Smells pretty bad. I wouldn't eat it.
9. I'm jealous. I wouldn't have the balls to do it, plus I don't like sharing my body.. Like no once gets to see me naked.
1. Wow, even when I was a teenager I did not do that. I think some girls and women (just like guys) can be super insecure and status oriented and discount a guy because he overall and consistently dresses a certain way or looks a certain way. But it is insecurity, not vanity, that drives it.
2. People in general can be drawn to what they find difficult to attain. So, a jerk is a guy who is likely hard to please or to know that he will stay with you and it makes a girl feel like she is something special that this a-hole deigns to spend time with her. It's a bummer how that works, but that is what is going on.
3. Her face but you overall can scan and notice her physique. Most girls are comparing how they stack up to another girl though we can also appreciate female beauty.
4. I have never seen a guy naked (really good looking or not) other than in a sexual context, so I am going to look wherever I want, including his package, but I love guy's butts.
5. Probably but I have not checked out other girls buttholes, lol. Not been that up close and personal. I know I do, well if I didn't keep everything all smooth and free down there.
6. You are kidding, never heard that one. Do you mean they don't want to talk about it and make the kind of toilet humor jokes guys do? Yeah, we aren't going to sit around talking about it, but come on, everyone does.
7. Poop is poop. It is what it is, guys and girls. I think guys just produce more of it because you tend to be bigger than most girls and eat more, and you guys love your jokes about farts and p*ss and poop, but hey, we love you anyways.
8. I think they are young, tipsy or drunk girls who are having a lot of fun, caught up in the moment and wanting to look wild and sexy to catch guy's eyes. I feel bad though because some later regret it.
" Why do you love jerks but say you want guys in romance movies ? I know a lot of girls who will date guys that treat them like crap for a long time and then bitch about them all the time but still date them for years. "
> 1. PROJECTION.People men & woman often times, look for others similar traits that they themselves are ashamed of, so that they can illicit their OWN behavior in the other person & deal with it thru projection, so they do not have to recognize it as coming fro themselves, & therefore avoid accountability or personal responsibility, even awareness that they are DOING this... They do avoid feeling personally guilty for acting like a sh*
&You can not call them on intention,because they do it without realizing it , it is part of a narcissistic tendency... They can however, recognize after they have done so... It is actually important to let them know they are being duplicitous.
> 2. EXPECTATION... If someone is accustomed to be ing treated a certain way the will look for people that can fill that expectation...
^This is also why JERKS act likeJERKS... They grow accustomed to being a treated a certain way... ex. People fearing or attacking them. So they , act out make the person mad until they are satisfied that they have been responded to in the expected way.
So to answer your question, I would say out of a guilty conscience. or low self esteem... Like anything else*
^ I personally choose people based on integrity, intelligence & sarcasm.
:-)
1) YES. Girls who come from money won't date a guy if he isn't wearing that shirt or doesn't have that hair cut because it means he can't afford them, IE he isn't rich enough for them!
2)Sadly, nice guys finish last BECAUSE they are nice. We want strong men who can/will fight for us, but how many sword wielding poets do YOU know? Women a sensitive creatures who want and need compassion and understanding, but survival is more important than happiness. This is why MOST women actually have two main men in their lives: the BF, who gets the loving and the best friend who gets the emotional baggage. It's also why a lot of women cheat. If their "sweetie" is TOO sweet, she takes lunch with Adonis...
3 & 4)I give them a quick up/down glance lingering a bit longer on the lower for men and upper for the women.
5) I don't know but I do
6 & 7) "pooping" is a part of life and every living this does it. It's not a pleasant experience going #2 and its smelly and gross. I sure as hell don't want to talk about it at dinner!
8) drama queens, attention whores, daddy's little girl rebelliously showing mommy she is all grown up, girls who really don't give a f**k, and the occasional gullible wanna-be who was duped into thinking it will make her famous.
Im a sword wielding poets. I pride my self on being a better fighter then the people that fight and better student then the people that are in my classes (biochem degree). I'm a good guy and a sensitive man. but talk sh*t to me and see what happens
Sadly sir, a lot of girls are vain. It's not only girls though, a lot of guys I know are vain too, I guess it's just how those people were raised.
1. It's probably true. I know a girl who wouldn't date this totally awesome dude, because he had a large mole on his face. Her loss, I dated him and he was one of the nicest guys I ever met. I don't think clothes matter as much as more physical features, like hair. I admit, I won't look twice at a guy with a huge beard, but that's because they turn me off. If I got to know him though, I would probably get over it. That's not vain, it's a matter of likes and dislikes. Some guys don't like blondes, therefore don't notice blonde girls as much.
2. Just how a girl was raised, some feel a need to be treated badly because they feel they deserve it, and they dream of the unrealistic men in movies. Don't we all want someone from a movie though, they're always perfect! I do not date jerks, I have been treated badly enough in my life, I know I don't deserve it. Most of those girls who stay with jerks for a long time, always believe they can change him into a better person. It doesn't work.
3. Her vagina or boobs of course, everyone is going to look at the things we don't normally see, doesn't matter if she's pretty. If it was in real life, and not just on a movie, I would definitely look away immediately.
4. A really hot guy? I'd probably check out all of him. His chest, his cock, his butt, his whole body, all in one look.
5. I don't. So not all girls. Some probably do, I don't grow much hair anywhere.
6. Well of course I do. It doesn't magically disappear.
7. Wwho wants to talk about poop? Horrible subject.
8. Most are naive, but the girls I know who do that in real life, are pretty skanky. It's sad really, they're usually the kind who end up dating jerks because they're the only guys who will date them.
1-Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?
Yes they absolutely will...would I nahh, I'd make him cut it and tell him it looked bad, I'd hope he'd tell me the same.
2-Why do you love jerks but say you want guys in romance movies ? I know a lot of girls who will date guys that treat them like crap for a long time and then bitch about them all the time but still date them for years.
I sure wouldn't put up with any sh*t from a guy, though I'm very assertive and bossy, it'd be very unlikely. I'm normally the grounded, down-to-earth one out of my friends, so I notice those traits in people, I'm the one everyone comes to for advice so I'm good at detecting jerk-ish qualities.
3-where do you look when you see a really pretty girl naked?
Away.
4-where do you look when you see a really good looking guy naked?
Hmmm...normally I would akwardly look not knowing where to look.
5-do all girls grow a little hair around their butt hole?
yes.
6-can you actually admit that you poop because a lot of girls can't.
well yeah, if we didn't we'd all be constipated.
7-why can't some girls admit that they poop? is girl's poop gross ?
well, do you actually enjoy talking about poop, most of the time they just want to get off of the topic because it's kinda a gross thing to talk about. and no girl poop is like any other poop.
8- what do you think of the types of girls who appear in those girls gone wild commercials?
they're attention-craving sluts, honestly...I don't know what type of chauvinist-pig would waste their time watching that sinful-bull crap, but whatever floats your f***in boat...sorry excuse my french, but really they're lowlife dirty scum, almost as bad as the people who watch it.
Hey. I've watched that. I'm the best guy you will never met.
I somehow doubt that.
Okay ill be truthful because I hate it wen my guy friends lie to me.
1-unfortunately this is true for some girls. but these are only a few girls and they are just really shallow so don't worry bout it. most of the time, we just see a cute/hot guy and wen we see them the next time, we think tat he looks better in a different shirt or haircut. but we don't write them off. usually we only think tat he should hav worn sumthing else because tat doesn't match him but we'll probably still like him.
2-okay honestly can you say tat anyone can control who they like and don't like? I don't think anyone can. As teens and young adults mature, they start finding out tat other things are just as or more important than looks. but wen ur younger, your usually just looking for the "good looking people" and these people sometimes are jerks because they know tat they are good-looking.
3-honestly, I look at her chest because I'm going to compare it wit mine
4-if there's a naked guy, ill usually look anywhere from his abs down to his legs
5-um this is a really personal question and I don't ask my girl friends questions like this one so I wouldn't know
6-yah I can admit it
7-a lot of girls don't like talking bout it because its disgusting. ill admit I poop but I don't like to talk bout it more than rarely
8-those girls just want to show off and they make some guys think that girls were put on this planet just to be a booty call 4 them, which we are not.
1.Yes its true..specially if you weren't dtaing this guy if you just look around and try options..this type of guy will be passed..theres more to look at that our would give us smile..
2.its true,girls are like that because they are tough girls too and this girls like the energy and thoughts of good sex and all,hard guys,this girls loves dramam and chase and competitions..they are alpha females to alpha men..no one wins but even..if he cheats she cheats and act like a angel both this people do the same they're not afraid...most of this female and male are attractive..
3.i usually look on her p**** and boobs and belly that's all..
4.good chest,dick and ass.
5.they do I'm lucky I barely grow them..i shave it shiny all the time I think that's gross when you do a 69 wth? would a guy like ass hair right?
6.the matter of fact yes,and my boyfriend will sit next to me which I'm crazy about..i sually say does that make you horny babe and he'd lough saying oh yah! we have no secrets anymore..well I do the same to him,i mean we been on each other ass anyways lol wth would a smell bother us..
7.yes its groosome and so are guys but we could care less..(remember you get browns on both face sometimes) :)
8.they are good f*** that's it..other than that the are bubble heads so I could careless about them..
1-No. I mean, if I like the guy but he always dressed badly then yeah it will turn me off a bit because it's like he doesn't try to impress me or take the time to groom before meeting me. I take a long time to groom and look pretty before meeting guy on dates so if they don't put time in it, it tells me he doesn't care. But if it was just a bad haircut, then it should be fine it's not like he did it on purpose. If every time he looks bad, smells etc, then it can be a turn off. They can't even take care of themselves, how can he take care of me?
2-In reality, there is no guys like in romance movies. It's all about attraction. So, I am attracted to confidence, strong guy, etc, it's an attractive thing you know but unfortunately some girls stuck in just those qualities without realizing that they need the last quality to differentiate jerks and nice guys. We do still need that warmth, caring feelings from the guy. Jerks don't usually care, it's all about me kinda thing. It's hard to spot especially if we fall for the guy already.
3-At her boobs? It's kinda weird to answer thou, I mean I don't want to see girls naked lol.
4-If that guy is build, surely will look at the abs.
5-Maybe, for some of them.
6&7-OMG, what kind of question is this? I think everyone poops, it's unhealthy if they don't. Why would you ask a girl on a date whether she poops or not. Uneccessary to ask and for the girls to answer! If let say I was on the phone with my boyfriend and suddenly I need to do that, I will tell him, can I call you back, I need to poo. But let say if my boyfriend ask me, have you pooped today? I will be like, why do you ask?
1. Yes girls are shallow most of the time...We can all admit that! Who cares? If a cute guy dressed badly he didn't care about his appearance, we wouldn't give him the chance..We see appearance before we learn personality.
2. Its not that we love jerks..We don't want a guy who acts like a bi**h. We want a "Sensitive Jack Ass". Someone who is sweet but sarcastic, lets us win even when we are wrong but knows when to take charge and be a man. A guy who will talk sh*t to us but doesn't disrespect us.
3. Well honestly my best friends are really hot and we all change in front of each other like its no big deal. We all have the same things just some look better than others. If a pretty girl is in front of me I look at her boobs and stomach.
4. His stomach, his penis, and to see if he has those sexy ass cuts from muscles by the pelvic area.
5. Yes they do and I hope everybody shaves it.
6. Yes I poop
7. Girls think that its private and that's because it is..What you do behind closed doors is your business but we shouldn't have to state the obvious.
8. Nasty skanky whores who should have some self respect
Arrow up @ "Someone who is sweet but sarcastic, lets us win even when we are wrong but knows when to take charge and be a man." ... don't agree with the other answers
1. I won't write the boy off if isn't wearing a "cool" shirt, but I do have to be attracted to him. This includes his appearance AND his personality.
2. I don't want a guy from a romance movie. They are too cheesy. They ask if they can kiss you and things like that, but I want him to be spontaneous. From my experience, sex with jerks is better.
3. Boobs. I can't help it. My eyes are just drawn there.
4. Chest or face. I don't like looking at his package. I think it's funny looking. I mean, don't get my wrong, I love penis, but I just don't like staring at it.
5. Not all girls, and the ones that do usually wax it.
6. Yes. I poop. I fart. I burp.
7. Pretty sure that it's just like boys' poop. We're just expected by guys to be perfect and clean ladies all of the time. I mean, would you still be attracted to a girl if you walked in on her pooping or something like that? We have to keep up this facade of perfection so guys will still like us.
8. I don't judge them. I've done some crazy things when I was drunk. I wasn't on TV, thank the stars, but I wouldn't want to look at the pictures ever again. They're just having fun. Sometimes it's just nice to let go. And I'm sure they get paid.
1- not really because you won't always wear your hair that way or wear that shirt everyday. there are some girls who only say that because they don't like you in the first place and don't have the guts to say it.
2-We say we want that guy in the romantic movie because deep down every girl wants that fairy tale happy ending, we date those jerks because we are looking for that guy or just to do something while we're waiting. Also some girls are easily manipulated by them, like if he screws up he can convince her that the second chance she gives him this time will be different than the 20 other times, which brings us back to that fairy tale ending, because that's the reason.
3-we glance and turn around to what we were doing.
4- we glance, blush, turn around and try not to be caught staring at him, while thinking "hes hot" or not.
5- don't really know. ya gotta find that out for yourself.
6-if you ask me that ill probably make a weird expression and say "Of course I do. I mean, its a natural thing." or something like that
7- some girls can't admit because they're really shy about stuff like and don't want to talk about their private stuff because you gotta admit, that that's REALLY personal. also the whole concept of poop is gross.
8-I think those girls are looking for attention. in any way possible. i. e. sluts
You have obviously been dating or talking to some pretty stuck of chicks! OR your like 13 years old.
1. Some girls are but not all. If you find a stuck up preppy, bitchy not to mention spoiled one then yeah, you better make sure that shirt your wearing is from A&F and that hair of yours better be done GOOD!
2. I've never been able to figure that one out either. The bad ones seem a little more sexier I guess! I don't know! Maybe the game? Hell... I have no room to talk on this one.
3. Ill check out everything! Its normal!
4. Prob the same as above. Once again, its normal.
5. UM YES! They don't like to admit it but we all do and it is normal to shave it! Just make sure your extra careful...it does hurt if you cut it!
6 .Pooping is great
7. I guess it all boils down to be lady like but that's never fun!
8. They must be adopted! OR don't give a rats ass what their parents would think..maybe their parents are cool with it. All I know is that no matter how drunk I am, you will not be taping me! I would hate for my family and friends to get a hold of that!
Okay I'm going to be honest lol.
1. Some girls think that if your not dressed to impres at all times you not worthy of their time.
2. Every guy has their bad day, a guy you might know as a jerk could be the nicest person to a girl. Now out in public they like to keep their manly image, so it would look bad to almost any other person.
3. I really liked these questions cause everyone is different, I myself would look at her boobs, I'm not a lesbian but I like to check put my compitition.
4. I would not make out obvious that I'm looking at his penis.
5. Actually you do grow hair everywhere so yeah, but girls like to take care of that most of the time.
6. I can admit that because it's natural everyone does it.
7. Most girls think it's not lady like, or they don't want guys to think of them like that. My opinion if you can't take that a girl poops you shouldn't be dating period.
8. I actually think that their parents shelterd them most if their lives an the first time they could ever really be let go is at aping break.