GIRLS How should I approach this shy girl?

[Anonymous]

She's in some of my college classes.

She only talks with two people in class (both girls) and when she has to speak loud for the teacher or for the whole class she gets really shy and blushes. She never talks to any other people. She's very very pretty so i don't get why she's shy.

She's not shy on Facebook though because i notice she has a lot of friends and many photos of her with other people so maybe she's shy only in college?

We never talked but i tried to make eye contact with her and she looks at me sometimes but she just ignores me and looks away so i guess she's not interested in me right now.

I only see her in class. Sometimes i see her in the hallway with her two friends but i'm scared of how she would react if i approach her since we don't know eachother and that would be awkward i guess.

My question is how do i approach a girl like this, how does a shy girl like to be approached without being creepy or awkward? Do shy girls like to be approached at all?

[natasha3012]

I would suggest you talk to her online... and later talk the same way to her face to face as well... shy girls will never!! and I mean never ever take the first step... they want the guy to take it... but you should also keep in mind to take it slowly... don't just pounce on her because of she likes you she is going to be extremely nervous about even talking to you... so yeah... all the best dude😊😊

[thelowanthem]

Maybe start off by asking her something about class or to explain something to you, just to break the ice. After that it would be less weird to say 'hey how's it going, thanks for your help the other day' and then go on from there.

[anshin]

It depends. There are shy types that acknowledge people around her. the other one, i would say instead of shy is snob. if you really want to approach her, when she is alone try to talk to her about school stuff, start from there so you would not look like a creep.

[stillagoodgirl]

Approach her when she's alone like maybe before or after class. most people online aren't shy... In RL is another story.

I guess you could try to add her on fb since she's more likely to respond.

****and I don't like how you said 'I don't understand she's shy when she's so pretty' maybe she use to be ugly and blossomed so cut her some slack! Shy isn't such a bad thing if she was confident you'd say she's too arrogant.