I'm shy, she's outgoing, how do I approach this girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm in college, and I recently me this girl who's really cool and lots of fun to be around. She's the life of the party and really outgoing, she's always talking to everyone, but she's not a slut or anything like that. Basically she's just madd cool, and I have a crush on her but don't know how to go about approaching her because I'm a really shy person. I have talked to her before and hung out with her when she's around, but I don't know how to drop hints to her that I like her.

I guess the real problem here is that I have no game hahaha... Does anyone know how a shy guy gets the outgoing girl? Do outgoing girls go for shy guys?

[dunc17]

Outgoing girls def go for shy guys. My best friend is very outgoing and she likes shy guys. What you need to do is find out what interests her and talk to her about it or talk about a mutual interest. Be confident in yourself and smile a lot. Joke around with her and like the other guy said, have a lot of energy. You don't have to be wild with energy but don't be a bump on a log lol

[Asker]

Thanks, I'll try to talk to her more and make a strong effort to be confident in myself... I'm lacking in the confidence area and it sucks

[dunc17]

Confidence takes a lot of effort. I still slack at times so I know how it feels but just think about your strong points and discretely show them off too

[LovelySerene]

There is nothing wrong about being shy, I think the shy guys are always the sweetest ^_^ don't give up

[Anonymous]

You have to go in with the same energy level that she's at, otherwise you'll just bring her down.

I'd go really funny, personally. Just remember the energy part I mentioned above.