When a girl who likes you, suddenly ignores your texts, does this mean she wants space?

[Anonymous]

She reads my texts but doesn't respond. We were intimate and so far as i can recall i never did her any wrong. last time she told me it was better we shouldn't see each other, but i told her, you telling me its better not to see each others, means you think its better but its not what you want, you want to see me, and i dont think you really love this other person. ever since she is ignoring my texts, plus the fact we had unprotected sex several times, i know she is a confused person, does this mean she wants her space, what could she possibly be thinking and how should i respond

[Anonymous]

It sounds like she either stopped liking you, or she is testing you. If you chase after her it will be seen as desperate. Instead go out with friends and have a good to me without her. This let's her know she doesn't have any power over you, and that she needs to work harder for your attention.

The best part is you won't even be playing a mind game, so you don't need to feel childish about giving her this space. You will just be out enjoying your life.

[Opinion Owner]

*Go out with friends and have a good time without her* stupid auto correct.

[martyfellow]

If there's another person, she's telling you goodbye forever. She just wants to be polite, so she isn't shouting or calling you names.
Yet! but she will if you don't take the hint and disappear.

[Asker]

goodbye forever? she did this once to me, then we almost had sex again, so then i plannend a date with her, and she declined my request afterwards, one 1 day before. so i went to her place later that evening with a letter ( yes i wrote in polish, so she understands better ) and she was reading it and we holded hands. the letter said, if you like me you can be with me, because i dont think you really love that other person. so we were holding hands shortly and then she told me i had to go because she wanted to sleep, so i tried to kiss her, and she turned her head away. i told her goodnight and quickly left, ever since she is ignoring my texts. its kind of childish in my opinion, and this other person, if she likes him so bad, why have sex with me etc... i dont think she is in love with him, its kind of sad, and what if she could be carrying a child of mines, could it be she is ignoring me because of that,... there is a possibilty i impregnated her but well she isn't speaking out

[XRabbitHeartX]

If someone ignores your text, regardless of who they are or their gender, it's a good and clear sign that they're no longer interested in you and yes, that means they need their space. To bother someone with texts while they ignore you is very desperate looking so you must give them space and let go till they come back to you otherwise you run the risk of looking super clingy.

[Asker]

stupid games, or she could just be honest and forward to me, telling me whats wrong, its probably that because she had sex with me and i told her in a letter, that she could be with me, because i honestly dont get the impression she is in love with this other person, the way she talks about him, their boring phone conversation, her ignoring his phonecalls when im with her, her having sex with me, i think its better i leave this stupid place, she is the most confused and weirdest girl i have ever met, we had sex more then once and she even couldnt tell me she stopped taking the pill. or is she pregnant or think she is and thats why she ignores me, she already has a child and to me she always told me she doesn't want another kid, why then have unprotected sex with me and not taking the pill anymore,

[Asker]

concidering all this and her not blocking me, well , makes me wonder whats wrong. She blocked me before, i hope she doesn't because especially after what happened between us, we need to keep up communication in case she is baring a child of me, if...

[martyfellow]

Yes, I bet she already thinks you're too clingy!

[Asker]

yeah what makes you say that, normally she was the one sending me several texts after another, smileys etc... i think there is something else going on, she is the most confused girl ever, and last Tuesday i gave her a letter, and it said, if you want to be with me, you can, because i dont think you really love the other person... and we were holding hands during her reading the letter, then i tried to kiss her, she turned away, since then she is ignoring me... and soon this other person comes over to her place, so she could only be more confused and what if she is pregnant from me, this week should be her period, i dont know if she had her period since she isn't responsive anymore. im gonna keep quiet for 1 or 2 weeks, and knock on her door, asking her why she is ignoring me, and if there is something going on, are you pregnant or what did i do you to make you hate me so bad, i know you like me a lot...