Auto - Rejection and experience?

Has anyone experienced this and if they got out of it how? I sort of got into it (one of my other questions related to a girl I met in a mall will explain in detail) and I see in school. Is there anything I can do? Here is a link to this topic:

www.girlschase.com/.../secrets-getting-girls-staying-out-auto-rejection

and a link to the other question with that girl:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1232529-does-she-like-me-no-girls-allowed
Auto - Rejection and experience?
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