I hate all my clothes? And I am depressed?

[Your_boss]

I hate all my clothes, I never have anything to wear.
I hate it so much, I hate it. I'm so fed up.

I go shopping with my friends almost every other week and buy clothes but why do I feel like I hate everything I have?

I like the stuff I buy, but I hate it a week later and then I never have anything to wear again.
I'm so so so so sick of this.

I even started crying cause I don't know what to do.
Is there something wrong with me?

Also recently I threw out half my closet cause I didn't like those clothes. what should I even do?

it's really making me depressed
Nobody understands

[ImagineRelease]

You're crazy, BUT... The reason is an amazing reason. You're trying to find your "style" and you fail to realize you're not supposed to be following. You yourself are a trendsetter.

It will make you go crazy because you're hitting this wall of trying to fit in instead of telling the world of fashion to F-off because it's your turn. Start mixing stuff, take some of those clothes and rip them, look for small ways to modify the things you have and show them to your friends. You'll be amazed when you see your friends really liking it. ALSO you have a key look about you that's not "barbie" which means the stuff you're against may be because it's just not fitting your attitude, hair color, skin tone, personality etc. You remove this roadblock when you cross this hurdle.

[Anonymous]

You hate your clothes, your weight... have you never stopped to think that the common factor here is that underneath everything, YOU are unhappy? It's not your clothes making you feel this way, nor your weight, nor anything else.

When you have an underlying issue that causes you to just grief over everything, then it doesn't matter what you do because you are your own worst enemy, and you'll find a way to cut yourself down one way or another.

[Your_boss]

As much as I don't like to admit it. I think your right...

[Elizabeth21__]

Well no offence, but I think that's bullshit. I have hand-me-downs, ripped jeans, and plaid button ups from my cousins, and guess what? I love them! Maybe stop buying brand new clothes and you will learn to appreciate the things you already have. Or, buy button ups and layer them over the cute clothes that you already have, like a shirt over a cami only better, and roll the sleeves up together if the undershirt has sleeves, or just totally mix and match your clothes and create a whole new style that will be what you want. This is time consuming, sure, but that might help with your depression. And if you dress in clothes you are comfortable in, then your body will look better, I promise.

[Your_boss]

I think your right. I think that the problem is that I don't like my body... (I'm the one of the skinniest girls in my class)

[Elizabeth21__]

Don't get me wrong, having a skinny body is good and bad. I feel you by the way i have one of the worst asses and boobs at school lol both are basically flat so I love love love wearing tee shirts that I can tie with rubber bands in the back, making me look more like an hourglass shape than I really am. I also love just wearing Camis with nothing over them.

[Laurenamber]

I have a problem like this too and it's draining me. I remember when I used to be able to have a style and love the clothes I wear. I was very in to fashion and always loved keeping up with the latest trends. I've become so frustrated because lately I've just been bored of clothes. I feel like I'm in such a state of dysphoria. I do not who I am, what my style is, what I like... I've always been the kind of person to love expressing myself but now I can't even do that because I don't know what I want to express. Everything bored me and I feel so empty.

[blitheCalavera]

It says you're under 18, so blame it on teen angst and toughen up so you can wear something. The worst case scenario is people laugh at you, and while this is pretty hurtful, it doesn't matter in the long run.
If you think you're depressed, see a doctor (or get a really fluffy cat).

[Your_boss]

Laugh at me for what?

[blitheCalavera]

Laugh at you for fashion mistakes. I assumed that was why you hated all the clothes, you thought they looked stupid. If this is your problem, don't worry. I go out in stupid cosplay (Caliborn and Sollux especially) and no one laughs.

[ComDom]

I think there is a strong chance this is somehow satire or a cry out for attention but if it isn't I'd suggest a person in a similar circumstance get their priorities in check and try to focus on things that are more pressing... like growing up. Also if you're in a younger age group, which I imagine you likely are, it's important to remember that your hormones are probably causing a lot of this grief and there is a strong chance you'll grow out of it.

[Your_boss]

I'm 14, and I understand my hormones must be causing this But this prblem is ruining my life

[ComDom]

That's what I thought. I wouldn't look at it that way though. People in that age group are getting used to their bodies and that's especially difficult because that would put you around puberty age.

Don't you think it's possible that you're upset for an entirely different reason and/or the annoyance with your clothes is being magnified by your (hormonal) emotions? You might want to find an outlet, like something constructive to do with your time.

[xCutesyLolitax]

... please don't throw them away! :'( You should give them to charity, instead. :)
You should feel lucky you even have clothes to throw away (#^.^#)😔

[Your_boss]

I will do that next time

[xCutesyLolitax]

Yay!<3' 💕
I'm sure someone out there will appreciate if :)

[daxtonsouth87]

Don't get rid of them! You're obviously blessed enough to be able to buy clothes and some people are not and they would kill to have some for themselves. Give them to your local homeless shelter or something or what that girl said - give it to charity. Don't be a selfish brat.

[Your_boss]

I'm not a selfish brat...

[JackKerouac77]

Donate all your clothes to a homeless shelter/Goodwill/Salvation Army

Then go shop for sales/deals and find five outfits that you really like.

Then just wear them all the damn time and read more books.

[lauren2609]

If you think that not liking any of your clothes is depression then you need a serious reality check...

[Mesonfielde]

Hah, that's exactly why I own 7 completely identical gray T-shirts.

[Mesonfielde]

But yeah. I completely understand what it's like to go shopping every week with the 2000$ pocket money I get by doing nothing every month, then feel sad that I have terrible taste and just buy things instead of like, having a need for them. Q_Q

Actually, that's kinda what I do with Steam game bundles. Hmm.

""Is there something wrong with me?""
yes. You should ask your father to stop giving you pocket money.

[Your_boss]

I don't have terrible taste...
And if my dad stops giving me money
Then I will be more depressed because I will never be able to wear anything ever again

[Mesonfielde]

Sure you can. You have a whole bunch of clothes.

[Your_boss]

But I don't like them...
I don't think you understand the seriousness of this problem

[Mesonfielde]

I think you just don't understand its unimportance.

[Red_Dragon]

I guess you're obsessed with wearing new clothes. Maybe everybody thinks you'll grow out of it.

[Your_boss]

I'm not obsessed with wearing new clothes. And grow out of what?

[Red_Dragon]

"I like the stuff I buy, but I hate it a week later" <----- Why?

Some people may think that you are only this way because you are young and that once you become 18 or older you might not feel the same way.

I don't know if that's true or not.

[Red_Dragon]

I mean heck look at the comments LOL

[Ihav2fart]

Go donate all your hated clothes to underprivileged girls.

[Your_boss]

I will do that next time we

[Your_boss]

Time ****

[Anonymous]

Very serious spoiled teen syndrome.
Your family will suffer seriously. No remedies known yet. Not lethal.

[Your_boss]

What are you talking about?

[Opinion Owner]

About your question.

[Your_boss]

But how will my family suffer? And what does the word lethal mean?

[Opinion Owner]

The people near a person with spoiled teen syndrome ALWAYS suffer in a terrible way.
lethal= a condition leading to death.

[Your_boss]

That is so mean!!! I'm not spoiled

[Opinion Owner]

Says who?

[Your_boss]

Me!!

[Laurenamber]

It really surprised me how a 45+ year old can lack such empathy. You really are not understanding her problem here at all.

[Anonymous]

Yeah you're so deep in an inescapable neurological depression because you don't like your clothes.

... or, You're a bratty teenage girl?

[Anonymous]

I suppose walking around naked is out of the question?

[Your_boss]

Yes it is

[CalmFun]

Have you ever tried co-ordinatig and mix and match your clothes, definitely helps

[Anonymous]

"Nobody understands" - Uh, Im pretty sure almost every teen girl understands ;)

[Error_204]

In a world of plenty nothing is ever pleasing.

[Your_boss]

wise words

[Anonymous]

And this is why you're immature

[Your_boss]

This is a real problem. You just don't think so because you don't have it.

[askaway2012new]

Get rid of your 2000$

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Wow... really?

[Your_boss]

Yes really

[WhoTheHellKnows]

That's your worst struggle in life is that you have too many clothes? So you buy more only to lot like them? I'm sorry, that sound like real hardship

[Your_boss]

Well to be honest if you had this problem you would be pretty upset too

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Lol no I wouldn't. All my jeans are the same pair. I have seven pairs, same size and brand and style. They're comfy jeans. For shirts, I get cool ones, like Star Wars or toadstool, things my kids like. I don't dress to impress anyone. I don't need to impress anyone. Never have. Never will. Except when going to a job interview. That's different. I am not a brat.

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Sorry kid. You're cool and all but you sound like a brat right now

[JohnScofield787]

eat more cookies!

[Your_boss]

-_- (filler)

[AloneLove]

Yeah u r burn ur all clothes

[Anonymous]

You spoiled?

[Your_boss]

why would you even say that -_-

[Opinion Owner]

Why not?

[Your_boss]

Because that is so mean! >:( :(

[Opinion Owner]

Truth hurts