Why Are Women So Passive In Conversation?

[Anonymous]

POLL QUESTION: Does it annoy you when a girl doesn't contribute anything to the conversation?

It seems like every time I talk to a woman, I always have to play the active, fun conversational guy. Last year, I went on 9 dates with 9 different women. I was ultra talkative, but when I ran out of things to say... their would be very awkward silence! Only 1 girl and I had a back and forth conversation, which was nice.

I notice a lot of women expect men to do all the talking... and they disregard him if he has nothing else to say, even though they aren't contributing shit to the conversation.

Why do women do this?

POLL QUESTION: Does it annoy you when a girl doesn't contribute anything to the conversation?

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[sortinglifeout22]

Well anyone can be annoyingly silent, male or female-sucky though that you went out with 8 of them.
I feel ya though, I once went on a dinner date and had to chat to myself while he listened and stayed silent and I thought we had been out for like 3h, it dragged on... it was a solid 1h including ordering, eating and the drives of silence.

I always think that maybe it's because you don't know each other well enough yet so she's not comfortable sharing or she's not feeling it? You could always ask her if she's usually quiet in new situations and then hopefully she'll give you some clue as to what's up.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I just utterly loathe girls who are like this. It's hard enough for me to even start a conversation as it is. If she won't contribute to the conversation I'll just say "fuck her" and leave.

[Asker]

I agree with this logic.

[samael_kmarty]

I agree as well.
The issue is Every girl is turning like that.
And it's mostly towards men like us. Who are trying to have a conversation and learn how to be.

[Anonymous]

dude blame the patriarchy. men are expected to be active and women are expected to be passive by society even if the girl is much more talkative and social. stupid society.