Seriously it’s a thing I’ve noticed with most of them. Like on dating app sometimes they will reply a few times or not at all. But if you’re not interested, then unmatch me. It makes no sense …. Or with text messages.
A lot of woman don’t match your level of emotional investment because their lives might be distracted by competing people or interests. They are not disgusted with you, just too busy to pay attention or notice your messages above their other priorities in life.
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I suck at texting not going to lie. If I’m interested in you then yes I will return the favor, but nothing crazy like fast replies. I hate guys that do that. Instant turn off. At least wait a couple minutes or so before opening it and responding. I have better things to do and you being on your phone isn’t very attractive. I like this one guy so we will see how that goes, but as of rn it’s all about school so after this weekend I will ask him out for drinks. I feel like I owe him one for helping me out.
it's really a mess and hard to fix. I think if you approach it like "I'm going fishing for striped bass", you'll have the right mindset. or maybe giant hammerhead...
you really gotta be on your best game, know the game and communication, or you're gonna get killed many times over.
It's due to all of the simps messaging them all day and putting up with all kinds of crap behavior. But this is changing and eventually they will need to put in the effort to get results...
Men need to start protecting their M. E. A. T... money, energy, attention and time.
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Because they don't even realize they communicate so poorly. It's kind of our faults as men when you think about it. We give them too much undue attention. This gives them a false sense of value. The smart ones know when we're full of it and don't take the bait. But they others don't and so therefore the assume we understand everything they say. So they are never forced to learn to communicate better.
This app has taught me how bad the current generation of women are at communication. It used to be the case that women were better communicators than men. That has changed massively now. Young women are absolutely hopeless.
They don't have poor communications it's just we don't understand their communication skills as males. Women like to have things in detail. Males love to have their communications short sweet and to the point. Women have a tendency to go and take you on a long journey to get to the end of the story. Well you're correct I like her and kitties yeah they make them prettier yeah are you going bald up there.
When they initiate contact, it is often just, "hi, or hey." Lol Even the ones that put in their profile that they will ignore messages from people that don't put in effort.
I saw a few YouTube videos about that.
Because they are attention seekers. The more guys trying, the higher ego boost. They are incapable of actually being good people or care about the people behind the texts.
As I do not have experience with the minimum of two billion plus women necessary to make that assessment, I will have to assume that I have been fortunate in finding that nearly all of the women I have dealt with have been great communicators.
Probably stems from how they were brought up or to much reliance on texting has just made them less capable of actual communication
I think that's very specific to online dating... It's so artificial and fast paced... No time or trust to go all the way with every single person... And girls usually have tons of options lol
I admit I am one of them. 🤭 Maybe the conversation is not going anywhere, bored, shyness, or uninterested?
They just don't care. If they care they will want to talk to you a lot.
You forget how many matches they are juggling. You're just one of dozens and dozens of guys she matched with and is messaging.
it’s a valid question, but I can’t help but wonder : are men good at communicating?
are YOU good at communicating?
look. don't take it too personally if this is over a dating app... not responding is kind of a response of "not interested" without saying it. just the way that it is...
Because "they shouldn't have to tell you, you should just know".
From my experience and those around, it is the men who are poor in communication.
I think women are very good at communication
We girls do not understand what to talk about. And some don't even like typing.
They can get away with it because they don't have to do the pursuing or be the one to go after a guy they want
Maybe you just have nothing interesting to say. Have you ever thought of that?
You are joking, right?
Men are the by far the worst communicators. What is worse is most are terrible listeners.
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