Why do I typically fall for very arrogant, cocky, bossy guys?

[Jessica1990]

Why do I fall for arrogant, chauvinistic type of guys only? I feel like it's not good that that's the type of guy I like cuz it could hurt me in the long run if they hurt my feelings

[ComDom]

In case you don't see my other response:

The answer is quite simple actually: you like dominant guys thanks to evolution. It's testosterone vs estrogen. The problem is testosterone, if it is not managed, can cause men to go overboard and be abusive in some contexts.

That's why you need to find a strong man with a sense of 'honor' and those types are typically hanging around military bases or religious institutions, oddly enough. Determine a man has character and strength BEFORE you sleep with him and you should be all set.

You might also want to get some type of commitment. That's the evolutionary benefit of marriage for women.

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Except most girls don't like the "dominant" men. Most girls these days prefer push-over men.

[ComDom]

Eh debatable. They are cultured to believe they don't, it doesn't mean they don't like it deep down. I know a lot of girls and I know they kind of stories they tell me. They sleep with guys like that all the time even if they regret it later.

[CootiesInfection]

you want a dominant man. you like it when they order you to do the things you already want to do. you just don't like it when they start to order you around about other stuff. its just the tradeoff

you could always look a bit further for the man who gives it to ya hard but fair.

[Jessica1990]

Very true. What do u mean the trade off? The bad part of wanting someone dominant?

[CootiesInfection]

yeah i mean you dont get to pick and choose when he's dominant you picked a dominant guy so thats what you got

[Jessica1990]

Mmm works for me ;)

[crazyincalifornia]

Dating is really complicated.
It's an art.
I think you might change your style to find Mr. Right
However, your approach is very likely to yield Mr. Right Now
And that may come in very handy for a temporary stand in.

[Jessica1990]

How do I stop myself from falling for guys that are chauvinistic

[crazyincalifornia]

Maybe they just rurn you on
You know
Sexually
Not a bad reason
:))

[Jessica1990]

They turn me on more than anything else in the world

[crazyincalifornia]

Just protect yourself.
A loving person like you can be taken advantage of.
I mean here you are, searching for advice and common good, and some people taking advantage of you by bashing, and intimidation.
I don't judge if at all possible.
Neither do my friends.
Only listen to those here that care, and accept you here.
Unfortunately, there aren't that many.
I accept you.
I care about you.
So will my friends.
:))

[justbeinghonest]

Because like many other women you like men with power. And normally that's what those guys with big egos are.

[Jessica1990]

I'm so submissive. I think that may be why I like those type of guys. How do i learn to dislike guys with big egos when naturally that's what I like.

[justbeinghonest]

Why shouldn't you like them?

[Jessica1990]

Yeah that's true. I don't see what's wrong with it besides how much I get turned on by guys with big egos. I could end up being so in love and infatuated with him that he could beat me up and I still wouldn't wanna leave him.

[justbeinghonest]

Just because some guys are cocky and full of themselves doesn't mean they are going to beat you up or be violent at all.

[Jessica1990]

I know. I'm just saying with how much I love that kind of personality. He could beat me up and I'd maybe still love him. Does that seem weird? I get so turned on when guys are full of themselves and super confident. I feel it's not healthy

[justbeinghonest]

Well is not healthy when you let yourself get hurt bro! Other than that who cares? You like overly confident men that's all.
I rather that than total pussies.

[Jessica1990]

How do I prevent myself from getting hurt.

[justbeinghonest]

Don't let a guy abuse you!

[Jessica1990]

Thank u

[Jessica1990]

I so into dominance that I will be a sex slave to whoever I'm with in a relationship

[justbeinghonest]

There's peolle like you all over the world. They even have a leash, literally leash to walk on the street. Good for you that you know what you like.

And thanks for MHO.

[Jessica1990]

MHO?

[justbeinghonest]

Most helpful opinion

[ComDom]

@Jessica1990 The answer is quite simple actually: you like dominate guys thanks to evolution. It's testosterone vs estrogen. The problem is testosterone, if it is not managed, can cause men to go overboard and be abusive in some contexts.

That's why you need to find a strong man with a sense of 'honor' and those types are typically hanging around military bases or religious institutions oddly enough. Determine a man has character and strength BEFORE you sleep with him and you should be all set.

[Jessica1990]

I seriously wish I could just be owned and then have sex with my master and his friends whenever he decides and suck lots of dick. I'd be so happy

[Jessica1990]

Com dom- so how come not all women are as needy as me when it comes to a dominant, full of himself kind of guy

[justbeinghonest]

LOL that is hot!

[ComDom]

I apologize for not answering this sooner. You feeling that way doesn't make you needy from my point of view at least. It means your body probably has its hormones well in balance.

Many people that do not feel like you do have either been cultured by society to think it's wrong (but will probably still want it deep down) and/or their hormones are out of whack.

"I seriously wish I could just be owned and then have sex with my master and his friends whenever he decides and suck lots of dick. I'd be so happy"

As a heterosexual guy... Nice lol I doubt you'll have problems with guys. Just be sure to find one like I mentioned above and you'll be all set.

[linkywinky]

Because we don't know what's good for us, asker. That's why.

[crazyincalifornia]

Our human psyche is extremely complicated.
We all wonder why we are the way we are sometimes.
I've learned everyone will never love me.
And I cannot love everybody either.
But I won't judge people if I can avoid it.
Hunters gather here.
Avoid them.
As she has discovered.
She is prey to some.

[TripleAce]

Whatever lol, You want the cocky smart ass guy, we want the confident, high sex appeal, walking in heels type of girl

I think its fair and makes sense, and I think there both trouble, but we still want them. Basically we both looking for him/her and even though they have a little edge, we want them to pick us and be amazing with us

[singlebee]

Cause most of the girls like you fall for the jerks... nothing new or surprising...
By the way these guys are players... They know how to get a pus**

[Jessica1990]

I know I shouldn't but I can't help it.

[Frost_Byte]

Because you are ignorant. You will never find happiness or success in relationships until you break the shackles of sexual/romantic desire with the chisle of common sense and your own sub-conscious.

[Anonymous]

You're a woman, it's a common mistake they make. Do they learn from it? Na. LOL

[Keyspirits]

Cuz ur a dumb bish. That's what yalk naive cuties get for craving the so called "confident" guys. y'all nvr learn from ur lessons >.>

[Jessica1990]

You're a dumb butch, learn how to spell and use proper punctuation before calling me dumb

[Keyspirits]

Do i really have to sound like a smart azz?
It took one confident jerks to blame on the entire male population smh

[Jessica1990]

So ur mad cuz u think I'm trying to make all guys look bad?

[Keyspirits]

Its funny isnt? y'all naive gurls only crave for the confident guys and thats what y'all get lel

[blondfrog]

You're attracted to him cause you're attracted to power.

[Jessica1990]

That is true. I'd assume everyone's attracted to power tbough

[blondfrog]

No not guys maybe women generally, but not men we are wire differently.

[john2]

Submissive "whip sound"

[Cowboy6666]

Mostly they are the players... Beware!!!

[Jessica1990]

I've been played before :(

[Cowboy6666]

Means I m late to beware u... :/

[Anonymous]

you're really quite stupid

[Jessica1990]

Why do you think that?

[Opinion Owner]

when a person identifies a problem and complains of its existence esp when they know the consequences of that problem yet allows it to exist beyond the recognition of that problem they are stupid

[Jessica1990]

Whatever. If you're a hater, why are u even on this site?

[Opinion Owner]

because im helping by giving you the truth versus giving you an alibi. You dont like men with power or whatever garbage you want to feed yourself and you're not smart enough to understand what power is so instead you like immature and easily acquirable sources of sex that appear to be to say the least readily available for breeding purposes

basically youve the brain of a 16 y. o.

[Jessica1990]

But I do like men with power

[Jessica1990]

I'd delete you if I could but I just signed up to this site. Once I figure it out, you're gone

[Opinion Owner]

the weakest minds babble like a brook did you know that?

[Jessica1990]

Yeah... speaking of which... Shut the fuck up! Do u have nothing better to do than argue with me online?

[Opinion Owner]

im not arguing with you because you're not fit to be an opponent though im glad you think so highly of yourself it makes watching you destroy yourself all the more enjoyable

[Jessica1990]

I'm not destroying myself. I will destroy you though

[Jessica1990]

And I don't mean sexually destroy so don't get your hopes up