Why do I fall for guys who are loud and cocky for no reason?

[Offjfbfb]

I heard a woman say those types don’t appeal to her. Then it made me realize that’s exactly the type that gets me on my knees LoL. Like right away. It just doesn’t make sense. Why does it work so well on me?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Take a look back through your personal history, was there a character you crushed on with those traits as a kid? Was your first boyfriend like that? Did you have any romantic/sexual connections to a person like that? I’m sure you can find the source

[KaiidiraX]

Loud and cocky can come off as confident before realizing he's just a douche. After dating a few of those guys I now know they are compensating for insecurity and trying too hard to be liked.

[Offjfbfb]

What insecurity?

[BigDadsHugeCokc]

Because the naughty woman and you love the bad guy in them even if they're loud and obnoxious and you can't stand them you're drawn to them like a moth to the flame because it's a taboo surrounding the Naughty Boy

[BigDog1989]

Likely because they "show confidence"

But you don't HAVE to be loud, to show confidence

[TallAnon]

Because you're a smart girl

[pickles77]

Cause you want a dom