What? Your dad is such a guy... It always makes my day when I get a random smile from someone or any other sort of mild compliment. I often get "your eyes are beautiful" and other times I get a nice comment about my smile. Is not like they just walked up and asked me "hey you wanna fuck in the back of my truck?"
Also would it make a difference if a girl commented on your looks? Because sometimes women will say something nice too. And yes, once in a while I will compliment another girl on her looks mostly about their hair lol
I don't see anything creepy about voicing a nice comment about someone. You might make a strangers day specially if they woke up feeling a little down. Even a person with high confidence Im sure would appreciate a nice compliment once in a while.
As long as the guy wasn't pushy is all good. Also if you don't ask you will never know. What if you were single and actually thought he was nice? What's so wrong with accepting a nice date with someone?
The problem is when people think that accepting a compliment is an invitation to your "goodies"
How to accept a compliment without looking like a conceited bitch? Just smile and say "thank you" Also just because someone said something nice to you it doesn't mean you have to equalize a compliment too
He said you were cute and asked if he had a chance for a date. You said thanks and moved on. Nothing wrong with that.
I'm sure your dad gives strangers compliments once in a while (even of e denies it) maybe his compliments are a little too much and that's why he thinks it was such a problem for you.
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Im flattered by it and I don't think my self esteem is low at all. Being told you're beautiful is a kind thing. One time this thug looking guy just came up to me in Walmart and told me that he couldn't walk by without letting me know how lovely I am and told me to have a good day. lol that just like made my morning. people don't have to tell you that you're beautiful but they do so why is it a bad thing? there is so much negativity in the world that I just choose to embrace the positive. it ain't like he said "damn you gotta fat ass I wanna fuck" he complimented you
I think your dad might be scared that you will take it to heart and be desperate for the attention. because there are some women who will do anything for a man because he makes them feel beautiful. as long as you just take a compliment for what it is then its cool
No it's not bad!! I get flattered too, its just a natural reaction. But when it comes to the guy I like i'm just like I knew it was coming... LOLOLOLOL, but with me I feel so fat and shit when i'm by myself, I am fat too I weigh 181lbs, but when i'm with my crush who is a skinny mini, i don't feel that way, i'm like wow, he has me not even thinking about how i'm not good enough he got me thinking i'm good enough.
Although I am not into boys, I don't mind them admiring them and expressing it in words, as long as they keep their hands (and other body parts) to themselves
If the guy wasn't a creep about it then I guess it wasn't creepy. A guy being considered a creep is up to the girl he flirts with. The difference between the guys who are seen as romantic and those that do the exact same thing but are labelled as creeps are if the girl found him attractive back.(I am not including cat callers or guys who ask for sex/nude photos from complete strangers)
No, if the guy told it in a correct and nice way it's quite normally you feel good about it.
Imagine he would have been full of tattoos, with his 16th beer of the day in his hand and would have said "hey pussycat you look good today haaaaa haaaaa haaaa"...
Well than it would have been normal you found that very creepy haha!
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What's so creepy about giving a compliment to a woman about her looks?
Looks like your dad is still being overprotective of you! :-PThere is nothing creepy with a compliment whether it is from a stranger. You need to take it for what it is. I think your dad may be a little overprotective.
Nooo that's not weird I feel the same way because I'm insecur I guess
I'd be flattered. A little extra reassurance making us feel good doesn't reflect insecurity.
no it's normal your dad was overly protective I think.
sometimes it can get frustrating because they act like they never seen a female in their life!
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