Girls, Why do you want to emasculate men so badly?

[Anonymous]

[devilish-cutie]

we just want to keep it real. Not all man are manly and that is fine. Not all girls are girly. It's about the freedom. Why do you all man feel so attacked?
Also being 'manly' and not being able to cry is not healthy for you guys at all. We are all humans after. The queation is also what masculine exactly means. If I see a guy crying I don't think he is less of a man. I would understand that when you are hurt it's ok and helathy to let it out and I would think he has a healthy way of dealing with emotions. But someone who cries all the time and on every little thing - sure isn't healty or manly...

[Asker]

You're just looking at a small picture of it this, its is way bigger than that.

[DaniJ]

You are going to have to be more specific... Emasculate how? When you say it like that, it just puts us all on defense mode. As for me, I like for guys to be masculine but still gentle/polite, not just some big muscle man, you know?
I would never want to make someone feel like less than a man though. If a guy is hurting or embarrassed, he suddenly becomes more attractive to girls, if that's what you are referring to, but that isn't our doing, and we want to help them feel better, not worse. It's just a nurturing instinct that we have, and a need to feel needed.

[udolipixie]

Girls, Why do you want to emasculate men so badly?
If 'you' means you gals-
I highly doubt most gals want to emasculate guys unless the definition of masculinity is a traditional conservative patriarchal one.

If 'you' means you personally-
I don't want to emasculate guys as in I go around seeking it. I do enjoy emasculating guys when they approach me and I find their view of masculinity to be sexist and misogynistic which unsurprisingly is quite often. I rarely find a guy's definition of masculinity without sexism or misogyny as it seems most guys can not define what it is to be a guy without negatively correlating it to not being a gal. It seems as if guys say what a man is without including gals in some negative form.

[30craves]

Maybe the girl or girls that have done this just want to feel power or in control. i can't think of anything else.

[contulmiau]

What? Who lied to you? Not all women want to emasculate guys. I love a manly man, as long as he's respectful towards me

[Destinyjoyf]

If you've hurt us, that's the only time we'd want to. If you're an awesome guy, you get treated as one.

[Anonymous]

Where are you getting your info? Love masculine guys

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I won't emasculate you if you don't give me a reason. Treat me right and I'll do the same in return.

[Asker]

Why do i have to treat you right first? Show some respect and its return.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Well if you won't treat me right then fuck your feelings. I'm not respecting anyone who doesn't treat me with respect

[Asker]

Show some respect first. Then maybe you'll get treated right.

[mutedaisy]

Why do you want to feminize women so bad?

[Asker]

Because you are in fact FEMALES. Men dont try to take that way if anything we embrace your femininity. Its the odd ones that try to play Ms. Dominat/ Masculine.

[kittykatbrat]

I do?
Projection much?

[Anonymous]

I didn't want to.. he asked to be pegged.