Guys, why manipulate girls?

[nateyoder23]

What is the purpose of it?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because that's what they want and understand. Woman understand manipulation and it's role in society better than almost any man and history shows it time and time again.

Manipulation isn't an inherently bad thing, it's what you use it for that's dangerous.

This is gonna take a minute to explain and even though nobody's going to read this, it's really worth putting out there. Especially if you struggle in relationships, especially if you struggle in social situations, especially if you can't figure out why you're not moving forward in your career or getting the respect you think you deserve.

People believe what they precieve. You have an amount of control over that from the clothes you wear to the color of your skin to how you speak. Every little thing you do contributes to what people think you're capable of, what they think you're values are, how you'd be in bed, how you'd be leading a team at a big business etc.

If you're not presenting yourself to the public with the intention of projecting a certain persona then they will assume all sorts of untrue things about you because

A: people suck at reading people

B: they're making their assumptions off a faulty baseline (because most people at least subconsciously understand and enact this concept.)

The Japanese used to say that everyone wears three faces. The one they show in public, the slightly more vulnerable one shown to friends and loved ones. The last one; which is your true face, some (probably most) people aren't capable of seeing.

What does that have to do with manipulating woman? You might not realize it, but they manipulate us all the time. You really think it's that hard for your girl to know what she wants to eat every day? Like she just all of a sudden needed you to do it for her? She's not necessarily wrong for doing it, it's just what they like to keep things interesting at to feel attached.

But it takes at least two to play this game and frankly, if you're not taking part in it, people are going to manipulate you in ways that are unquestionably wrong and against your best interest.

People want to understand you almost like a well written character in a TV show or a book. You'll find it much easier to communicate with people.

[dynamicyandere]

Men want things.


They can go about those pursuits honorably or they can go about those pursuits dishonorably.


Men who take the Machiavellian approach of pursuing an outcome by any means necessary may resort to manipulation — be it business, politics, or relationships.

[dynamicyandere]

I personally opt for the honorable approach when I make life decisions because it gives me peace of mind and allows me to feel proud of who I am becoming.

[ChicoFromThe305]

People have lost their humanity, manipulation is a cowardly nonconfrontational tactic people use to get what they want and it's only accomplished through lying and deceiving, which is a cowards favorite strategy.

[ProbablyClueless]

Unfortunately, every man has tried to be straight forward with women, only to have it backfire. The manipulation almost becomes expected and it's easier because women just assume you're manipulating them, whether you're being honest or not.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sex. Sex. And more sex.

[Unit1]

Sex. Sex. And more sex.