Girls, scorpio women hot and cold phase?

[Anonymous]

SO after being so into me, i've kind of (after some research) found out that i may be in the hot and cold phase of this relationship. I'm a taurus very straight forward, adament, patient, and even though i wear my feelings on my sleeve when i feel like i can trust that person it still doesn't mean i will play my best hand. So this scorpio beauty of mine has been very hot and cold with me when i dont constantly message her (she doesn't text much throughout the day anymore as she used to) she texts me later on in the day or night saying she misses me and then we start to converse again. She went from extremely hot to distant and cold, but i can feel the fact that she does care for me in the same way i care for her. Is this her i'm feeling you out phase? I just need a concrete answer.

[Anonymous]

As a Scorpio girl, I totally understand what she's doing, lol :) Although it might come across as hot and cold, I think she's just a little scared/intimidated to completely commit herself to you. We tend to be very secretive and like protecting ourselves by putting up a wall, so just give it some time. She wants to feel that you genuinely care about her before she puts everything out on the line and risks being rejected. The best thing you can do for a Scorpio girl is be patient with her & show her you care in small ways (like continue showing interest, texting her, etc). Another thing to keep in mind is that we also like our alone time quite a bit. Nothing drives me more crazy than not being able to have some time to myself in my room or being able to have some downtime. Obviously this isn't completely true for all Scorpios but just my personal experience. Just give her some time and be patient with her :) Soon enough she'll stop taking two steps forward and one step back and just trust you completely :) Good luck & hope things go well for you and your girl ;)

[Asker]

Thank you hopefully this is it because i am willing to be patient to my extent with her (which is a butt ton of patience). She's worth it to me. I like my alone time to recharge aswell but it's not much so i can understand the space needed and i happily give that to her. So hopefully god willing she can see that i am nothing but genuine :) . She has no idea the amount of love i can give once she fully commits.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, yes! That's so sweet of you to care so much about her and she'll eventually come around :) The last guy I dated was very patient with me & now we pretty much tell each other everything. Also we really do appreciate the time you invest in us & the fact that you think she's worth it will mean so much to her. Honesty is probably the most important thing to Scorpio girls because we hate being lied to or deceived in some way, lol :) Please continue being very authentic with her and it sounds like you're doing all the right things :)

[Asker]

Thank you so much this is encouraging because i can't be anyone else but me. And when i'm in love (yep just called it that) it's something i'm willing to see through no matter what. SO here's hoping she can see my actions are the ones that will speak louder for me than my words and even then they'll be true. I'm a Sap right now lol

[Alexious]

I don't believe in this star sign stuff, but Scorpio's can be kinda distant at times. (I'm a Scorpio myself)

[Pyrofox]

Have you guys met?

One of my closest non dating girlfriends is Scorpio... And a shy one...

[Pyrofox]

Ya might call us in star signs the awkward odd couple we go against the grain (im aqua she's scor) yea but I've gotten her go open up. I have the opposite issue now. It's hard to get her to stop talking to me.

[Asker]

Not ye due to the distance, but she's shared things with me that are very personal to her. And that's something i know scorpios in general dont do so easily. We have plans to meet soon.

[Pyrofox]

The one I know is oppsessed with cuddling. But is willing to try anything. Scorpios depend on physical relationships like hugging and stuff spending hours doing nothing but staring at each other lol. And you better be good at keeping secrets hour her new personal info piggy bank. Lol Scorpios are trancelucent when they truly fall in love. Hope you don't mind getting your ribs bruised either (hugs may get painful when you have to leave after spending time if u meet her.) Also remember to breathe between kisses lol. And she's as nervous as you. And don't be surprised if she's worrying herself into a mess if and when you guys meet.

[Asker]

Seems tho taurus and scorpio are opposites they are actually very similar because taurus for the most part are pretty handsy and rough lol

[Pyrofox]

And remember to comfort her a lot if she does something bad at least the Scorpio girl thins she did she would worry and apologize to the point I think there's a puddle around her. Be ready cause Scorpios are famous for having enough emotion for like 3-4 people.

[Pyrofox]

You two should be prepared to get comments like get a room lol... Just hold her make her smile. Beware though you become the literal beginning, middle and end of her existence if you two fall in love

[Pyrofox]

Enjoy the fun of getting to know her !!! As she only probably let's a few in

[Asker]

Thank you, i know how hard it is to trust someone so i am grateful for the process.

[Pyrofox]

Welcome and the hot and cold thing its her being unsure is this real? Show her you really do want her start the convo don't be afraid cause if she feels the same way she will likely respond and do what mine does apologize for being the wait which annoys me I tell her I'm calm and patient. We can talk when it fits our schedules and even a random hi occasionally even on a cold day will make her happy. Even if she doesn't respond. It's the thought that counts. Smile and enjoy the friendship.

[Anonymous]

Star signs don't mean shiiiiiiiiiit.

[Asker]

There's a psychology behind it more than just moon or sun phases or whatever it is.

[Moonish]

Maybe not, but they're pretty fucking informative