Girls, do you like Alpha males?

[Toad-1]

Do you find alpha males attractive?

Yes I find alpha males attractive

No I don't find alpha males attractive

I actually find beta makes more attractive

I like to pretend I don't like alphas but I really do

I don't believe in the whole alpha/beta make thing

I'm a guy and want to see results

Updates

+1 y

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22533-the-male-attributes-females-are-most-attracted-to

Inspiration for this question came from this mans mytake: @the_rake

[RebelOfNowhere]

I'm attracted to traits that are compatible with my own. I don't really care what someones social status is, and it doesn't affect how I view people. If someone sees themself as an alpha, and acts like they're above others, I'd probably think they were obnoxious and irritating and I would not want to be around them. If someone is a natural leader, and that's just how they are, it can be attractive if they are humble, but there would have to be other things I like about them before I'd be attracted to them.

[CapricornSwagL]

D. I like to pretend I don't like alphas but I really do

My definition of a alpha is a person that knows what she/he wants and gets it. No if, ands, or buts. All that dog leader crap is irrelevant

The reason I like this male is because he's not scared of nothing and is very confident. Problem is we live in such a sexist world that... I pretend to not like this male. Shame

[CapricornSwagL]

Thanks for mho. wasn't expecting it at all. I did a double take at choice D when I saw it

[RandomUsername3464]

@CapricornSwagL Uhhh, just curious, can you explain why you have to pretend not to like him because of sexism?

[CapricornSwagL]

@RandomUsername3464 Because since sexism is alive and well I want to be treated equal. I can't like this dominate male and fight against sexism. Stupid because I CAN do both, I just don't want to. I'll still date a confident man, I am talking about over the top male attitude

[GirlScout]

I think it's overhyped up bullshit and I must say, that if a guy believes in Alpha males in this day and age then I won't find him attractive. We aren't hunter gatherers any more, we don't need this stupid shit and I don;t buy into it. You are what you make yourself, no amount of Greek letters will change that.

[RichardTheFrog]

I believe the definition has just changed...

What before required muscles and stamina for hunting...

Now could just be a business owner...

[GirlScout]

@RichardTheFrog being an Alpha male implies there is a pack or group and he is the Alpha. I just don't think it's an actual thing any more, just a load of guys who want to puff their chests and pretend they are somehow better than other men.

I stand by what I said, if you call yourself an Alpha chances are you couldn't be further from the truth.

[RichardTheFrog]

The owner of a business is just that...

A leader.

Am I wrong?

[cavmanier]

@RichardTheFrog That's a different context. A business owner isn't necessarily the leader of a family unit.

[GirlScout]

@cavmanier yes, a business owner gains peer through employment, not from being a natural leader or provider. Money gets you a long way.

[GirlScout]

*power, not peer sorry.

[RichardTheFrog]

An "alpha male" doesn't need large muscles because we live in a society with police...

[GirlScout]

@RichardTheFrog I don't think anyone mentioned muscles.

[RichardTheFrog]

Okay... Hunting ability...

That amounts to making money now...

[FakeName123]

The problem is not girls liking or not liking alpha males. The problem is the common association with alpha males nowadays. It is pretty much assosicated with some random meatheads rather than attributes which girls indeed find attractive like confidence, competence, natural authority, a high status in their social group, etc.

[Rexbad]

I agree wi this dude

[Dragonblood21]

I don't believe in the alpha beta thing. If a girl said "I like to go for alpha males", I think I'd puke a little inside.

[9mfeo]

I don't find people who believe in crack pot PUA theories attractive in the slightest. Usually their wits are a little touched. Might even be a bit soft in the head, if you catch my meaning.

[COCOCHANEL]

i started liking the badboy type for the first time ever when i met my current lover last year. he chose me so...
up until then i was into the sweet, shy, pretty boys... and i still am ♡

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[Anonymous]

I don't really label people alpha/beta/omega/platypus.

I know I dislike arrogant, obnoxious, rude, cocky people. If he's a decent guy, I'll more than likely like him for him, faults and all. I have my faults, but I am not a cruel person.

[musicbrain5]

I find that the whole alpha/beta thing is just complete Internet bullshit. I definitely don't buy into it and guys who do aren't attractive.

[justbanANNAz]

i just want a man. dont care how ur fellow males view u -.- I'm not a guy, makes no difference to me.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Hell yeah bbe u tell em

[the_rake]

Hello all,

I have to say I am upset there was not an option for "I am an alpha male and I find myself attractive". Also it was interesting to note that no woman thus far has confessed to liking a beta male.

Regards: a true alpha.

[RichardTheFrog]

I think this guy is full of shit

[the_rake]

@RichardTheFrog you are entitled to your opinion.

[Prettygurl12]

I find the qualities attributed to the "alpha male" attractive. But any man who refers to himself as an alpha is written off as a douche bag. Voted E.

[mskay]

I don't believe in alpha beta gamma delta and all that kinda guy -_-

I just want a MAN. Those make no difference to me.

[Vesuvius87]

I don't believe in labels.

[ConsultantIsBack]

They are going to say they don't believe it, is a stupid concept blah blah. The reality is, Whatever you think, alpha-beta is alive and well for men, ignore it at own risk.

[heartattack25]

I like beta guys. The one time I dated an alpha he broke my heart.

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm sorry

[Anonymous]

Im black and hang out with white dudes only because a black dude is always an alpha among white guys, that's how I gets the white pussy!

[the_rake]

This, I would consider a highly acceptable mating strategy.

[RichardTheFrog]

Black "dudes" are not always "alpha" to white ones...

Maybe just the pussies that you hang out with

[Opinion Owner]

Just the white ones pussywillow

[LionlyRose]

Women love confidence, that's a quality attributed to the "alpha male". If they believe in the alpha/beta thing or not is irrelevant.

[Aeon_Flux_21]

Notice the female users use the word "believe" instead of "I know"? They believe it's not real. They don't care for science or facts. They fine comfort in our fake modern society of lies.

[MissNowhere]

I don't believe in alphas and all that.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Well I am independent and tend to not buy into that whole alpha thing. People say I act alpha all the time, but I simply am being me.

[ZeroZeros]

That's why I like Lion

[Anonymous]

I read somewhere that betas are actually better

[RainbowFanGirl]

I don't believe that exists.

[zell0is0my0name]

I hate arrogance.

[RichardTheFrog]

What about cocky?