“Look, I was always “restricted” even when I was young and having sex with those hawt guys and in STRs with those hawt guys. I wanted them to love me. I was hoping I’d see them again. I really really really wanted a relationship, wedding, marriage, kids, house, white picket fence, with one of them. I mean, come on — I wouldn’t have had sex with any of them if I didn’t want love. I made mistakes. I was looking for love in all the wrong places. I finally figured out those guys weren’t right for me.”
This is the justification employed to persuade men and society that AFBB doesn’t exist. What’s being said here is that it’s not their fault. They were trying to exchange sex for love and thought they could get what they wanted by giving up their most prized asset.
But I have a hard time believing it when I see the number of occasions on which the “mistake” is repeated, usually involving legal or illegal intoxicants. I have a hard time believing it when I see the caliber and quality of men who are getting the AF side of the equation – men heavy on fun and entertainment and light on security and commitment. I have a hard time believing that it’s love they’re after when they routinely smirk and snark at men who would offer them commitment with “harrumph (nose upturned and crinkled).. he’s just so…. BETA”. They leverage their youth and beauty to have sex with fun hot guys, and if they “win” and lock down an alpha, that’s great. So much the better. But most of these women are perfectly fine with playing the AF game for as long as they can. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t do it, over and over and over again.
Just admit the guy you choose for LTR is like brocholi to you and something you don't really want but is good for you. The guy who you fuck and actually love is like chocolate to you an other women crave.
Men admit to liking sluts and banging them but will not commit. Why do women not admit to their own sexual behavoir?
This is the justification employed to persuade men and society that AFBB doesn’t exist. What’s being said here is that it’s not their fault. They were trying to exchange sex for love and thought they could get what they wanted by giving up their most prized asset.
But I have a hard time believing it when I see the number of occasions on which the “mistake” is repeated, usually involving legal or illegal intoxicants. I have a hard time believing it when I see the caliber and quality of men who are getting the AF side of the equation – men heavy on fun and entertainment and light on security and commitment. I have a hard time believing that it’s love they’re after when they routinely smirk and snark at men who would offer them commitment with “harrumph (nose upturned and crinkled).. he’s just so…. BETA”. They leverage their youth and beauty to have sex with fun hot guys, and if they “win” and lock down an alpha, that’s great. So much the better. But most of these women are perfectly fine with playing the AF game for as long as they can. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t do it, over and over and over again.
Just admit the guy you choose for LTR is like brocholi to you and something you don't really want but is good for you. The guy who you fuck and actually love is like chocolate to you an other women crave.
Men admit to liking sluts and banging them but will not commit. Why do women not admit to their own sexual behavoir?
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