She told me she wishes that we never met each other, does she mean it?

[Trenbolone123]

Yes

No

Depends

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+1 y

She has a new man.

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+1 y

I pissed her off.

[boywithpinkhair]

Back away slowly... reassess this situation. Something obviously went very wrong between you. Do you really think this is worth salvaging? Try to think objectively, it might help to make a list of pros and cons, and pretend you are evaluating someone else's relationship. (Though, if she said this because you're still texting her after she said to leave her alone, you should probably forget examining this and just leave her alone.) If there are more cons than pros, forget her. If there are significantly more pros, then give her some time to cool off before trying to interact again. Best of luck to you.

[broadsword]

Yes iam a senior first aider. I give blood and carry a donor card. My family are all aware of my wishes if I die suddenly.

[Trenbolone123]

Fym nigga

[AmandaLynn1930]

it really depends on what happened...
but odds are she probably is just saying that to make herself feel better. or to make you feel worse.

[Trenbolone123]

She has a new man.

[hotshotgirl]

she's trying to make you jealous i did it to my ex once

[Trenbolone123]

@hotshotgirl How are you so sure?

[AzureGirl]

Depends, and it's hard to answer considering you gave us no information to go off of.

[Trenbolone123]

She has a new man. And I may have pissed her off.

[AzureGirl]

How?

[Trenbolone123]

She asked about my new job and I dismissed her for not worthy of knowing.

[AzureGirl]

That was a bit rude. I guess your complete avoidance and phrasing ticked her off to the point of saying that.

[Trenbolone123]

I also talked a lot of shit about her man and tried convincing her to leave him at the same time

[Trenbolone123]

yep

filler

[AzureGirl]

And that is why she said that. You should respect the fact you have it a go, it didn't work, and she moved on. Doesn't mean you be a jerk about it and try to mess with her relationship.

[Trenbolone123]

yeah, but, she didn't wait and I always get my way. she trashed my confidence... doesn't matter, I'll do better than her.. and that guy is a huge fucking pussy and ugly too... how could you be like 35 or whatever he is and still be single with no kids? Gross. Fucking loser.

[Trenbolone123]

But she's also a POS for settling just because of money... it's disgusting, pathetic and hardly forgivable

[AzureGirl]

You don't seem very mature about this, just to let you know. But good luck.

[Trenbolone123]

Haha... baby, life is like high school, don't get ahead of yourself ;-)

[AzureGirl]

There is maturity past high school, it's not like we stop! Though in today's age I guess we do.

[Trenbolone123]

Pure bullshit. There's professionalism passed high school. Everything else is good to go.

[sjoes006]

I say it I mean it but I do my best to never say it.

[Trenbolone123]

Respectable.

[Trenbolone123]

How do you feel immediately after you say it?

[sjoes006]

The same as I did before. If I say it it means the relationship is over, you lied to me the whole time we were in the 'relationship' and I know I was the only one ever truly in it.

But when I forget some hindsight I don't necessarily feel that way because I will never make the same mistake twice. So I'm glad for what I learned but have no warm feelings of memories of you.

I'm not much on holding grudges and usually breaks ups happen because of both people not just one.

I've only ever said something like that to an ex onetime and I think it was slightly harsher wording but the situation called for it. That was eight years ago. I wasn't a very good picker of boyfriends back then.

[Trenbolone123]

The only difference between you and I is that I was fully in and because we couldn't be next to each other and I didn't satisfy her needs she went off to some thirsty ugly beta male. Completely different dynamics, same last words?

[sjoes006]

Do yolive in different areas? Those are so pretty harsh words so I would think for her the story is slightly different be it real or imagined abandonment. Or she's just really immature. I learned a long time ago you can't take words back. Not from me parting with words at didn't mean bit I've been on the receiving in enough to know that's not the way I want to part with anyone unless I really mean it and they need to hear it. But even then I usually hold back.

For me it isn't worth getting that upset then feeling guilty later over something I didn't mean. But younger girls say lots of things whether they mean them or not when they feel wronged. Sorry you went through that. She wasn't for you that's for sure. 😕

[Trenbolone123]

She was in another state (Va) and I was in IL and we were both at school last we broke if you can even call it that... she was cheating on her then boyfriend yet AGAIN with me from the first time we met when she cheated on yet another boyfriend with me when she told me she would fuck me if we got to know each other better and we kissed on like the second or third day. Only depending on how she feels could I even give you an accurate assessment. Abruptly we're together says her then later on we never fucking were. I'm just purely ready to surpass in the opposite direction.

[sjoes006]

Thanks!

[Trenbolone123]

you were most in-depth you deserve it

[Shawna53]

If you said something or have done something to tick her off, then she might have meant it or maybe it was something little and she's over it the next day. It depends on the situation.

[possitivelife97]

depends on the circumstances. maybe input on why/when/where she said it

[fun-weird-guy]

Without knowing the who, what, where, when, why and how of the situation it is hard to tell.

[Trenbolone123]

Read around.

[BreatheMe19]

How can we answer this without knowing who what how where when? You know...

[Trenbolone123]

Use your imagination!!!

[BreatheMe19]

My imagination sucks bud.

[Trenbolone123]

You suck my imagination ;-)

[BreatheMe19]

Oh... well damn.

[Trenbolone123]

Lol

filler

[Poppykate]

She probably didn't. You might have really hurt her!. People when hurt, sometimes say things that they never mean. ( I know I do). If you really love\ like her I would suggest being her friend. Try building up that level of trust again.

[Trenbolone123]

I can't. What's done is done. She can come my way, but, I won't go hers.

[Poppykate]

I am sorry someone has hurt you so badly. I hope that one day you can find it in your heart to forgive.

[Trenbolone123]

I appreciate your last statement.

[throwit]

Way to post the most vague wuestion possible?

[Trenbolone123]

It's not vaguuuuuueeeeee

[throwit]

She has a new boyfriend?

[Trenbolone123]

si

filler

[throwit]

Then yeah, she fucking hates you and swishes she never met you

[Trenbolone123]

Thanks

[throwit]

👍👍

[Trenbolone123]

Aw damn. ;-)

[CheerGirl38139]

a little context please?

[Trenbolone123]

She has a new man.

[CheerGirl38139]

still have no idea how that would make her wish she never met you. Must be more to the story.

[Trenbolone123]

I pissed her off. She also has a new man. I was trying to convince her to leave him for me. End of story.

[Xelebrum]

Yes she does, and no one blames her for it.

[apple24]

It depends! Did you do something unforgiveable?

[Trenbolone123]

Read around.

[annoyymouse]

I would say she means it

[Anonymous]

Sounds like moving on is the thing to do ><

[ZellRocx666]

Probably yes.