From biological perspective it just doesn't make sense. Your not a spring chicken anymore or the top choice guys want for sex, let alone relationship. You have less than 10% of your eggs left and they are not even in the best (prone to genetic defects). Why do so many women today in their 30's still act like divas with attitude, princess complex, and think they are entitled to a high earning, aesthetic male in the same age range?
Logically a woman in her 30's should be trying to market herself with traits to offset her loss in youth/beauty by showing traits that men desire in women that otherwise pollute the traits of women when they are younger. This includes the mind games, princess complex, drama, hostile behavoir, attitude/disrespect towards men, entitlement and laundry list demand in a partner as well as many other negative traits that women in their 20's explemify.
Women in their 30's should be feminine, caring, less drama, straight forward, be realisic in their partner choice and many other traits men find desirable. Hell even approach and ask guys out rather than fiddle their thumbs and hope the guy picsk up on their hints. Yet, so many women in this time still hold onto the negative traits of their youth and then either complain or shame men into going for younger women.
I'd say that's part of what hypergamy is, generally women who are like this are of advanced age (for lack of a better term) yet few know it generally doesn't work to have these character flaws while looking for high status/class males. What happens is they force themselves to lower their standards and then make their partners life miserable.
I guess this is what "modernization" has come down to. Girls who are victims of being treated like princesses their whole lives and never grow out of it. I've seen many 60 year olds even who still act like they are 20 (I used to work at a high status bar when I was about 21 and released how common this is).
The sad fact is that women like these never really gain awareness of their situation. They could be divorced, with kids, no options whatsoever/no man wanting to be with them or take them serious, having spent all their money in clothes and plastic surgeries, yet they never get to see their arrogance and self-entitlement. In the end they are their own victims and the men who comes to "save" them from that (usually what people know as white knights) are the victims as well. Nothing new here tbh
Thats where the expression 'dirty thirties' came from. Women during their 30's became much more desperate and were willing to have casual sex way more often.
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Anyone that feels entitled to things, usually isn't. That goes for both. But like you said, they hold on to the negative traits instead of growing and bettering themselves and that could be one reason why they are still single.
You're putting a blanket statement on all women above 30. Yes, some are divas and you can see why they haven't been in a relationship for a while, but you can say the same with some guys that aren't date-able too.
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