Why can't more women be like this?

[AviatorTom]

Watch this short video, then comment below.

[RxR0954]

Honestly, speaking from the Caveman perspective which i am guilty of. I have disabling mental health and yes i work, lots of time for free, most times it could be 60-70 hours a week in combined. But my partner work too and she doesn’t need to deal with my rollercoasting agressiveness, “waking up then go crazy the moment i wake up”, leaving socks on the floor and letting the dishes pile up. Not saying it doesn’t feel nice when my partner doesn’t mind and would even do it for me, which i appreciate her greatly for that, but if it goes on long term she would be burned out both physically and emotionally. I’ve been burned out to that point and it’s doesn’t feel good, not one bit.
Let’s say if i’m the sole provider, that doesn’t mean she deserve to deal with my messiness and agressiveness. There’s a thing called going to therapy and being aware/trying to change my behavior so my partner doesn’t have to deal with my actions, because it might not terrify the person doing it but it terrifies their partner.


I lived independently like a bachelor for years, being messy, leaving my socks on the floor, letting the dishes pile up, screaming when im pissed off, being loud as hell, going crazy right after i woke up, … that’s the bachelor life, if you decided to live with a partner you gotta put in the effort so they don’t have to live in a messy environment. Or else that’s just torture to the other person on the receiving end.


It for sure takes a lot of love and patience to deal with this “Caveman type”, but asking a partner to just learn to appreciate irresponsible and agressive behaviors of their SO (even when it means well, even when it’s in a “good” way) just sounds like running away from the consequences of our own actions.

[DishLady]

There are literally so many out there. They're just not appreciated. Guys go chasing the really high-maintenance done-up women FAR too often. And the more younger women see that's what guys chase the more they learn to be like the women who "get the man" and not like the women who know how to DEAL WITH the man.

[Chazmatazz269]

In short, feminism. Women have been lying to themselves and each other for way too long about how hard it is to be a woman and how easy it is to be a man. Curiously at the same time telling women that they can have it all. If they even once stopped to ask the men who they think are given everything from birth to death through no effort or sacrifice of their own, they would hear telling of MUCH sacrifice. Even the most privileged men have never had it all. There is always sacrifice.
Add this recipe for disaster to the princess conditioning we give most females from birth and the self-sacrificing conditioning we give most males from birth, it’s a wonder that there is even ONE woman who not only thinks like that but is willing to say it aloud.
There’s really only one way women can turn out given the state of modern western civilization. That woman is a freak of nature so rare that unicorns would stop to stare in awe of her.

[HawkPerception]

Trust me man. I follow all the women who support men on social media. Laurin Ponce, ShoeOnHead, EmilyWKing, TheLadyJ, Christine Grace Smith, Kait Ann-Michelle, Amala Epkunobi and a few others.

Women like that are definitely in the minority nowadays. They're logical, feminine, and their views make them everything a man wants in a woman.

It's sad that society has become a place where women have been brainwashed to hate men and become to jaded.

"Strong independent women/I don't need a man."

[HawkPerception]

If women actually listened to these females and brought back common sense, the dating world would be a much better place

[Finchie40]

It won’t let me play the video , but I take your word lol

[Massageman]

I load the dishwasher in our house- perfectly modular. A video (per above) by men about women would be interesting.

Take a look at Mark Gungor's "Tale of Two Brains". His presentations humorously explore the differences in how men and women think and communicate, highlighting the unique ways each sex processes information and experiences their relationships. They aim to help couples understand and navigate their differences for better communication and connection.

There is a free 14 minute version of his presentation on You Tube. I know it almost by heart!!! Give it a look with someone you love!

[lightbulb27]

haha!

My wife is like that, fun, easy going, accepting, but firm when it's critical values at play.

That's a unique personality and emotional maturity. A lot of women are works in progress, need a lot of love, emotion purging, and sometimes its just time that mellows them.

[exitseven]

Yes, it is usually like this.

[zombiewoof]

I have been told he is

[exitseven]

@zombiewoof hahahahhaa we will never know'

[RxR0954]

This is way too funny, go speak in the forest then. That’s actually a healthy way to del with our own bullshit we know well enough other people will find it offensive

[exitseven]

@RxR0954 I figured it they made a T shirt about it meant that I am not the only one.

[SaoirseS]

Fortunately the man I married is low maintenance, and knows how to eat with a fork.

[AviatorTom]

@SaoirseS What does he do when you serve him soup? 😉

[SaoirseS]

He switches to a knife 😉

[Screenwriter]

This is what every sane couple does. You weigh the good with the annoying/bad. If the good outweighs the bad, you decide what's valuable to you. She has. and it sounds like she's made a good choice.

[katiesmuff]

I would agree with her 100% and although my hubby isn't quite what hers seems to be I totally understand how she feels. I would not have the life I have if it weren't for my loving husband.

[PeachyPie93]

Never trust people who blab about their relationships online..
I bet if her husband lost his job and couldn't catch his bearings they would be divorced in no time lol.

[Tarifa]

There's a lot of truth in this. You'll never manage to change someone in a fundamental way just to suit your expectations. That goes for both sexes.

[WonderingManII]

Crazy. I think in a family there are some jobs the man should do, and some that the woman should do. What I hear is, "I asked him to do this, and he didn't do it when I want him too." Uhh. But this Woman goes on and saying that is ok because I like his qualities in other ways. I think it should be simple, the Man should be expected to do some jobs around the house, and other jobs she should be expected to do. Try to stay in your own lane, and things will work smoother.

[Nikki1989]

Blame the internet. Websites like this one are not helping anyone.

[Levin]

Honestly, what she describes sounds fucking awful. I couldn't live with a savage. But she's made the choice for his material providings. So she has no right to complain anyway. That's what she prioritises so it's up to her.

[msc545]

Listen to this carefully. If it were not for that house on the ocean and that wonderful expensive life,. I doubt she would be saying the same things or feeling the same way.

[BarryLiverstone]

Most are like that when the guy steps up and and protects as she described. He’s provided for his family and she feels secure

[Shiprex]

Is this AI?

There is no way this is a real modern woman

[AviatorTom]

@Shiprex She is real. There are actually many women like her, in a traditional role marriage.

[Shiprex]

On TV maybe but make her have daughters and raise them like her.