Should I shave my pussy?

[Anonymous]

I don't know do i shave the hair or wax iti have no idea im new to this and should i ask/tell me mom first? i think she might be against me shaving it but I don't know

[Faye4ever]

Okay, I'm going to be as real as possible.

I know you're older than 12 because I know a girl asking this has had a period for at least a year. And I know you went to this site, because you really don't want to ask your mom, because she's going to be against you, and deep down your going to do it anyway. Most girls do it around 14 or 15. So I'd rather you have more knowledge since you're most likely going to do it, so you won't regret anything.

So this is my OPINION. If your not showing it to anyone, don't shave. If you ARE showing it to some one, don't shave it all off. Do a shape like a rectangle. The first time you will most likely get razor burn and possibly, depending on your hair type, in grown hairs. It will itch and poke you as it grows back, so might as well do a little, not a lot. Using a single blade razor causes less razor bumps, because the it's not cutting the most superficial layer of dead skin cells. Though a single blade will visually take away your hair, but it won't be smooth to the touch.

My other reason for not shaving it all off, especially if this deals with a guy, is because, most guys don't care if it's clean shaven or has a shape (well by the time your 20). Or just trimmed with scissors. A good 1/4th of guys don't even care about anything, because they say "hair is a sign of woman" etc. So if you don't have to shave, don't. It's not worth it. If you're with a guy who has expectations and is pressuring you, you better expect them to shave too. That will make them probably back off. Or at least try something new with you.

My biggest thing, like BIGGEST thing about shaving is, only, ONLY shave the hair that is actually there. Don't shave toward your leg, because you might over shave an area, and when your hair grows back, the hair further from your pussy will be longer and thicker. And then you almost have to shave again because you accidentally shaved passed your bikini line. Don't just go crazy shaving every direction or shave too much, because you can't get it back.

Also more about the guys out there who are pressuring girls to shave. Those guys won't back out of sex, just because you didn't. You don't even have to tell them what you do. I think at that age, guys like the mystery, not really knowing everything about a girl. Because once they know, the mystery is over, and they find someone else who is a mystery to them. So yeah, once you get older, you'll realize guys will get older too, and not be so difficult about that les

[Asker]

thank you for this, and no i am not showing it to anybody but yes it is itchy and pokes through EVERYTHING and i would like to have it all off because it would make me feel sexy and be less of a pain. so yes, i probably will shave it all off but what can I expect? rashes? burns? is it safe to use a normal venus razor on it? how can i get it perfectly smooth?

[Faye4ever]

I'll be honest, over time, shaving it will NOT make you feel more sexy, when it starts to grow back, the sexy feel dies quickly. But I mean every does eventually shave it all off. So do what you like I guess.

There is a possibility for rashes. I used to get rashes, like the first few times I used it. Now I don't get them at all. But I know that's the not the case with everyone. When it grows back it itches worse than before, because the hair is short and stands straight out and pokes directly through underwear as well. So you have to keep up with it.

A venus razor has 3 blades, and it will make it smooth. Especially holding your skin taut, and shaving over it against the way the hair grows. But the closer it its the more it will suck later, especially the first time. That's why I say, you can always shave it all of in the future, but you can shape and test to it to see if a Venus razor is really what you want, or a simpler razor with less blades.

[Faye4ever]

Literally, simple blades give the same visual look as a venus blade. The difference is the feel. You will feel wear the hair starts to grow. But you can't see it at all. Shaving like that makes less of a chance of in grown hairs, and those can be inflamed red hair stuck under your skin, and tweezers don't work to remove them, unless you want a little scar there. Needles are painless and pull it out without blood.

Yeah this is the real deal about shaving that no one likes to know about lol

[Asker]

thank you for all this info i appreciate it. i will prob use a venus razor because it is the one i have and works fairly well.
this answer will definitely get an mho no matter what but i have a couple more questions.
What do i do if i get itchy rashes?
do i shave it all off directly or slowly little by little shave it off?
How do i avoid making myself bleed?

thank you soooo much this helped a LOT

[BrooklyniteBaes]

Yeah, you should tell your mom, especially if it's your first time, but on the whole I think it's up to the girl how she feels about it. If it will make you feel cleaner and better about the whole topic, by all means go ahead! But first-time shaving it is a very big and very painful step that your mom should know about.

[rose713]

shaving is more convenient but you definitely have a higher chance of it getting irritated, and waxing hurts like a b@*#% and its expensive ! good luck

[Asker]

what are the after effects of shaving it all off?

[rose713]

it will be really itchy and hot to the touch, it will rub on your pants, in between your butt cheeks (if you shave that too) and because it will be short and stubby you'll be able to feel in through your underwear!!! i would recommend using nair or something like that honestly! I've had a lot of exxperience trust me!

[Iron_Man]

No your to young and no one is going to be looking at you down there anyway

[Asker]

tons of girls shave down there its really itchy and annoying and it sticks through my panties and swim suit even if i do trim it what do i do

[Iron_Man]

Ok then I do Understand that. Talk to your mom and tell her the hair bothers you

[Asker]

okay

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for MH

[Asker]

no problem

[I_am_repulsive]

That is entirely up to you, but I advise you not to

[Asker]

why not?

[teawrecks]

I did not consult my mother before shaving. It's an unnecessary conversation.

[Asker]

what are the after effects?

[teawrecks]

After effects? A pretty and smooth vagina.

[Asker]

like does it hurt and leave rashes

[teawrecks]

Um no

[Dansexuall]

Erm. It's none of your mother's business if you shave your fanny. It's your fanny, not hers. And yes you should shave it, a hairy pussy is about as attractive as a hairy man's anus.

[_feeeyaa_]

It gets very itchy and I think you should ask your mom first, that's what I did

[_feeeyaa_]

I agree with brooklymnitebaes, you should tell your mom first and shaving in a area in which it's very hard to see, you can cut yourself, which will sting a lot. You should first try it in visible areas like your arms and legs and see how it's suppose to be and you can put a bit of soap (make sure it doesn't go in you) which can make it easier.

[_feeeyaa_]

Maybe you should have a mirror with you and start off with it

[sean1234]

shaving it could cause razor burn.

[Asker]

what should i do then

[SirOffendsAlot]

Lick it.

[sean1234]

Yeah, iron_mans right, talking to your mom couldnt hurt.

[Asker]

@SirOffendsAlot shut it

[SirOffendsAlot]

Well.. you could shut it up. With what? Stitches? I don't think that's healthy. No, give it air. Don't shut your V lol

[Asker]

@SirOffendsAlot you have a serious problem do you want a report ! ? ?

[SirOffendsAlot]

Yes. Please send your written report to me, enclosing all relevant data and the results of your surgery to shut your V. Please also include data on the cost of the procedure.

[Asker]

@SirOffendsAlot ugh now i get why ur name is SirOffendsAlot cause thats one thing u do!! do u have a life like geez

[sean1234]

It's always better to try to stop stupid argument before it starts by not saying anything.

[Eastur]

I think the natural look is better =)

[Chief16]

Only if you want to.

[Anonymous]

yes, shave that sasquatch

[Recoms]

If you ask me, Yes.

[Anonymous]

you should wax it