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Describe your perfect girlfriend or boyfriend.
My ideal girlfriend would be that of character and personality.
As far as character, somebody who is loyal, respectful, trustworthy, interested in learning, empathetic, caring, responsible, down-to-earth, independent, takes care of themselves, happy, and driven. I'd like to be viewed as somebody she can talk to about anything (religion, music, movies, sociology, philosophy, government, places to eat, art, tv shows, what happened at work, what happened at school, etc.). Treats people as human beings as oppose to a sexist approach. Somebody who values others for their inherent characteristics/virtues rather than JUST good times. Somebody who isn't shy in the sheets, yet understands that it shouldn't be public knowledge as to what goes on there (ie. lady in the streets...). I'd like to know that if I ever leave to go on a business trip, or the likes, my significant other can manage to take care of herself.
As for personality, somebody who possesses a good sense of humor, random; yet at the same time can be calm, relaxive. Somebody who enjoys rock, metal (not hardcore), neo-metal, trance, jazz, movies, amusement parks, miniature golf, shooting, food. She must like cars, enjoys driving or being driven and not scared to drive hard/or being driven hard. I think somebody who attempts to take care of themselves physically is a good representation of how they view themselves. I never expect perfection, however, an attempt to maintain is good.
Physical qualities. My height or shorter. Medium build and not really skinny.
A person who is generally happy, or at the very least, satisfied with themselves in life. A person who has an aspiration/goal/purpose. A person "in-tune" with my states of beings and can proact accordingly (comforting, supportive, etc.). A person who says what they mean and doesn't hope I "figure" it out (treats me as a human being). I'm about to graduate and begin making a foundation for myself; to be independent. Therefore, somebody who understands this and may be in the same stage in life. Somebody who can trust me and finds comfort, security, happiness, and pleasure to share/express their daily lives with me.
And of course this would be reciprocated, so I'm going to spare the details as to what MY personality, character, interests, values, and virtues are.
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A girl who would want to talk to me about anything just for the sake of it. Someone who wouldn't feel pressured to look her best around me, who could wake up next to me with smeared makeup and messed hair, and still know I think she's beautiful. A girl I could just sit with in silence, and be completely content to just be with her. Who I could have intensely deep conversation with as a regular pastime. Someone who'd be perfectly happy to fall asleep in my arms after sitting for hours on end just staring into a fire. Who'd know I'd be there if she ever needed me. And who treasured me as much as I treasured her.
Lol! I just made a list last night describing my perfect bf.
? He should have a lot of drive and direction.
? He should feel compelled to constantly improve himself.
? Someone with immense self-respect and thus takes care of his health, appearance, and upholds his own standards of conduct.
? We should be able to argue constructively.
? Great sex. A lot of great, adventurous sex.
? Someone who needs distance as much as I do; we need our own lives.
? Even when we fight, we should stay fully respectful and committed amidst the problems.
? Someone who enjoys at least some similar recreational activities.
? Someone who enjoys reading.
? We should be able to have deep conversations frequently.
? Someone who shows strangers respect and concern and friends and family, love.
? I want my religious views to be respected and appreciated.
? I want to love him deeply as well as the future we’d share.
? I want him to be from a family that I can at least respect and preferably love as well.
? Someone who needs and gives affection.
? Someone who is open and embraces diversity.
Physically, I have a few ideals. I'm a really petite girl (5'3.5" and 105lbs) but I love dating guys who are a lot taller/bigger than I am. He needs to be athletic and take care of his health.
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I would go on to say all of these certain traits, abilities, and beliefs/morals. But for me it completely varies from person to person. I don't like to make this huge list and totally blow of certain people if they don't measure up to it, you might totally miss out on a great relationship with that person and not even know it!
But right now in my life; looking at my past and my present, the perfect boyfriend I could ever have or would want to have, has a first and last name. There are no words I would use to describe this person, no terms to describe what they're interested in, or what they believe in. Right now, all I know is that everything I want and need, it summed up into that specific being.
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My perfect girlfriend would be a smart, open-minded, strong, independent woman. My perfect girlfriend would probably be not that tall (I like being significantly taller than my gf) and very fit/athletic. She would be cute, and very fashionable. Most importantly, she would love to talk with me about anything (I really mean anything, from semantics to politics to spongebob). My ideal girlfriend would think of me as her perfect bf.
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1. intelligent and funny
2.big boobs. C cup is the best
3.not obese.
and preferably not blonde (too common, and I'm blonde so yeah go darkhair!) but I'm not that phased about it -
Ooh, just someone that has trust! It seems so hard to find now a days!
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Emma Watson is a good start.
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Perfect girlfriend - Doesn't exist.
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