Girls do you like soft, cute, shy guys or Hard, aggressive guys?

[FantasyGeek05]

Hard aggressive guy
-Dominant
-Takes control
-Knows what he wants, when he wants it,
-Strong
-Aggresive

Or

The Soft guy
-Submissive
-Wants you to take control
-Doesn't matter what he wants, its all about you
-Not weak but average
-Soft

Aggressive guy

Soft guy

[MissPanda]

Soft guy !! I'm with an agressive guy now, he's stubborn, competitive, dominant and it makes it frustrating at times. I'll be like "can you grab my jacket" and he'll be like "why don't you grab it you got hands, your closer blah blah" like shit I know I got hands but it's nice to just do something for the person you're with. Sometimes asking a small favor is an ordeal. My last boyfriend was a softy and I miss that, he was so sweet and romantic. Me and him were always so submissive to eachother doing whatever the other one asked and always going out of our way for the other. If this relationship doesn't work out I will most def pursue a softy again.

[FantasyGeek05]

it sounds like you and your last would have been together for ages

[MissPanda]

We really would have, we were so compatible in every way. We rarely fought and the times we did we communicated so flawlessly we would just talk it out, no yelling or cussing. I would have married him in a heart beat, but I have a kid and that never worked with the 3 of us. I can't put any man before my child, even a soul mate.

[FantasyGeek05]

idek you guys andf i could tell it was great

[Moose2coolvargas]

Hello

[multilevel]

Just curious, which one was hairy guy, last or current?

[MissPanda]

@multilevel last

[multilevel]

Okay, hairy and submissive, maybe he was insecure about his hairiness and hence was nice to you !

[thisdudejimmy]

Wow... it sounds like a dream come true. I'm sorry to say this but life is wayy to short to be with someone as you described as your current boyfriend. He sounds like a prick. Although the way you described your ex seem legit and almost like a soul mate. I believe in second chances maybe it's not too late.

[MissPanda]

@thisdudejimmy life is cruel, we did try it again. I've never seen my kid act so insecure and so strange around somebody. She knew that when he was around that I was his and she was just a third wheel. I could see the pain she was going through internally. No matter how many times I tried to include her and reassure her, without my ex doing that she would never get passed that. If he loved me he had to care for her too and put effort into playing with her and making her feel wanted. My boyfriend now isn't an agressive asshole 24/7, but he is very difficult and there is more friction in our relationship, but when my kids around he treats her like gold and she adores him. She's even accidently called him "daddy" a few times because he emulates the qualities of a father to her. She's happy and feels included now.

[Adekae]

If I had to choose one, the soft guy. But ideally he would be a mix of both. He'd take control some times but he's also enjoy it when I take control. He'd be forward but not aggressive, it's attractive when a guy knows what he wants and goes for it, but I do love when it's "all about you". :)

[FantasyGeek05]

Yeah i had a feeling people would like that it all about you part lol

[Adekae]

Haha yeah :) But I'd obviously do a lot of stuff for him too so it wouldn't be one sided (cook, give him back massages, etc.). The second guy is really attractive by the way.. way better than the first guy!

[FantasyGeek05]

every girl on here is saying that like wow
im going to take notes from him lol

[Adekae]

I think it's his smile. Yeah definitely do that! He has the perfect balance of cuteness/sexiness you know?

[FantasyGeek05]

heheheh I don't know how to respond to that but ill try and take notes xD

[Adekae]

Haha :)

[justbanANNAz]

i want both in one.

[wow989]

Yes ,

[thisdudejimmy]

This is why there are soo many cheaters out there. I dont think there is a middle. It's one or the other.

[justbanANNAz]

@thisdudejimmy i dunno man, I'm pretty sure plenty can be. kinda like the good girl/bad girl thing. u never know what sides people have to them till they show u.

[thisdudejimmy]

Yeah i guess you're right, i didn't think about it like that. I'm kinda like that. Nice on the outside but i have a wild side also ;)

[AleDeEurope]

Most girls will go for the hard aggressive type. They prefer a guy that's dominant.
I wouldn't have put up pictures though, cause you never know who's behind the looks. I've seen ripped guys whose girlfriends literally have them on a leash.
Look at me, I look more like a cute shy guy, but I like to be dominant in a relationship, and I usually do what I want.

[FantasyGeek05]

yeah that soft guy could be more of a tuff guy and that tuff guy could be a little baby... never know

[thisdudejimmy]

I'm the same way man. I agree

[Smells-like-lavender]

I can say I'm more "softy" in this scenario, I'm definitely not submissive tho lol but she def can take control and so can I

[FantasyGeek05]

Yeah i think thats what i am it depends on what side of the bed i wake up on lol

[Smells-like-lavender]

Yeah we guys have a balance of both types that come up in any given situation but I'm more calm, reasonable and chill

[RJGraveyTrain]

Can I have a guy that is perfectly in the middle?

If I had no choice I'd go with the dominant guy somewhat begrudgingly because I'm not what is considered passive. I'm laid back and don't mind a decision maker but he'd have to listen to me. I can't stand people who are completely submissive to me and expect me to make ALL of the decisions. Makes me feel like your mommy.

[FantasyGeek05]

I know what you mean lol
but you wouldn't get mad at someone doing everything for you?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I definitely would, but I cannot stand people who literally just worship the ground I walk on, who are spineless people pleasers. I need someone who can keep up with me, not an obedient lap dog.

Again, I'd rather have someone who was balanced but that wasn't an option.

[BiscuitesSwag]

A mix of the two, as in to know what he wants but to not be aggresive. I don't like fights, so no problem in being weak. At least that would stop getting in useless fights.
by the way, the guy in the second picture looks way better than the guy in the first pic.

[FantasyGeek05]

i meant to add that in the poll
a mixture between the 2 and
what about a guy whos buff like the first one but soft.. thats rare though

[BiscuitesSwag]

Not for me, I don't like buff. 😕
It's just not my preference, nothing wrong with it.

[Littlett25]

A mix is preferable but I'd rather have the hard guy over soft because I can't stand it if someone just agrees with me all the time or doesn't have an opinion because it's "all about me."

[FantasyGeek05]

Yeah some guys don't really care about what the girl thinks and some guys just let the girl do everything

[Littlett25]

It's so annoying to me. Like give me your opinion my opinion can't be the only one!

[Lorileebaby]

I personally like something in between a little of both like a good mix

[FantasyGeek05]

detail?

[findingdreamland]

I love soft cute and sweet guys ❤❤❤

[FantasyGeek05]

Looks like he's winning lol

[QuestionzGirl]

70% soft and 30% aggressive.
I would want a soft and caring guy that thinks of me but also have a guy to say what he wants and to take control.

[alice55]

I want a nice guy who are dominant. I don't want to make all the decision alone

[Anonymous]

Hard aggressive guy. Lol I am a aggressive person so it's hard for me to be with a "soft "guy lol. The harder the better ;) lmaoo.

[FantasyGeek05]

haha no pun intended

[Anonymous]

i'm sexually dominant, but I don't like nerdy guys, I think I can tame some dominant guy and make him submissive.

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I like attractive men who are nice

[Afro-dite9]

The second guy is like looking at HEAVEN!!!😇😇😇

[FantasyGeek05]

people really like him i see lol

[Afro-dite9]

F! Yeah! Look at him he's soooo adorkableee😍😍😍! I wanna eat him up! Those glasses and that smile are PERFECTION! And I doubt he needs to yank off his clothes to get a girl's attention. I don't know him personally but he look's cool af to be around and sweet maybe even. The top guy I see a lot at the gym or in the summer time*eye roll* they tend not to be my type. Attention seeker's/show off's, disrespectful, can't keep a actually convo to save his life etc etc. Now the top can be nice and the 2nd a fuxk boy, but we're going off looks from a pic and The Nerd can get the snatch😉👌

[FantasyGeek05]

hahaha lol everybody likes him i could learn a thing or 2

[archiz]

I want a combo

[ShayanMortazavi1]

I'll go with soft

[Vivaldi]

So will I.