My girlfriend wears make up to her factory job?

[Anonymous]

Now I've been with her for 7 years and we have two kids together but ever since I got laid off the same job she is at now she been wearing eye liner lip stick and eye shadow I've talked to her about this and she says she does it to feel good about herself but on days I tell her to go natural cause she is beautiful naturally I go to pick her up and she be wearing makeup. Is she doing this for other reasons than what she gave me or should I be worried she is trying to get someone else's attention.

[Zendrya]

well firstly can she wear it whenever the hell she wants. I never understood why guys were so arrogant that they thought us wearing make up was for them. Do you think girls would be wearing the expensive ass shit they do if guys can't even tell the difference between avon and sephora? Hell no. We wear make up because it is fun, it gives us a little extra confidence and because it's frigging art.

[Zendrya]

she can wear*

[Asker]

Hey take it down a notch I'm not like other guys that go through her stuff to toss her make up or tell her straight no I'm just asking is it possible that she is putting on make up all of a sudden because she wants to get another guys attention cause as I said when I worked with her she didn't put any on which didn't bother me but as soon as I got laid off she starts putting it on

[Zendrya]

I just answered whether is was for guys or not. She knows you don't like make up so she didn't wear but now you're gone so now she will wear it. I did the same thing when my boyfriend and I became long distance

[Asker]

Look I never said I don't like her with makeup on I said it didn't bother me if she didn't when we worked together and now that I'm not working there she puts it on do you understand?

[Zendrya]

I very clearly understand. You told her to go natural which to me says you aren't a fan of her make up (your prerogative) which means she likely doesn't wear much make up when you are around so therefore if you are not around she is going to wear it

[MissPanda]

I worked in a factory at 18/19 and wore makeup. I did because I was really insecure, I thought I was hideous without it. I think maybe you're over thinking this. This could he a sign of cheating but it would have to be coupled with late nights or her always texting someone secretly, planning lots of nights out that don't include you etc. If it's just the makeup thing I wouldn't worry.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Why not. If she feels good when do it just let her do

[Asker]

I do don't get me wrong it's not like I'm hiding her makeup or telling her she's ugly with it on but it's just weird she starts wearing makeup after I get laid off the same job site

[CupcakeKiller]

Let her wear what she wants

[Asker]

I do but I guess I'm just paranoid?

[mariousdalt]

Looking way to much into this

[ItVariesGL]

lmao wow.