Look when i got into a debate with a man, it's a far more fruitful outcome compared to a woman. You can enter a debate with a man and be polar opposite in your view and as long as you lay out your info logically, put sources and be respectful and not start shit. By the end of it he might agree with at least 40% of your viewpoint and be open minded had you done a good job at debating.
When i enter a debate with a woman, no matter how logical my argument is, the sources i pick and respectable i am to them this is what i am met with. 1. Critique and whining of sources over and over. While they can take articles from jezebel. com ior some non-academic website and apparently that is fine.
2. Circular argument over and over. Even though i could of refuted a point, they will bring it up over later in argument.
3. At some point even if you weren't disrespectful to a girl, she will start shaming and attacking your character and making up all kind of backstory on your life as to why you hold onto this stance.
4. Stating your opinion is wrong just because they said so and your view does not reflect argument without any backing.
5. Taking apart your sentences and quoting phrases from it completely distorting your viewpoint so they can pin you in a corner and accuse you of something.
6. Shaming and calling you a misgoynist or bitter if they can't find a way to win logically.
And even after going through all that women still remain her stance without ever looking at things differently.
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And even after going through all that women still retains her stance without ever looking at things differently.
I was this way when I was younger after marriage and divorce and looking at myself as well as my ex honestly I realized what my dad said is true. There's his side and her side and in the middle there is truth. I sought to learn and understand and I learned about the differences in how men and women think and communicate and even deeper biological differences. We have to each learn quality communication skills and be mature enough to use them. Google 5 love languages and mirroring communication style.
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Actually, I think men are more stubborn. When they know what they want, they stick with it. And there's no changing their minds.
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