So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over two months now and she is frequently ignoring me. She won't answer me at all and if she does she barely tells me anything. She had recently told one of my close friends that she has commitment issues and that the way she is acting will clear up soon but this hurts really bad. (Btw I'm not clingy at all she's just been acting like this for over a week and I'm concerned). She also told him that she still likes me and that she cares for me and wants to be with me but she isn't showing me that.
I mean I really care for her too and all but she won't even tell me how she feels. I'm very sweet and I don't like starting fights or anything so I try to ask very calmly about why she is acting like this or how she's feeling and she always answers that she's busy. But trust me I know she's not. She has the time to retweet a funny video or post a pic on Instagram. You know how that goes. Now is she is she tesing me or something? She once told me to not let her push me away but I don't know how to stop that from happening when I'm being hurt this bad. Is this type of behavior normal after this amount of time?
What I really want to know is how I can fix this. Will time heal our relationship? Will she stay true to her word and soon stop acting this way towards me? What should I do? And how can I deal with her ignoring me? Thank you, your help is greatly appreciated! :)
I mean I really care for her too and all but she won't even tell me how she feels. I'm very sweet and I don't like starting fights or anything so I try to ask very calmly about why she is acting like this or how she's feeling and she always answers that she's busy. But trust me I know she's not. She has the time to retweet a funny video or post a pic on Instagram. You know how that goes. Now is she is she tesing me or something? She once told me to not let her push me away but I don't know how to stop that from happening when I'm being hurt this bad. Is this type of behavior normal after this amount of time?
What I really want to know is how I can fix this. Will time heal our relationship? Will she stay true to her word and soon stop acting this way towards me? What should I do? And how can I deal with her ignoring me? Thank you, your help is greatly appreciated! :)
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