Are women aware that they give men shit test?

[cchris987]

Are you girls aware when you give guys the no win questions like "do I look fat in this dress?" Or "what are we?" Or is just something that girls just do but are unaware of it? Like what are you really trying to accomplish by asking us these no win questions? The video down below illustrates this problem perfectly.

https://youtu.be/ee6LXCiWa-0

[cheeseNwine]

Shit tests originate from insecurities of the girl. But handling shit tests a certain way is the small opportunity to create attraction.

The more attractive the irl the more shit tests

I use to pass them with flyin colours but it's never ending and u realize ud rather be with someone more secure in themselves instead of always gouging their level or respect and enjoy the relationship.

There's a saying "show me a hot chick and I'll show you the man who's bored with her"

U want to get far in life avoid the hotties and attention whores. They are like powerful children, u give in and it'll ruin u to a certain extent

[cheeseNwine]

Pass them, sex with them and really analyze it and see if it's good for life. Once u had them u won't be so obsessed and it'll clear ur mind

[Blitzkrieger]

Then stop dating insecure women.

[Arinico777]

That video was hilarious;!! Fuck I sometimes did that! So not going to do that anymore. I didn't even realize I did that. I used to do that because I wanted to he completely sure. I didn't do it to the level of the girl on the video but I did question like "do you want me to though?" LOL! Okay, okay. So yeah, I used to do it for an insecurity

[cchris987]

Girls be acting strange :/

[Arinico777]

Not acting strange. It's just that we ask because we simply like to know things how they are. I at least hate when guys cannot be concise and straight to the point in what they want. I don't like to waste my time. You guys are strange for us just as we are to you. Welcome to reality buddy. Just in case if you didn't know that.

[cchris987]

I know all things

[Arinico777]

Okay

[Arinico777]

Mr. Omnivident

[kellyg83]

"What are we" actually sounds like a legit question. Because if I'm with a guy, I'm not going to waste my time doing things half @ssed. You're either in it or not, and if you're not, please have the decency to shut your mouth and start walking. As far as the other questions go, I've got better things to do. So I don't bother.

[JuicyBrain]

The thing is, we also depend on you telling us what we are. How are we supposed to know better than you? When you ask us that, it feels like you are pushing us into a corner where if we say we are friends, you'll be mad because you see the relationship as being stronger than that, but if we say you are our girlfriend and you don't see it that way, then again, you are mad. the only right answer to this question is your own answer. The one that's in your head. How are we supposed to win?

[kellyg83]

@JuicyBrain that's why you have a conversation. The only right answer is the one you BOTH decide on. Because if we say it's a relationship, and you don't agree, you could resent us and find ways to screw it up. So you both decide.

[JuicyBrain]

Sure, it's fine when she is ready for the answer and willing to discuss, but women tend to ask questions for which they are not ready to hear the answer.

[Anonymous]

It's kinda like how you handle it when a guy gets lost and won't ask for directions or makes a mistake. Or when he tells a lame joke or gets a fact wrong in a discussion. If you throw it in their face, your relationships suffer.

Men want to feel superior to others, women want to feel valued.

[JuicyBrain]

I genuinely don't see how it's kinda like. Explain to me how the guy in this situation is trying to feel superior?

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Not seeing the similarity.

Side note: We want to seem competent, not superior. They're two slightly different things so I can see how you could have missed the subtle difference if you were, perhaps, a cup of dirt.

[Opinion Owner]

Guys honestly don't want to feel like they're somewhat better than all other men out there? It seems so to me, anyway.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Tell me more about how girls don't also suffer from that.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, she wants to know HER MAN values her more than other women - flaws and all. Men seem to want reinforced that she doesn't see his flaws at all than that she accepts them.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Which is another way of being valued.

[MrNameless]

I disagree. Everyone wants to feel valued and respected.

[Opinion Owner]

Many men's view of "respect" seems to be reinforcing that they are the best, infallible, so called "alpha" or top of all others in whatever way they think matters.

[MrNameless]

That is what society instills

[Opinion Owner]

I agree there.

[JoyGirl]

Hahaha... LOLZ 😂
That video... 😂
Yap, I do that... lol 😂
I have to be sure. '-'

[cchris987]

You're too young for that nonsense

[JoyGirl]

Trust me, I do that... lol 😆

[JoyGirl]

Thank you for the MHO! 😊🙋

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Girls have it pretty much drilled into them that guys either want something or they don't. They are rendered by society to be generally incapable of realizing that a guy can have grey areas in his desires and opinions. Don't blame them. Blame Walt Disney and romance/erotica authors.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Oh and Bollywood movie directors... can't forget them

[Nikikb]

😂😂😂😂haha... it was funny acually...
In this video guy should act more intrested. I might feel guy is not in to me if he don't act suprised and interested...
And... then there are sometimes we just wanna tease you guys..👿👿

[cchris987]

I never act interested cause girls hate when guys are interested in them.

[Nikikb]

Wow... who told you that.. i strugled when a guy destanced me before.. but now im not.
Im like not in to me? Bye

[cchris987]

Exactly you want a girl to be thinking about you, that's why it's better for guys to be cold and distant.

[Anonymous]

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Patron Saint Al Bundy

[joeywalnuts85]

Yeah I know it's either to test us and see our level of interest or give them a reason to act out and blame our responses to situations like this. Also depends on the individual situations every one could have different meanings

[Kolya]

slim as fuck ex girlfriend asked me if she looked fat in a dress once... i held her, kissed her passionately and wanted to do things to her because the dress made her look awesome

[lualesca]

"do i look fat in this dress?" Honey you look fat on any dress, charms the ladies instantly.

Women are aware when they do those things.

[bjstevenson89]

They know what their doing, but they'll never admit to it when they do it

[Anonymous]

Yeah I mean even on gag they post seductive pics of themselves and then if complimented on they have a go at you.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Women who act like this are the bane of relationships.

[sodababe]

Of course- we just like watching you squirm 😂

[Maxemeister]

Lmao I liked the second pic

[Anonymous]

True