My crush randomly removed me off all social media?

[Anonymous]

She stares at me from a distance, but won't look at me when I am nearby, looks away or looks down, sometimes expressionless and sometimes smiling. She talks to everyone around me but not to me. She blushes and acts excited when I am around or near her. Her friends are always watching me everywhere I go. She talks loudly around me or gets really quiet. She was watching me from a distance through the corner of her eyes, then came and started talking to the people beside me, looking over their shoulders to look at me and quickly looking away. She gets flustered and awkward around me.

I was nervous and am a little insecure so didn't make a move. She took me off social media. I'm confused and a little hurt because I didn't do anything wrong. I was always nice to her. I didn't think she cared about me enough to do this.

[jabbahut]

I might not a too late - however you odds maybe against you now. Her staring at you continually means she wants you to approach and start a conversation - she most likely is really shy. I think at the end of the day by approaching her you have nothing to lose but everything to gain.

I personally wouldn't judge her feelings through Social Media as a number of circumstances could explain why she deleted you. She maybe wanted to clean up her Twitter or Facebook - it's very hard to really predict. Please, don't judge whether she likes you through this - instead simply ask her.

I can't give you false hope by saying that you still have a big chance however it is definitely worth a go and in the end you will have your answer.

If she does say no then put this behind you and keep moving forward - don't let this one incident knock your confidence.

I wish you good luck!

[Asker]

I thought she wasn't interested. Now her actions are showing something else. Why delete just me on everything when I didn't do anything wrong to her?

[jabbahut]

If you look at her body language and ways she looks at you it points in the direction that she does like however she is shy - the reason I know is because a similar scenario happened with a Girl I liked. The reason I think she is staring from a distance is because she is shy and is trying to indicate that she wants you to approach her. She also simply wants you to notice her and get the message - when this happened to me with a Girl I got really confused.

It's hard to explain why she would delete you off Social Media however I would look at the bigger picture of how she is staring at you and giving you signals to approach. The reality is that you may never get an answer to why she deleted you so don't stress about it. As I said I think you seriously need to approach her and at least have a go since you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

[Asker]

That's it, man. I was really confused too. I thought she didn't like me. But she wouldn't randomly delete me now if she didn't care, right? It must mean that I hurt her in some way.

I think if I approach her she'll walk away, cuss me off and give me the cold shoulder. Feels hopeless now. Why couldn't she come and just tell me how she felt. She didn't talk to me either.

[jabbahut]

When it comes to Girl's they often are more scared of rejection in comparison to Guys - they often feel quite insecure about this and that's why they often won't approach. They also feel quite insecure about making conversation first - that's why it takes a while for a Girl to open up. They also are scared that you judge them and that more often than not is common.

As I previously said I wouldn't read into her deleting you from Social Media as a big thing - instead just look by it. I doubt she is angry with you because I don't thing you have done anything to upset her - she simply is just nervous.

I would definitely say still approach her and be nice and respect the fact that she is shy. To be quite honest she wouldn't be wanting your attention for nothing - you to narrow it down to she either wants to be your friend or likes you. Try not to be nervous as everyone is in the same position when it comes to approaching new people and still go in and be yourself.

[Asker]

I doubt she is angry with you because I don't thing you have done anything to upset her - she simply is just nervous.

That's the thing I was always pretty respectful to her. I'm worried it's too late now. She deleted number and everything, not just social media. I had no idea she had feelings for me like this.

[jabbahut]

Please don't kick yourself for not noticing as I will admit I have done it before - and I know it quite honestly it is a bad feeling. However, the best thing to do this is still approach her and attempt to have a conversation since you have nothing to lose. Simply just go up and try and have a basic conversation with her you don't have to talk about anything complex.

Remember in life sometimes the unexpected does happen and simply you just have to believe. Go up to her and talk and have a positive attitude. If it doesn't work out so be it however you do have everything to gain.

[Daniel12]

She definitely likes you a lot. Her deleting you is a way for her to attempt to move on. Silly really unless you two regularly communication online which it sounds like you do not. If the only thing you did wrong was to not make a move and understand what this girl wanted, then she is probably more hurt than angry. Considering how it is Christmas break right now, if she is spending her days thinking about you and removing you from social media, then she may have cared for you mor than you thought. You definitely still have a chance.

[Anonymous]

Your crush doesn't like you back and she probably thinks you have been stalking her or something.

[w00t420]

Social media is a terrible gauge to judge anything by. Maybe she was just cleaning up inactive people, or someone else had access, or any other of a million mundane reasons to remove you.

You need to make a move. You might be too late, and you might not be. You don't know until you make a move. All the pining over being in her social media circle, or if she does or doesn't like you gets you nowhere. If you ask her out, and she refuses, then at least you've got an answer.

[Asker]

She deleted my number too. And I was the only person she removed. It made little sense since I thought we were cool. I guess everything is too late now.

[w00t420]

Unless you make a move, and it's not too late. You won't know until you make a move.

It is definitely way too late if you never do make a move.

[jman46241]

Yeah, she probably wanted you to talk to her..

[Harambae]

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