Why do most girls have nothing to offer but sex to a relationship?

[Jrossetti]

Girls always have very high standards for a man. Like he has to be charming, friendly, good-looking, good pay, etc. But yet most girls don't offer much in return. Every girl I've dated has offered nothing but sex and complaining. For example, girls (the ones who are constantly getting played by the same people, ever heard of a pattern?) on Twitter constantly complain about how guys don't want to date them and then retweet all of these posts about wearing lingerie for their man. A girl can't win me over by giving me her body, if all you have to offer is sex, I can find it somewhere else.

[pbandjelly]

I wouldn't say most girls, perhaps a small amount of girls are like this. They just think they're entitled and they're extremely immature. Sick of it? Date mature women who have their shit together and know how to stand on their own two feet. You need a woman not a girl who expects a man to be countless things. Its ridiculous.

The flip side of this is Its just like me saying most men are cheaters and have nothing to offer but lies. Whilst this is somewhat true, id say only a small amount of men are actually like this. Its usually the 16-21 age group, classic fuck boys. Thats why im dating a mature guy, funny thing is both me and my boyfriend were always told we were very mature for our age.

Maturity my friend, there is hope.

[AriadneSky]

they do as you say the new you reject dont have personality. you would not feel that way without the expectation that women out there are going to be a better fit.

if a person wants a relationship the partner will need to be various things beyond a body. if it just sex, well then thats all. but women in relationships would not be in them if they were not charming charismatic intelligent funny compassionate or something positive beyond sex. you have not dated most women so you just have a prejudice. i would think it works against you. assume there are women who bring much more and dont settle for less.

[Jrossetti]

I don't really understand what you are trying to say in the first part. But, I've dated quite a bit, and it is still the same old story. They never really do anything from the heart, nothing sweet.

[Rainie_]

I wouldn't say "most" girls tbh, but definitely some. I guess you keep going for the same or similar type of girls which a lot of people tend to get into the habit of doing (hence why many think "all girls" or "all guys" are the same).

I can honestly say the same thing back at some guys as I've met plenty whom all they ever talk about is sex, and any other topic gets awkward or they're not interested in or feel weird talking about.

You just have to find the right people that are compatible with you.

[Jrossetti]

I guess, I've dated and talked to a good number of girls though and still get the same result

[notsureofmyusername]

Sadly this is true. All of these treating women like princesses since they are little and telling them they should settle for nothing short than a prince has resulting in an infestation of divas. They feel they need respect and appreciation just because of their gender and don't worry about actually deserving it.

[notsureofmyusername]

I typed very fast sorry for the mistakes

[Jrossetti]

Can I give you a hug?

[notsureofmyusername]

*gives virtual hug*

[Browneye57]

Read my take on online dating profiles: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a34115-your-dating-profile-dissected-or-what-not-to-write-about-yourself

Yes, most of them are worthless. Not only that but most of them are clueless in bed as well. Just a lot of big talk and showing off, no real value.

Google this term: solipsism

[AleDeEurope]

That's just young girls. As they get older they start to offer more, but girls in their late teens and early 20's don't offer much, that's why you shouldn't date them.

[AleDeEurope]

Thanks for the MHO

[Jrossetti]

Don't thank me, it was earned

[Anonymous]

You've answered your own question in a way... have higher standards for a girlfriend. Girls who flash their bodies are a lot like men who flash money... it works for the lowest level of superficial attention, but doesn't do much in the deeper meaning department.

[Opinion Owner]

If you keep catching the same fish, I'd check your bait and your pond, so to speak.

[Anonymous]

This is the result of boys being brought up told that it's what they do that defines them and makes them special; whereas girls are brought up being told that they're special the way they are and if people don't see that, they don't deserve them anyway.

[kaylaS91]

That's what it may seem like to you which is understandable, seeing as how boys mature (mentally, at least) a little later than women. So, keeping that in mind, you're not yet able to appreciate more than what lies between her legs. :)

[Jrossetti]

But that's all they've ever done. Every girl I've been with has had nothing to offer but sex and drama

[kaylaS91]

It's hard to have 'something to offer' when all the guy in question (ie. you) wants is to get his dick wet, y'know?

[Jrossetti]

I like getting my dick wet, but I can't form a relationship based on just that

[kaylaS91]

Well in that case, I suppose you could rephrase your question to 'Why do most girls *I've tried dating have nothing to offer but sex to a relationship?"

[mjashin]

every girl is different. "all girls are the same" is usually what weak men say. you should think about it. and keep searching for what you want :)

[Jrossetti]

Which is why I said "most," at least the ones I've dated

[mjashin]

well ok. then don't panic, keep searching :)

[IceCubedude]

dude he says he has fked plenty of women i wouldn't call that weak, find another world cause weak doesn't fit him

[mjashin]

you didn't get the point. read again until you get it.

[IceCubedude]

I understand your point and it makes sense i mean if all girls are the same then we're fuked lol cause we will never find any wife material girls , but since such girls exist claiming all girls are the same is wrong and won't help our cause.

but i do have something to add, not all girls are the same but a lot of the things work on a lot of girls , for example being cool and laid back with good looks will make all kinds of girls like you, shy, slutty, popular, unattractive, attractive... etc but it doesn't mean the slutty girl wants to get married and the shy one wants to stay single, i guess thats what you meant right?

[mjashin]

that too but also i meant more. first i didn't say about him who is weak, i was saying about all men who put all the women in the same category. plus, you may fuck a lot, but is that what makes you a better person? i think all people have something beautiful deep in their heart and mind and we should search that and the things that fit us instead of complaining about the bad things that seem wrong to us. because if there is bad, there is also good, it's simple, i can tell that for sure :)

[Anonymous]

😂😂you just described every girl that has those sky high standards. Literally nothing in return but they want everything.

[dimples123]

What if those girls with sky high standards have a lot to contribute and return except sex? @anoynmous @Jrossetti

[Jrossetti]

He's referring to the over-entitled

[Opinion Owner]

@dimples123 well if that's you, then good because most girls that have these standards are fake,

[dimples123]

I see. I know it's easy for guys to say that is good. But now a days, even if a girl has a lot to contribute. If she doesn't spread her legs wide open, guys will leave her and go for a girl who gives it up easily

[beyondhorizons]

As just a 19yo who has travelled, lived in other countries, found passion in my studies and has confidence in my independence, I don't think it can just be blamed on age or gender! Girls can be thoughtful too, I love doing little things for my man, coffee when he's home from work, clean the flat when he's out, leave notes, buy him beer, treat him to a nice meal. Maybe it's more a reflection on yourself?

[Jrossetti]

I got none of that, only sex and complaints

[Blonde401]

You're going for shallow girls. There's plenty with stuff to offer, you just aren't going for the right girls. You're also 21 so that has something to do with it.

[Anonymous]

The stereotype of this world makes girls presume that guys only want sex. May be.

[Prof_Don]

I blame our fellow men for being so thirsty for pussy. Giving many of our fellow women overinflated importance for merely existing and increasing the entitlement complex.

[Kitten967]

Some girls have more to offer than just that. Also some girls don't care about how much a guy gets paid

[JohnDoe3000]

Just don't date these girls: don't be that guy who has no other standards besides her being hot.

[bxchra]

if they only offer you sex, they feel nothing for you lol

[Jrossetti]

I don't particularly care for them either

[bxchra]

then I guess you dont offer too much either so what's the point of this question

[May10th1994]

If all you can see if a women offering sex, then you have your own issues.

[littleheartbigbooty]

You found the wrong women so far. I know lots of girls who have a lot more to offer

[yilanjor]

for example? what could they offer other than sex?

[littleheartbigbooty]

You need to find someone with a strong personality my friend

[yilanjor]

pffffffffffff no women has a personality

[littleheartbigbooty]

This is totally the wrong attitude. If you think women have no personality, then what are you looking for in one?

[yilanjor]

I look for sex

[Kaylyne]

Obviously you've been associating with the wrong type of women.
Wishing you better luck next time.

[baabyput]

Woah 😅what a statement. I think you may have met the wrong types?

[Jrossetti]

😭😭😭 maybe my age group just sucks

[baabyput]

Ahw 😖 that I do not know actually.

[bighairy1]

Perhaps you should try it with another guy and compare experiences

[IvoirianGirl20]

Lol um maybe you should reviews YOUR standards how about that?

[Jrossetti]

You need a comma in that statement. You could also offer an answer to the question.

[IvoirianGirl20]

What answer? Isn't that obivious? Change your tastes in women that's all

[Prof_Don]

The OP is simply making an observation of what he has seen, I see nothing bad about what he said at all!

[IvoirianGirl20]

@Prof_Don The OP is stupid point blank

[Prof_Don]

Then educate him instead of calling people names

[IvoirianGirl20]

@Prof_Don Educate a grown ass man about his choice of women? Lmao that is not my job to do that but his

[Prof_Don]

This is an advice website, I see no reason not to give some to the OP if u feel he needs it

[IvoirianGirl20]

@Prof_Don Brotha I think the convo is done here tchrrr

[Edymemelord]

Thats not even a thing m8

[Jrossetti]

Specify which "thing."

[Edymemelord]

Most girls do not have "nothing to offer other than sex" lol

[Jrossetti]

Every girl I've dated (which is a fair number) have had nothing

[Edymemelord]

Sorry for your misfortune.
I have helped my fiance fix his credit,
work through the army bull shit,
sex when he's here,
given him happiness (in his words).
We're long distance so that's not even important.
I'm like his closest friend too.
You just need to find the right person.

[Jrossetti]

That almost sounds too good to be true

[Edymemelord]

Awe thats sweet.
I really am sorry though.
You will find the one.

[elly91]

not all women or girls are like that though..😊

[Iraqveteran666]

It seems more the case these days

[Anonymous]

What do you think men offer to a relationship?

[Paul1236]

Resources

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think nowadays men use more resources than women. You could complain about that in the past, but not today.

[yilanjor]

you have a point

[Anonymous]

because they have nothing to give