Why do most girls have nothing to offer but sex to a relationship?

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Girls always have very high standards for a man. Like he has to be charming, friendly, good-looking, good pay, etc. But yet most girls don't offer much in return. Every girl I've dated has offered nothing but sex and complaining. For example, girls (the ones who are constantly getting played by the same people, ever heard of a pattern?) on Twitter constantly complain about how guys don't want to date them and then retweet all of these posts about wearing lingerie for their man. A girl can't win me over by giving me her body, if all you have to offer is sex, I can find it somewhere else.

pbandjelly · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say most girls, perhaps a small amount of girls are like this. They just think they're entitled and they're extremely immature. Sick of it? Date mature women who have their shit together and know how to stand on their own two feet. You need a woman not a girl who expects a man to be countless things. Its ridiculous.

The flip side of this is Its just like me saying most men are cheaters and have nothing to offer but lies. Whilst this is somewhat true, id say only a small amount of men are actually like this. Its usually the 16-21 age group, classic fuck boys. Thats why im dating a mature guy, funny thing is both me and my boyfriend were always told we were very mature for our age.

Maturity my friend, there is hope.

AriadneSky · Accepted Answer

they do as you say the new you reject dont have personality. you would not feel that way without the expectation that women out there are going to be a better fit.

if a person wants a relationship the partner will need to be various things beyond a body. if it just sex, well then thats all. but women in relationships would not be in them if they were not charming charismatic intelligent funny compassionate or something positive beyond sex. you have not dated most women so you just have a prejudice. i would think it works against you. assume there are women who bring much more and dont settle for less.

Rainie_ · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say "most" girls tbh, but definitely some. I guess you keep going for the same or similar type of girls which a lot of people tend to get into the habit of doing (hence why many think "all girls" or "all guys" are the same).

I can honestly say the same thing back at some guys as I've met plenty whom all they ever talk about is sex, and any other topic gets awkward or they're not interested in or feel weird talking about.

You just have to find the right people that are compatible with you.

notsureofmyusername · Accepted Answer

Sadly this is true. All of these treating women like princesses since they are little and telling them they should settle for nothing short than a prince has resulting in an infestation of divas. They feel they need respect and appreciation just because of their gender and don't worry about actually deserving it.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

Read my take on online dating profiles: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a34115-your-dating-profile-dissected-or-what-not-to-write-about-yourself

Yes, most of them are worthless. Not only that but most of them are clueless in bed as well. Just a lot of big talk and showing off, no real value.

Google this term: solipsism

AleDeEurope · Accepted Answer

That's just young girls. As they get older they start to offer more, but girls in their late teens and early 20's don't offer much, that's why you shouldn't date them.

Anonymous · Answer

You've answered your own question in a way... have higher standards for a girlfriend. Girls who flash their bodies are a lot like men who flash money... it works for the lowest level of superficial attention, but doesn't do much in the deeper meaning department.

Anonymous · Answer

This is the result of boys being brought up told that it's what they do that defines them and makes them special; whereas girls are brought up being told that they're special the way they are and if people don't see that, they don't deserve them anyway.

kaylaS91 · Answer

That's what it may seem like to you which is understandable, seeing as how boys mature (mentally, at least) a little later than women. So, keeping that in mind, you're not yet able to appreciate more than what lies between her legs. :)

mjashin · Answer

every girl is different. "all girls are the same" is usually what weak men say. you should think about it. and keep searching for what you want :)

Anonymous · Answer

😂😂you just described every girl that has those sky high standards. Literally nothing in return but they want everything.

beyondhorizons · Answer

As just a 19yo who has travelled, lived in other countries, found passion in my studies and has confidence in my independence, I don't think it can just be blamed on age or gender! Girls can be thoughtful too, I love doing little things for my man, coffee when he's home from work, clean the flat when he's out, leave notes, buy him beer, treat him to a nice meal. Maybe it's more a reflection on yourself?

Blonde401 · Answer

You're going for shallow girls. There's plenty with stuff to offer, you just aren't going for the right girls. You're also 21 so that has something to do with it.

Anonymous · Answer

The stereotype of this world makes girls presume that guys only want sex. May be.

Prof_Don · Answer

I blame our fellow men for being so thirsty for pussy. Giving many of our fellow women overinflated importance for merely existing and increasing the entitlement complex.

Kitten967 · Answer

Some girls have more to offer than just that. Also some girls don't care about how much a guy gets paid

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Just don't date these girls: don't be that guy who has no other standards besides her being hot.

bxchra · Answer

if they only offer you sex, they feel nothing for you lol

May10th1994 · Answer

If all you can see if a women offering sex, then you have your own issues.

littleheartbigbooty · Answer

You found the wrong women so far. I know lots of girls who have a lot more to offer

Kaylyne · Answer

Obviously you've been associating with the wrong type of women. Wishing you better luck next time.

baabyput · Answer

Woah 😅what a statement. I think you may have met the wrong types?

bighairy1 · Answer

Perhaps you should try it with another guy and compare experiences

IvoirianGirl20 · Answer

Lol um maybe you should reviews YOUR standards how about that?

Edymemelord · Answer

Thats not even a thing m8

elly91 · Answer

not all women or girls are like that though..😊

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