Why is it with some women guys only want sex and with some women they genuinely want more from her than just sex?

[Anonymous]

[AnonAndrew]

You can basically think of it like this:

He wants to have sex with her.

Does he actually like her enough to want to be together with her? Then he also wants more.

If he doesn't like her that much, he only wants to have sex with her.

(There are guys that are exceptions to this. There are a number of them, though probably fewer than most women would expect.)

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s just horny. Maybe he knows she gets around by word of mouth. Maybe he just wants to have sex w out getting into an actual relationship. Maybe he’s been burned before in a relationship so now he’s just plowing through as many women as he can. Trust issues. Maybe he heard by word of mouth she give good head. There’s a lot of reasons.

[HungTexan]

I think it’s the guys more than the girls in most cases, who just want sex. However, I do know a few women, who had a relationship previously, that only want sex now.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone just because they are attractive. I only have pursued someone, if I could share a life with them.

[ChicoFromThe305]

There's good quality and bad quality, all dudes know that, even the worst of men that use women have some vision to the difference between the two.

[jahaims]

Broken immature guys only want sex. A guy usually treats a woman differently based on if he respects her or not. If he only wants sex he just sees you as a cum rag not a person.

[AnonAndrew]

Wow, that was quite aggressively put, @jahaims! :O

While I agree that those can be reasons for a guy, I don't think they're the only possible reasons.

A guy who is not broken and respects a woman can still sexually desire her, even if he doesn't think they're a good fit for a relationship. Doesn't necessarily mean he sees her as "a cum rag" or less of a person either.

[Anonymous]

Men prey on the weak and vulnerable.

[Anonymous]

How do both of these woman look