Until I turned 26, I remained a virgin. After finally having experiences with three women, each expressed that we weren't compatible for a long-term relationship. Recently, I've been talking to a girl daily for two months before our two dates. We slept together on both occasions, but after the second date, she suddenly became less enthusiastic, flirty, and affectionate. She expressed that she likes me but not on a romantic level. Despite being told I'm handsome and skilled in bed, I'm puzzled as to why none of these connections seem to develop into lasting relationships, especially since I've never been in one and I'll turn 30 this year.
As someone on the autism spectrum, I often wonder if it's my difficulty in connecting with people, their struggle to connect with me, or a combination of both. A month after our second date, she asked if I had a "disability," seeming annoyed and offended by my not disclosing it earlier. I had intended to eventually share this aspect of myself, but it seems my message didn't come across, especially considering her profession in mental health. Additionally, I've always been hesitant to disclose my autism to women, fearing they would treat me differently or automatically disqualify me from a relationship.
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Girls, Can get sex (barely) but can’t get into relationships, why is that?
What Girls Said
Sex is the equivalent of asking people if they want free 🍫 chocolate bars. Many would say yes to that. Many man want sex. Several man would even keep gfs for years just to get sex and the free benefits. Anyone likes things for free. Something that's so easy to find and obtained has 0% value.
However, getting a real, serious relationship and commitment out of a man is like trying to get people to buy healthy, organic products that costs and can be expensive but in the long run, you'll have no health issues and will live a longer life in comparing to eat chocolate many times. The harder is to get something, the more value to it.
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Thank you. Yeah I was pointing out the obvious. I'm glad to hear you find my answer great.
sex is available n easy
serious relationships r serious n r no game, not for everyone
as simple as that