Am I ugly? Why do only creepy guys like me?

[Anonymus622]

I don't want to be shallow but I'm starting to think that I may not be as attractive as I thought. It took me years to finally feel confident in my looks and winning pageants has helped with my self confidence but the fact that I only attract guys that are creepy (I'm saying creepy because they would follow me after my classes without me knowing until I look back and are very anti-social), I feel as though I'm not as pretty as people say I am.

I get compliments on my looks from both guys and girls, older and the same age as me (I'm 18) but I think the problem may be because I don't like to exclude anyone so I try to be nice to everybody even if they're not the type I'm "supposed" to hang out with.

I don't like the whole popularity thing and would rather be kind to everyone but in regards to guys, I've only been attracted to the "popular" type. People at school considers me as very smart because I get things really easily and am naturally very curious and like to learn new things. This may be the reason I only attract unattractive, nerdy guys. I know who I am and I don't want to settle. So don't tell me to give them a chance because they really scare me when they stalk me everywhere.

I don't know what to do. I want to still be kind and intellectually curios but I don't think it's bringing the right people in my life.

[jasonstav]

Well, You never know I was just very quiet at school that's all, but once I feel comfortable with a group of people I become very dominant and I become the leader instantly so you can never really judge. But if people are stalking you that's weird and you need to avoid those people

[realperson02]

you can always say that we are just friends to the people with whom you aren't attracted to.

[mithi_macy]

Continue to be kind. But also set boundaries. Make it very clear to them that you are beyond their reach. You shouldn't be rude about it though

[Bonguy]

Try posting your pic here, and the compliements will follow

[Anonymous]

How about a complement from an old guy. You gotta be careful all guys are pervs

[Anonymus622]

Aha thanks! I'll remember that