My boyfriend has a Hot MAID?

[Anonymous]

Hey Men feel free to answer also, either from my boyfriends perspective or if you were in the other shoe as in dating a woman with a hot butler.

I'm a white woman and I am dating a Latino Man and he has a Latina Maid (not sure if Ethnicity matters but I decided to mention it anyways), His maid only speaks Spanish so I have no way of communicating with her, but she is super good looking. She looks like a mixture of Eva Longoria and Zoe Saldana.

She is in her early 30s. Honestly I am really jealous. I worry a lot and get intimidated. He has her as a maid for 2 years now and he originally got a maid because he got so busy and it got difficult to clean at home, or to cook, or to feed his goldfishes, feed his dogs/take them out for walks and he got maid to help and to make his life easier. They seem to get along really well. When they talk to each other they will talk in Spanish I have no idea what they are saying since I don't speak Spanish. It's mostly the way she looks that bothers me, maybe if she was like a old motherly looking maid it wound't bother me, but this whole Latina Model Type Maid, it's very intimidating.

Would you be jealous of your boyfriends maid? What would you do?

[Cloudy25]

Honestly I'd probably be a little insecure too even though i consider myself very confident. I guess it depends on how well you know your boyfriend and trust him? If he's a great guy and into you then you should try to put your worry aside. If he's known to be a player then i get your worry. Perhaps you could talk with him? Just let him know how you feel and you guys can sort it out so it won't bother you anymore.

[Anonymous]

How many times are you going to post about this goddamn maid? Man up and actually TALK to your boyfriend about it if it bothers you so much that you have to post a dozen questions about her.

[Asker]

I only meant to post it once, I was trying to post it in 2 catagories

[Opinion Owner]

You've posted it multiple times over multiple days.

[SarahsSummer]

Dont most maids come to the house when the guy is at work or at least out of the house? I think you are getting insecure over nothing.

[Asker]

No, not this maid. Does her being home depending on when my boyfriend is home or not make a difference to you?

[SarahsSummer]

Not really but why is she feeding the fish while he's home? Most maids want to come when the homeowner isn't in the way and most homeowners want their privacy while at home. is she there while you and he are together in the house? Watching a movie, eating dinner, in bed?

[Asker]

I don't know lol, and I have no idea if Latin maids work differently then American maids, I don't know if its a different culture or what, all I know is she has a schedule and she follows it weather or not by boyfriend is home or not. I mean I've seen people on TV have butlers and maids who practically live there.

If he is home he's either with me, or just doing work at home and it still takes a load off.

[Asker]

So basically if you were in my shoes it wound't bother you? Just wondering not judging,

[SarahsSummer]

No. He needs a maid and if I couldn't take care of it for him I'd want my guy to have a maid too. What she looks like should be irrelevant. Do you have insecurities in other aspects of your relationship?

[Alwaysanswers]

If she's been his maid for 2 years, I would suggest that if he wanted to get with her and she also wanted it then it would have happened already.

[TheWombRaider]

Lucky him... mommy and and daddy must spoil his ass...

[Asker]

No, his mommy and daddy are dead and he came from an immigrant poor family, he isn't even like super rich or anything, but he has done well for himself

[TheWombRaider]

How old is he... if he has a real job or owns his own businees but u dont ssee that to often with guys in their 20s

[Asker]

26, he works in an animation company and has another business thing with Goya

[Asker]

Hard work and luck combination based on what he told me.

[Decentguy]

its possible that you are insecure and thinking wayy too much about that.

[Asker]

So if you were in my shoes and your girlfriend has a Sexy Butler? You wouldn't feel that way? Just curious

[Decentguy]

by saying that, i meant maybe she's a normal girl and you are thinking wayy to much, and thats why she looks soo hot to you

[Asker]

Ok sure, but I am asking you if you were in my shoes and your girlfriend has a Sexy Butler? You wouldn't feel that way? I am just curious about what you think

[Decentguy]

ofc if she was that sexy, i would feel the same way

[Asker]

I mean if you had a girlfriend and your girlfriend had a attractive Male Butler working at her house

[Decentguy]

sure i would feel like that. but if there is good level of trust between us then i won't feel that way

[TripleAce]

Garanteeed he pictures her naked

[Asker]

So it's normal for me to be worried

[TripleAce]

Yes a little. It's not like anything will happen

But if your boyfriend is hot. Yea it could happen and she probably likes him around too. And he surely likes her around. For sure

[AleDeEurope]

Stop watching porn and getting paranoid.

[Anonymous]

SHE GOT TO GO!