My girlfriend wants to get breast reduction due to her back problems, how can I stop her from making the biggest mistake of my life?

[StiffLeg]

[EVPExaulted]

Well for starters, this is clearly not a video of your girlfriend given the fact that this woman is extravagantly confident in her body as clearly depicted. On the topic of many of the "Selfish" related comments below... would you please elaborate to me why it is selfish for a woman to not life up to the stereotypical esteem at which the public so thinks when doing such a procedure is one fairly inexpensive given that comparison of her having years of agonizing back pain in her later age, and possibly not even all that much later? A good representation would be woman I personally know who went through this and is now able to still get up and do things on the average day to day that the later individual would have been to damaged to do without extensive muscular and skeletal pain in their lower and upper back. In some cases such issues can be extreme causing one to be wheelchair prone by age 55 to 60. Is that really what you would want to look forward to when you get to that age?

[BuchitaBuchys]

I think it's very selfish for big breasted women to get reductions, and no I'm not trolling. Do they not realize how many women pay to get big boobs? And how many would love to have his girlfriend with them? Smh. Inconsiderate women.

But I suppose it's her body, her choice. I'd just try and guilt her, like let her know that you fell for her as is, big boobs and all. To try not to change too much.

[beebella]

So, she should suffer through pain because her selfish boyfriend wants her to? You don't seem like you understand what it's really like to have so much weight on your chest that it messes up your back/posture. Please, have several seats.✋

[BuchitaBuchys]

@beebella it's not just her boyfriend though. Society benefits from big boobs because we have something nice to look at. And she's the only one complaining. So that's like a lot of people vs one, again her body her choice but a selfish choice nonetheless.

[beebella]

So, she should not have a reduction just to please other people? When it comes to our bodies and our health, we're allowed to be selfish.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@beebella OK so we agree it's selfish lol I don't know why you're arguing

[beebella]

I'm arguing because you think it's selfish of her to want to not be in pain anymore. I'm not agreeing with you.😑

[BuchitaBuchys]

@beebella "When it comes to our bodies and our health, we're allowed to be selfish." You just said that it is selfish

[beebella]

I said it because you think it's selfish, and maybe it is. And if it is, then yes, we're allowed to be selfish.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@beebella ok. Then we agree it's selfish

[butterfly1221]

This is the most self centered thing i have ever read. Her breast reduction will not effect your life but it will save her's from a life of pain. If you are only with her for her cup size then she deserves better.

[snowangle]

Pretty sure this isn't a real question but just in case, here's a relevant photo.

https://i.imgflip.com/j5vam.jpg

[RomansToPhilemon]

There was a girl in high school who had amazing breast. Just amazing. Summer came and when school started back up they were gone! What the fuck. Every guy in school thought she was the stupidest girl in our school. I would literally just stare at her in class hoping she would stretch back with her arms b/c you could see her boobs real well when she did. Apparently she complained about her back pains as well. Honestly, if you are a female with back problems because your boobs are too big, then all you have to do is WORK OUT your back muscles. I promise you the pain and problems will go away. A doctor will not tell you this. He wants your money.

[KnightCross]

my sis had a classmate, when she was at high school, who had back problems AT THAT AGE (around 15-16)... she did breast reduction and the world didn't come to an end to her (even though i don't know who exactly is this girl, since i was only told by my sis at that time)

[Hal2002]

I hope she kicks you in the nuts.

I dated a women that was a 44DD her breast weighted 17lbs. each, and she suffered a lot of unnecessary back pain because of it. She had breast reduction, and is today pain free and a lot happier.

Try wearing a 34lbs. bra for 8hrs, and see how it feels to get an idea of what your girl is going threw.

Personally I think, she should dump your selfish self centered ass.

[beebella]

I'm starting to consider this, as well. It's not your body, not your life. Be a good boyfriend and support her.

[Krumpir]

Share the pic with us from anonymous account?

[Mr_Knowitall]

yeah you kinda stated it in your topic. This will be the worst mistake of YOUR life - as it just not yours to make that decision. If ever I would choose to make sure my partner\GF life IS easier and painless - especially for the long run. Would you rather a c cup girlfriend who enjoyed life with you or a DD/EE girlfriend who's life will be pain pain with you?
In short - Support her or loose her for someone better!

[ChocEyes1]

Hey, I have a better idea. Why don't you get some breast implants on yourself? You can even set the same date she is doing the breast reduction. That way, she is free from her back problems and your are satisfied in your need for big breasts. And everyone is happy :)

[Anonymous]

Honestly, it's not all about you. If she's having severe issues that are affecting her quality of life, then a reduction may be the solution.

Doesn't mean they take it all away. They just reduce them to a more reasonable size for her.

[RowenaRavenclaw]

Let her do it. If you love her, you'll want her to be happy and not in pain right? Let her do what's best for her.

[Rachel_is_gay]

this is my suggestion: wear a backpack in front of your chest (with a few books in there) for a week to see how it'd feel:))

[chrisrockwingstop]

those books pay for themselves! ;)

[Hai_tis_E]

break up with her. How selfish. Im talking about you by the way. pls be informed :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqjVSJBsmqM

[wicket]

its not really mistake if it's really an issue for her then she has to do something about it just advise her not to reduce it too much for u

[Anonymous]

Start focusing on fitness with her DAILY! Do it together. You want to get her to strengthen her back and improve her posture so her spectacular boobs won't cause her problems. So you want to focus on building her back muscles, improving her core strength and ensuring she stays flexible. You should also start giving her a LOT of massages.

by the way, that vid is freaking INCREDIBLE!

[1truekhaleesi]

She's allowed to do what she wants. She's the one in pain, it's not all about you.

[Wish209]

I would recommend her to lift weights such as military press to increase should/upper back and bench press to reduce her breast size

[Chico_brah]

Lmfao. I legit fapped to this video on pornhub a week ago.

[pooria1998]

😂😂😂😂💦

[PinkLotusLove]

I think you're a troll but whatever, she should get rid of you. It's like easier option.

[Westy616]

These first world problems, eh? If this is what you call a life changing problem, I would hate to see you when there actually is one. Maybe you can compromise, but you shouldn't be with someone because of their breasts. Love her for her soul.

[Chica_]

Well I'd say love her for her. One day you'll be loving a woman who has sagging breasts, wrinkles all over and will be called grandma. Don't love her for her body n her health is more important... this shouldn't be a mistake in your life at all. And stay by her side, don't leave her.

[Anonymous]

somebody needs to ask the real question here: where is the rest of the video? :)

[let456]

Let her do it. It's not like they will be reduced to nothing and she will be left with a flat chest... It's her body and her choice.

[Anonymous]

You can't.
https://i.imgur.com/nOjqHDz.jpg

[CorruptedDocument]

Feminists don't surf

[Woodlandgnome]

Are they your breasts?

[CorruptedDocument]

Dump her, find better woman

the feminists will try to rip you apart on this one

[CorruptedDocument]

the 2 girls, why must he compromise?