How to stop girlfriend from getting Breast Reduction?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend who's 19 wants to get a breast reduction but I pleaded with her not to. I know they give her back pains and they jiggle around but I love them! I really don't want her to get it done! She's going down two sizes! I love her boobs and I love her for who she is. She knows I'm not happy with the this.
I know I should do what's best for her and what she wants, I always have! I've always put her first but not this time.
I told her that she's lucky to have such amazing boobs and her friends are always telling her how they wish they had bigger boobs. I've kept her on stall and she's thinking about it but what can I do?

I'd rather loss her boobs than her but I can't let this go... I know I'm bad or not a good boyfriend because I'm not putting her first but I really don't want her to go through with it.

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I'd like to add that I got circumcised for her.

[Ananchor]

This literally has nothing to do with you and if you keep mentioning it or how you don't want her to do it, I will be surprised if she doesn't dump you. You're under 18, so I'm gonna assume so is she. Which is probably why you're acting like a child getting his toy taken away... Except your toy is currently and will only continue to cause your girlfriend pain and health problems. If you actually care about her... Shut your damn mouth

[Asker]

Woah there. I don't think you read my whole post but no I'm 17 and she's 19...

[Asker]

Also I'm her partner so this is my business!

[Ananchor]

You're not her husband, you're not even an adult yet, she's barely an adult.
And yes I read your whole post.
Boo hoo I like her boobs! Who cares if they are causing her pain

[Asker]

Where I'm from you are an adult at 16, it might be different where you live. I think its fair that I have a say because I got circumcised for her.

[Ananchor]

Umm no if you got circumsized for her it doesn't make you an adult... It makes you an idiot. And I'm guessing you're in Europe . 16 year olds know nothing you're still a teenager

[Asker]

I didn't say circumcision makes you an adult? How does it make me an idiot? Maybe where you're from 16 year olds know nothing but where I'm from they're working and just starting a family.

[xHoneyxBeex]

There's nothing you can do. It's her body and if her chest size is seriously causing problems for her (such as back pain) then it's her choice if she wants to get a reduction. I don't mean to be rude but you sound very selfish right now. If her size is causing her legitimate pain then you should be more worried about her rather than just her boobs.

[Asker]

Not serious pain, she said its more like a nuisance.

[xHoneyxBeex]

So? If it bothers her then it bothers her. It's her body and her choice to get a reduction if she wants to.

[a_lizete]

If you love her for who she is then tits shouldn't be an issue. They will still be there just smaller. She'll be better in bed with less pain and more confidence so shut the hell up and stop being a conceited bitch or she'll dump your immature ass
No harm intended

[Old_School]

This is the first time I have heard of a beast reduction. My suggestion is have her lay on her stomach and give her a back massage. Make it as sensual as you want. Any surgery for non-vital reasons is a waste of money.

[Anonymous]

tell her that you will help her strengthen her back muscles with lots of sex and affection... .

[Masterrayray]

It doesn't work like that

[Maddi2912]

In the grand scheme of things 2 sizes isn't a huge reduction. She will still have nice boobs and you should love her for her no matter her boob size. This isn't about what you want im afraid, man up and accept her decision.

[Asker]

Its difficult but I guess I'll have to... thanks for not insulting me like most people!

[Maddi2912]

Yeah you will especially if they are causing her pain. You should want whats best for her... insulting gets you nowhere. good luck!

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

i feel so bad for your girlfriend... her boyfriend is kind of an ass

[Asker]

I know I know, I am two years younger than her so there's that. Also she likes me to be an ass sometimes.

[mei0313]

One of my friends got it as well because they hurt her back really really bad and her shoulders as well :/ if your girlfriend has the same problem then i'd support her if i were you :(

[Asker]

I do support her its just I'm going to be very sad.

[itsallover]

How selfish and inconsiderate of you. What she does and doesn't do with her body is her choice, not yours.

[Asker]

I didn't say it was my choice, I don't want her to do it but I can stop her but that doesn't mean I won't try.

[itsallover]

Yeah, but you're trying to discourage her from it and that's the issue. If it's causing her pain then she has every right to go through with it. Her breasts aren't just there so you can ogle at them.

[Asker]

Yes but it could affect her in the future, it could affect her when breast feeding.

[itsallover]

Again, if she wants to do it, despite the risks, then she can. As long as the nipple isn't severed from the breast, she can still breast feed. I doubt that's your main concern though, lol.

[Asker]

It is, like I said before, I don't want to loes her but this is just upsetting. I won't stop her because I love her its just I'll be very sad.

[itsallover]

If it was your main concern you would have mentioned it in your description. You only talk about how amazing they are and how her friends are jealous. If something like your girlfriend ending her discomfort upsets you, then I really question your intentions in this relationship.

[AleDeEurope]

Dude, it's her decision, not yours, and you should focus more on her health than on your satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

You're inconsiderate. Your girlfriend has back problems and is in pain and you're worried about her size of boobs. Think of her well being and don't be selfish.

[xCutesyLolitax]

Hmm. After putting some thought into this, I don't think you can stop her. In addition, two breasts size aren't really that big of a deal. Perhaps you are exaggerating.

[xCutesyLolitax]

*sizes.

[Klaatu51]

dude... i know it's a loss of money... but it's her life u cannot tell her wot 2 do 8)

[Anonymous]

You can't stop her, she can do what she wants, however, what you can do is tell her how you feel about it. If you can't handle the reduction, time to break up

[Asker]

No I'm not happy about it but that's it, I wouldn't break up.

[Anonymous]

If it's giving her back pain then she needs it. Don't be selfish.

[Asker]

I told her I'd get trained as a masseur and help her and she was open to the idea. I know its wrong of me...

[Opinion Owner]

Work-arounds are not solutions :)

[Asker]

I'll ultimately support her but its a great loss.

[Opinion Owner]

No it isn't. Losing a family member is a great loss.

[Asker]

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Let it be man, it's her decision. Do you know how horrid that back pain would become when she's on her period. She's probably dying with agony, don't be a dipshit

[Anonymous]

sorry dude.. you cannot do anything.. but i feel sad for you.. :(

[Asker]

Its OK, she didn't go through with it! It was too pricey and her mom talked her out of it. Also I told her it would make people focus on her behind more and she didn't want that so... praise the lord!

[Opinion Owner]

thats a line from ''two and a half men... ''

[Asker]

Yeah! That where I got it from, and it worked on her! Did you see that episode too? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

yes i did.. i watched all of it.. almost..

[jakeofalltrades]

if she wants to get it done let her do it. stop being selfish

[Bluemax]

I really hope this is a troll.

[Asker]

I would have preferred a contribution to this topic but what exactly do you find about this post for it to be "troll" worthy?

[throwit]

Ew grow up.

[Asker]

Thanks for the wonderful advice!

[throwit]

You sound like such a nice and supportive and unselfish and mature boyfriend. Your girlfriend is lucky to have you. Lol.

[Asker]

I know, which is why I support her even though if I dislike her decision.

[throwit]

"I always put her first but not this time"

Shaming her and trying to convince her to not get BACK SAVING surgery just for your own enjoyment is not what I would call "supporting her decision" you are a terrible boyfriend for making her feel bad about getting a surfy that would make her life more comfortable and help ease her back problems.

[Asker]

Firstly I haven't shamed her and secondly if it was serious back pain I wouldn't hesitate for her to get the surgery, she's more concerned about people looking at her or her ability to run up the stairs than back pain.

[throwit]

That's still a problem and she has to deal with that EVERY DAY. You are guilting her into backing out of it. Saying you love her boobs and they are perfect being big. That's she's lucky and people are jealous.
How is she going to feel if she has the surgery? Now they aren't big enough for you? She's not as good now?

If her breasts are causing her discomfort and she doesn't like the stares they make her get then you have no right to tell her she shouldn't get a reduction. Something that would make her more comfortable but would make you deal with smaller boobs.

[Asker]

What if the procedure goes wrong? What if it affects her future and makes her incapable of breastfeeding?

[throwit]

You're just looking for reasons now, you would have put that in the question if you really cared about that. But you just put "I love her boobs! I don't want them to go down two sizes. I told her she's lucky to have amazing boobs. I always put her first but not this time. I know I'm a bad boyfriend for not putting her first"
You're putting YOU first. You're concerned you won't have giant tits to play with anymore.

[Asker]

Well I got my penis circumsized for her, so isn't it fair that I have a day in this?

[throwit]

It's kind of the opposite? You got something done because you thought she would prefer it? Or did she tell you to get it done.
It would be he same if you told her to get the surgery and she did.
If you wanted to get circumcised but she didn't want that then she wouldn't have as much of a say as YOU would about YOUR OWN body.

[Asker]

She wanted me to, I was hesitant but I did it for her and went through three weeks of agonising pain.

[throwit]

The fact isms you are more concerned about your girlfriends boobs getting no smaller and going to all lengths to convince her to keep them. (Training yourself to be a masseuse? Really?)
You're trying to justify being selfish and caring less about your girlfriends health and more about your sex toys. >_>
Stop trying to guilt her out of it. It's despicable

[Asker]

No I will support her however I can, if she tells me she's going through with it I will not stop her. She said she is considering it but she hasn't made a final decision. She doesn't need the surgery, she said it would be out of convenience and not necessity. I'm not happy with the outcome but I'll live with it, I just want to know how I can persuade her not to because I have the right to.
I like her the way she is and I don't want her to change unnecessarily. As this change is not vital.

Becoming a masseur will help with the minor back pain she has and eliminate the need for expensive surgery that I'll mostly pay a large amount for.

I made myself appealing to her so why can't she do the same for me?

[Anonymous]

you can't stop her.