Is there anything wrong with me pressuring my girlfriend to get a breast reduction?

[Anonymous]

She wears an F size bra and in my opinion she would be more attractive and better suited to a C or D at most size bra. I’m not going to actually bully her into like a controlling boyfriend but I told her that if she loved me and wanted to stay with me she would do it and that’s honestly how I feel so she agreed to get them reduced and she’s having a consultation in two days time.

[MCheetah]

"I’m not going to actually bully her into like a controlling boyfriend BUT... I told her that if she loved me and wanted to stay with me, she would do it."

Yeah, that's pretty sh*tty, dude. I would 100% agree with her if she broke up with you. That's like a chick asking you to get leg-lengthening surgery because "Being 5'9 is so-so, but I always wanted to date a 6'1 guy. You don't HAVE to do it, but if you expect me to be here next month, you will do it."

Man, I hope you're trolling us right now for the LOLZ. Otherwise, I'd say you're a piece of sh*t, dude. (And no, I'm not a soy boy/male feminist or anything, siding with the girl.) You're asking someone to permanently change their body and life for someone they're not even married to. Who TF would do that?

[OlderAndWiser]

Guilt trip? What a great boyfriend you are!

You won't always be her boyfriend but they will always be her boobs. If you don't like them, why are you dating her?

[Morgooo]

How is it not controlling to say you won’t stay with someone unless they get an operation? Sheesh. There’s good reasons for a reduction if she’s in pain, but if you don’t like her appearance, that’s not very nice.

[Backspin2]

I would say so. Many conversations that start with "if you loved me then you would...", are definetely pure manipulation.

[Pterodon]

No and it’ll save her back

[Nachowedgie]

Not your call dude