"I’m not going to actually bully her into like a controlling boyfriend BUT... I told her that if she loved me and wanted to stay with me, she would do it."
Yeah, that's pretty sh*tty, dude. I would 100% agree with her if she broke up with you. That's like a chick asking you to get leg-lengthening surgery because "Being 5'9 is so-so, but I always wanted to date a 6'1 guy. You don't HAVE to do it, but if you expect me to be here next month, you will do it."
Man, I hope you're trolling us right now for the LOLZ. Otherwise, I'd say you're a piece of sh*t, dude. (And no, I'm not a soy boy/male feminist or anything, siding with the girl.) You're asking someone to permanently change their body and life for someone they're not even married to. Who TF would do that?
u Guilt trip? What a great boyfriend you are!
You won't always be her boyfriend but they will always be her boobs. If you don't like them, why are you dating her?
How is it not controlling to say you won’t stay with someone unless they get an operation? Sheesh. There’s good reasons for a reduction if she’s in pain, but if you don’t like her appearance, that’s not very nice.
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I would say so. Many conversations that start with "if you loved me then you would...", are definetely pure manipulation.
No and it’ll save her back
Not your call dude
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