Is bad posture a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I have really bad posture. I slouch a lot. It's probably a combination of me slouching a lot when I use the computer and maybe low confidence.

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Ah okay so follow up question. If I were to fix myself and have good posture, will a girl like me again? I really like this girl but I'm pretty sure she knows I have bad posture. If I were to not see her again for like 4 months and when she sees me again and I have better posture, will she forget I had it?

[Eevee2026]

Yeah, it kinda is. I don't think it's a deal breaker, but it does help a lot when you have good posture. But if you have low confidence sometimes just having good posture helps make you feel better.

[Eevee2026]

Update answer: It doesn't matter if you had it before, it's instantaneous, you automatically look better and she will notice.

[mermaid175]

yes it is. it's an easy way to look confident and if you can't visually appeal to me with that from across the room it's not going to happen between us

[mermaid175]

she will notice the change and if your intentions are good she will notice that

[cinnaminion]

for a lot of people yeah but it's easily fixed.

[cinnaminion]

I think once it's fixed the issue pretty much goes away. like no one is saying "hey stay away from that guy, I saw him slouch one time."

Just work on it and once it's fixed you won't have to worry about it any more.