If a girl says "my dude" is she friend zoning you?

[Cuteguy135]

what does it mean? Does it mean nothing? Is it just that she considers herself a bro, or someone that can hang with the guys?

[Misunderstood07]

Hard to say, most of the time yes it's friend zoning. But I've been friends zoned by girls that wanted to date, I've had a girl sleep with me after she friend zoned me. But if you don't wanna be friend zoned let her know your true interest up front

[Cuteguy135]

She slept with you even though she friendzoned you? How did that happen? If you don't want to state it here, just dm me.

[Cuteguy135]

And yeah, it's confusing :/

[Misunderstood07]

But I understand your situation is confusing I've been threw it many times, if your friend zoned just remember to limit your time with her don't be too available. Sometimes ignore her text to her text just build up that mystery. It may make her curious or want more. Women want what they can't have. Also flirt with her let her know what you want be assertive. Give it time don't overthink this.

[Misunderstood07]

Also some girls just call everyone dude even guys they like. I wish you the best of luck

[Atreyu]

uuuugh mixed signals

dude = friendzoned
my = not friendzoned

does she call other guys her guys or her dudes?

[Cuteguy135]

Not sure. We haven't known each other for too long. I know a few of her friends but not many. Especially her guy friends. Also how does the "my" make a difference?

[Atreyu]

it's possessive. intimate

mine, meaning no one else's.

it would be a bit weird to say that about someone you weren't interested in

[Cuteguy135]

True. It does establish a closer bond for sure.

[Cuteguy135]

Also I just made that into a question lol. Thanks for the idea.

[Atreyu]

lol I have a good one every now and then! :p

[Jaadabyrd]

No not at all. It's kinda like a way of making you feel good. I actually only do that to people I like more often than people I don't. It's kinda like their saying you guys are close, but in a friendly way.

[AquariuslyWonder]

She likes you but that phrase isn't friend zoning you it doesn't mean anything but she feels a special connection with you where she can say you are hers.

[rachel99]

i call my boyfriend my dude and everyone i literally talk to haha. it could be just the way she talks. she sounds interested in you to tbh

[Cuteguy135]

Ok good :) thanks for the opinion!

[XRabbitHeartX]

It means nothing. There is no deeper meaning to the word.

[taleets]

yeah she is

[Cuteguy135]

Could it be that she considers herself a guy (she's tomboyish)?

[taleets]

have you tried to make a move? if you have then she is friendzoning you. she might be manly I don't know

[Cuteguy135]

We met up during a two day event. Since then we have been talking/snapping/txting a lot. We haven't really gotten to know each other well but I feel like there could be something. She has said we'd have to go to Churchill downs someday "and make a day of it" (she lived close to it) and today she jokingly invited me to her family's cookout because we were talking about bratd and food. (But I live 4 hours away) we both go to the same university so it's possible we'll be seeing each other this fall, but she does use the term "thanks my dude" or another variation of it

[Cuteguy135]

Do you have any ideas?

[taleets]

maybe she's into it and has a funny way of showing it. hangout in person and you will know

[CC_bellah]

I know you're talking about girls but my boyfriend has always called me "my dude" lol

[Anonymous]

Try to sleep with her and you will see

[blondfrog]

Yeah probably.