Why do women keep asking where are all the good men at?

Question

So why is it a thing for women of this generation to bitch that their are no good guys left for relationship or complain about lack of men approaching them in college campuses these days?

Also,

For guys:
Are you an avocado or a banana

Banana

Why do women keep asking where are all the good men at?

avocado

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because we can't find them?

I've met plenty of attractive, good men though. However, dating is hard and if I'm not bold enough to ask him out, a lot can be left unsaid and there are missed opportunities everywhere. Also, a lot of the attractive men who meet my standards are also taken lol Or gay *cries*

I dont connect with straight men in general though, I think my energy is too intense and I'm intimidating or a turn off, depending on the guy. My gay and female friends all tell me that. My gay bestie always tells me I'm too intelligent and "too deep" and probably scare them away. But I know I also have a thick wall up with men too so...*sigh* Thank god I'm bisexual or this would be a forever alone situation. :)

For women who dont have my issues, honestly I think it just comes down to changing your social circles and environments, changing the places you look for men and checking your own filter system. Are you interesting, smart, a good communicator, etc. ? Showcasing those traits helps in attracting the right guys, in theory. (If you're not me lol)

Having said that, fuck boys can be found eeeevvveerryyywheeerree.

lovelyhoneybones · Accepted Answer

My definition of a good guy has changed in this past year. Before I thought it was a guy who basically did everything that was "good". He wasn't into drinking, or partying, being promiscuous, he was polite to people even if they weren't polite to him, he was respecting of women.

Then I began meeting a bunch of new guys, guys that were normal dudes. They enjoyed everything that I enjoyed. They had morals even if they weren't necessarily the same morals I had. Their beliefs was something they held firm to and they were polite to people. But they wouldn't exactly fit the image of a gentlemen when you pictured one in your head. That's when I realized that my thinking was off. A good guy is a normal guy.

He isn't some crazy good looking dude who basically let's everyone walk all over him. He isn't someone who always smiles or is polite no matter what. He isn't someone who refrains from getting angry, because anger is natural. It's something we all experience.

A lot of people, including women, get caught up in the way someone looks and that effects how much they accept how they BEHAVE.

Nyx_85 · Accepted Answer

I've never asked that. And I'm from a place where it's actually kind of true. When your friend who is probation officer tells you to be VERY CAREFUL about who you date (while he previously said "I don't know why women complain about guys here") you know there is an issue lol.

UnknownXYZ · Accepted Answer

It is because many women mistakenly believe that the guys they want to "settle" down with are in abundance once she is done messing about about fuckboys and whatnot. It's sad. Really sad. Her analogy makes women look stupid because what she is essentially saying is that women have no self-control and witllshop for something specifically and end up buying something else when the thing she is looking for in the first place is actually there. She completely didn't touch on the idea that maybe women just want bananas since that what is they actually end up buying. This is why I don't take what women want so seriously. I just look at what she does rather than what she says.

Van121986 · Accepted Answer

Because they ignore the good/decent guys when their available or interested in them and go for the exciting/bad guys.

When the good decent men get taken or change into assholes since women are interested in that.

Then women say there are no good guys left.

This very common now, since it pays to be bad.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol i use to watch her, she's funny but cussed too much for my taste to subscribe

I want banana because I'm attracted to the average joe.

And of my 1 year at university and 3 years in community college guys don't approach me on campus. Nor did they in high school. Maybe i don't look approachable

Guys only try to be sneaky in class by exchanging numbers under the pretense of studying. Instead they end up texting me about how cute i am and if we can hang out. I'm like ok sure, when do you wanna study? They tell me no to get to know each other and chill

I'd prefer a cold approach on campus by a guy outside of my class or major but that doesn't happen to me

bbtaka · Answer

Nah, its just people in general. Decent people are easy to find and in some cases, assholes/bitches are easier. Its just that DECENT people that YOU LIKE are rare. Thats why you gotta get out more. Talk to more people, the higher the chances of you meeting someone you like thats actually not a dick/bitch.

Lunette · Answer

1) There's a "some" missing before "women".
2) Because they're human and humans love to complain about all kinds of stuff; even more so if they can blame somebody else for it. And those that complain are louder than those that don't.
3) (This is just my own opinion) Some people nowadays seem to believe that they can go to a bar, club, etc. to find a perfect match there and are surprised if the people they met for the first time that evening weren't looking for a serious relationship.

desidoll · Answer

There are good guys around but a large number of girls don't pay much attention to them because these guys are either average or below average. They want a handsome guy with the nice guy personality 🐽

cutelilPigeon · Answer

I'm sure this applies to some women, typically ones with incredibly high standards with nothing themselves to offer.
But there are women like me that just have a hard time because of social/environmental reasons.

Peachman · Answer

Because there are always going to be shitty guys that are overconfident and good guys that are under confident and because so many girls say they like "bad boys", some good guys will pretend to be a "bad boy" etc

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

The women who do this (and who don't even make up half of all women) have unrealistic expectations of the kind of men who are out there and who would commit to them.

NyomiMcClinton · Answer

Because it seems that a lot of guys in this generation would rather sleep around and use women. Not saying all are like this but a lot are.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

There are good men and women. They just get overlooked cause that's not the ones you want.

TheFlak38 · Answer

What they never ask is what makes them think they deserve a good man.

EmperorOfGAG · Answer

They are those so called nice guys that girls keep rejecting.

Anonymous · Answer

this is about male action suppression. Her and most girls fuck every fuck boy that they can find then try to make one loyal by trying to guilting those men or all men in general. Because this worked a couple of times

marilynmansonssextoy · Answer

There are no good men around where I am, just conformists. xx ~ Mrs Manson

meganthemenace · Answer

Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?

Anonymous · Answer

Because if you will only date a very specific type of guy obviously you're going to be rejecting or even ignoring most guys in general.

lucy39 · Answer

They keep saying it because it seriously is getting harder to find them... and same with decent ladies. hard to find them as well.

meow_ness · Answer

Don't get the banana and avocado thing lol

Logical_Idolist · Answer

Tell her to get off her ass and go look.

Arya_Christ · Answer

I am right now avocado soon to be a banana.

Anonymous · Answer

because they want a handsome one

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