This is me when I hear women asking out loud "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN?"?
Because if you ask me, I think women, who are asking where all the good men are at is logically speaking the same question as asking where all the trees in the forest are:
Or...
Well? What do you think?
Yeah, I agree. That's ridiculous!
Their definition of a good man is a charming prince in shining armor and riding on a unicorn/pegasus, who is also rich
It's a real issue you know? Good men are (becoming) a rarity
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What do you think when women ask "Where are all the good men?"?
I think it's hard to find the right person and that can make it FEEL like there are no "good men/women" out there. Obviously it's not really true, there are plenty of amazing people out there of both genders. It's just a way of expressing that if feels like they're rare or you haven't had luck finding one.
Pointing out the absurdity of this question assumes that most men are automatically good for women and that women somehow don't see them.
Apparently that is not the case and said men are not good for them. But what will you do? Shame these women for having their own standards? So what if she doesn't like the forest? It's her right.
First of all me saying, that women asking this question are being ridiculous does not imply, that most men are automatically good. I don't say the opposite but I'm saying in an indirect way, that those women just don't give good men the time of their day.
Another point would be, that these women aren't attracted to the good men around them.
I'm not going to (foolishly) place the "I'm a nice guy and women don't like nice guys like me" card.
Women can really do whatever they want. I judge them by their actions and words. I think we all have to.
Just 3 weeks ago I was with a old classmate who said almost word for word asking where all the good men were. She was kind enough to include me in the 'good men' group. I soon became clear that she was somehow looking for some mythical man who was perfect and without fault and that her definition of 'good' was by her choosing. She most certainly want everything her way and. But I think was more of a matter of they aren't where you go or are. Quickly men of religious faith, were out, men with children were out, and participation in any coaching of youth was a bad sign also because it would interfere with them. Being successful in business only brought the comment that he must work to his full business potential. I quest that would be defined by her. The more questions I asked the clearer it became that she didn't want a good man because she wouldn't recognize one if she saw him.
Nicely written. So yeah. They are standing in their own way. Let them have it their way, which is being single for all eternity 8) They will eventually learn... or not. I presume since you mentioned old classmate and I see your age displays 67 years (which I think is evidence enough to assume, that she is around your age), she did not learn.
A problem, that solves by itself is what I call it.
Where's all the good women? All I see these days are fake plastic girls with faces covered in makeup and fake-everything (eyelashes, eyebrows, tan, jewellery). I want a women that isn't afraid to look how she was god-damn created to look.
it's mostly ridiculous, but the reason they think this is because the not good men are the loud and confident ones, they are confident because their 'not good' tactics have proven to be very effective in a world where being a slut can't be shamed anymore and fucking 20 different guys before settling down is considered liberating
They are insecure about the lack of attention they are getting. They are so in denial of unattractive features of themselves / their personality (ironic that self entitlement is one of them), that the problem must be there are not enough good men in the world.
::Depending on time and my level of interest in talking to them, I may choose to go through all kinds of possibilities as to why they're not finding "good guys." If I was interested in her and I made it clear before, I'd consider telling her "You missed out on "us."::
Alright... Who said "Their definition of a good man is a charming prince in shining armor and riding on a unicorn/pegasus, who is also rich"? People!!! WHERE HAVE ALL HAVE OF YOU GONE?
That's just speculating of those types of females, who feel like a complete princess and won't settle for less than their own standards, which they do not live up to.
Considering 80% of men are completely invisible to the vast majority of women it doesn't surprise me that they would "think" there's no good men around.
I think they're probably not very bright, usually. Same as when I hear a dude asking the same thing about girls. And I wonder "what exactly is your definition of good then?"
That is so irritating. Open your eyes, there are good men everywhere. I think women that say this are the kind of women that raise the bar so high that they can never be truly happy with any man.
Girls raised with no class seem to have that problem. I don't care. I know exactly where they went. Look at the richest men on Earth, and who they're marrying.
I need a hero! I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of the night He's gotta be strong And he's gotta be fast And he's gotta be fresh from the fight!
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