How can I talk to her if she's always with friends?

[Anonymous]

There's a girl I like, but it's already been 2 weeks of class and I haven't so much as spoken to her. I want to talk to her, but in class, she's always sitting next to three or four other friends, and in the halls she always walks with them and goes wherever they go. So it's impossible to get her alone. And since I've never spoken to her, if she's alone, I don't all of a sudden want to call her name and run up to her because that'll look creepy. So what should I do?

I'm recently coming off a rejection in which I missed all the "uninterested" signs for several months and now I fear that she's gonna be uninterested anyway and I'm just wasting my time.

[MaggieMae14]

listen! don't worry about this regection feeling, girls hate that gys think theyll be rejected but they also hate it wen guys just ask any girl out because they can. this is different, you sound really normal to me lol. I think you should just relax and trust me the best way to get a girls interest is maybe test out with flirting like a smile or something to get her to notice you and if she takes to you, then the best way to impress her is not to try at all. itll get under skin, shell come running and calling your name instead ;) . if she doesn't come to you then she mst be very shy, and you should just say hi, you have nothing to loose, even if you just mouth the words while walking past her. shell think about it later on.

just be yourself and have fun, if you smile and laugh and hae fun with your friends in front of her shell deffinetly notice you fr something no doubt. if she doesnt, don't waste your time.

[KandyKB]

You could try asking her if she had time to talk to you and pull her off to the side, that may get her alone and then you don't seem creepy either. Or if you had her email you could even try just emailing her and telling her that way although doing it in person would be better. Another option is to just start off talking to her with her friends, you could sit beside them in class and by doing that you can get to know her and then later talk to her alone and see how things go. Either way good luck :)

[peacelove22]

First off, you have to think that she likes you too. Boost your ego and whenever you see her just give her a little smile. And say hi to her and when she realizes that your doing this continuosly then set her aside and ask if she wants to hangout.

[PilatesGuy]

Stop trying so hard you muppet. Smile and say "hi" next time she passes you, with friends or without them. If you want to go out with her then you'll have to get on with her friends anyway, so you might as well be polite.

Frankly it's a bit creepy that you only want to talk to her when she's on her own. What are you going to do? Protest undying love? I don't think that'll get you anywhere mate.

Say "hi" and take it from there. If she's not interested then maybe one of her cute friends will be.

To be honest you don't sound like you're between 18 and 24 from this question. You sound more like you're under 16.

[Asker]

Well, no, the thing is I don't have good social skills---bigger groups make me nervous. When I talk one-on-one, I'm more comfortable with myself.

[PilatesGuy]

Well maybe you could use this as an opportunity to work on that. People can and do change - and if you have to isolate your girlfriend from her friends before you can talk to her, then people are definitely going to find you creepy. That's just not psychologically healthy.

[noctum]

Simple get to know someone from the gruop.. one of the guys or ugliest girl..they will be easier to you start talking to and then get into the gruop..eventually you'll be talkign with the girl you wanna meet and be conforable enough to ask her her phone or email or just hang out with her without the others